No worry.. You still have more years to wait... Monkey

It`s impossible... Hate would only come immediately the love diminishes coz love can`t be varnished once.

Because their wants and needs are insatiable. They want to dress like Nicki Minaj, Like Kim Kardashians so they need someone who can give them all these things they don`t care if he really wants them or just for sex as far they get what they want. While in other aspect, some have more than one partner bcoz they are never been satisfied segxwally by their partner. I think many women choose another partner coz of segxwal satisfaction and not for money or look and that`s why you are surprise seeing some beautiful girls dying for some guys who don`t eve worth them. That`s life....

We all know the answer to this question. They want already made man coz they don`t want to go through the sufferness their parent and grand parent passed through. It`s few that are so lucky to get away with that while the rest are losers.

I`m happy for her... Congrats

That's ma role model Adigun and his beautiful son indeed Zion. "Don't compare him wit anyone he stand up he remain †ђξ chosen one. Don't relate him wit sum prodigal sons play. His CD and enjoy his song" won bi iya eyan

Nice date... Where's †ђξ location? And is there going to be a gate fee? Or

Even Heskey elero.. Sikiru Emila changed his name to Emile Heskey. What Ɣ☺ΰ pple think I can
change ma own name to whn I travel out?

How can we satisfy women

I suspected my 3and half years relationship to be heading in a BROKEN way. I observed that her heart belongs to somebody else so i asked her no to ever call me again cos of her waywardness and not been a straightfwd person. Its always a week nw she doesnt call,flash or sms which to me she had succumb to all i've been accusin her of. I dnt knw what to do, should i still hope on her or i should just move on wit ma life. Am scare to go into new relationship as i dnt knw wat to expect frm it. Pls pals i need ur advice pls no insult....

@Divineproject.. Thanks for the advice

I understand that No money no love. But i don`t expect a woman to walk out of a relationship of 4years when things started falling apart. When there was money,good moment we shared it together but i expect her to be there now that things is not the same. I tried all i could to make her happy, to find a solution but she don`t even wants to be there to giv a hand. I don`t think money should be everything though i know its very IMPORTANT. Can i ever win her heart back? or i should just leave her and focus on how to get things back to normal for me. What a women life!!! Am hurt but life goes on..... :'( :'(

Many people ask why they are deprived of happiness, harmonious family relations and how to get them back? There is no doubt that happiness of family first of all depends on a couple itself.Do you know a secret of marital happiness and well-being? It is very simple: the main thing - a happy wife, and then she will take care of everything else. Well,  how to make her happy? All this is so difficult as it might seem at first glance.

 Well, how to make ur woman happy?

1. Try not to pay attention to some shortcomings of your wife, and always remember that her dignity and noble qualities will hide minor shortcomings. If you do not like one quality in her, then you will be pleased with another one.

2. Never humiliate your wife, because it leaves a trace in her heart for a long. The most dangerous humiliations - those that your wife can forgive on words, but will never forgive in heart - insults, when you are angry, curse of her parents, accusations of infidelity, etc

3. Remember that your wife always wants to stay aBosom  of what is happening with you, so talk to her often. Returning home, try not to be doomed, grim, silent. All this can cause fear and suspicions in your wife.

4. Beware to cause your wife’s sense of jealousy specially or by accidentally said words, that you are offered to marry a second wife. Do not show your delight with other woman. All this could wound your wife’s heart deeply, make her worrying and doubting in you, which, in its turn, will affect her health, as well as respect for you.

5. Do not remind your wife about her physical shortcomings or mistakes, especially in front of strangers. Do not reproach her.

6. Watch your behavior and try to transform, educate yourself, because not only your wife is obliged to do so. Do not keep your old bad habits. Avoid anything that could cause anger in your wife, even if it’s just a joke.

7. Be always calm and never go mad, because anger - a source of hatred among people. If you offended your wife, apologize immediately. Do not go to bed being angry with your wife, while she is offended and crying. Try to understand why you were angry - it is something small, not worth your wife’s tears.

8. Allow your wife feeling confidence. Do not make her your shadow, which should follow you, forgiving all your whims. Instead, encourage her to have her own views on life. Consult with her in all cases. Listen to her, if you see she is right, and tell her about it. If you do not agree with her, then try to convince her discreetly and politely.

9. Try to give your wife an opportunity to receive education. If she wants to obtain a license in any industry, support her, unless it does not prevent her from carrying out marital duties and domestic affairs. Every time she succeeds, encourage her.

10. Your love to your wife should not prevent you from loving your parents or relatives. Each of them should get their share of your love. Love all, not forgetting anybody. This will ensure harmony in family relations.


I know there are many ways for men to keep their women happy but i believe these little ones will be useful for both men and women reading this post. Thanks for reading

The last time i posted 12 attributes of a good woman,most people love it and there are men and women in da house who are demanding for the attributes of a good man...But let me tell you,there just aren’t any good men in this town. The trick isn’t to find a “good man” but to find one who is real and figure out if you can learn to deal with his imperfections. Here are 12 signs the man you’ve found is a real man. It’s up to you what you do with him after you find him.


1. Are first and foremost, gentlemen. They are polite, respectful, considerate and attentive to a woman’s needs. They open the door, pull her chair, lend their coat, offer to escort her home, pay for the dinner and kiss her goodbye on the cheek not on the lips. Good guys never cross the line of being inappropriate.

2. Are not intimidated by strong women. Good guys are not threatened by women who speak their minds, have different opinions, show passion or the causes they believe in or perhaps, earn more money than them. They see strong women as a gift to society because they are the ones who have the power to change things for the better.

3. He’s Patient –A real man won’t try to force you to be with him. He’ll try to impress you and convince you that he’s worth your time, but he won’t force you to do anything. If you find a real man you won’t have to worry about unwanted groping, date rape, or worse. He’ll take the time to get to know you and take things at a speed you’re comfortable with.A real man will wait for you to open your arms to him. Good guys are humble guys. They don’t need to beat themselves in the chest to show they are better, stronger, smarter, more successful or more handsome than other men. The ego is the enemy of good guys and they usually have it under control.
 
4. Are supportive to woman’s personal and career goals. They understand the importance of individual growth outside the relationship realm. Good guys see their woman’s success as their own success. Therefore, they prefer to encourage her to move forward as opposed to oppress her desires for expansion.

5. Write cards, send text messages, buy flowers and cook dinners for a woman as an act of thoughtfulness. Good guys don’t need an occasion to express their love. They just do it spontaneously. See their woman as the most beautiful, glorious, magnificent and unique woman in the entire Universe! Other beautiful women may catch a good guy’s eye but his heart and soul belong to her!

6. Keep their word. If they promised to call, stop by, take you out or do anything else, they stick to their promise. If they are unable to fulfill their promise, good guys have a sensible explanation…not a lame excuse.

7. Are not jealous. Good guys don’t require for a woman to check with them every single hour, to give them detailed reports on who she’s speaking to on the phone, to document every one of her activities or to follow everywhere she goes. They are secure enough in themselves to need a constant reaffirmation of the status of their relationship.

8. He’s Flexible –A real man might not be able to touch his own toes, let alone bend into a human pretzel. But he will be able to sleep on concrete, wear the same clothes for days, and survive for indefinite periods of time in beer and ramen noodles. Any man who says he couldn’t survive under the same conditions is either lying to appeal to your fair nose or is hiding a sex change. If he’s being real with you, he’ll admit to his, um, flexibility when it comes to lifestyle options. How is this good for you? A real man’s flexibility means he’ll be able to take your ups and downs, curves and flats, and wild ideas in stride. If a real man loves you, he’ll flex to you. That’s huge.

9. Are in touch with their romantic side. They are not afraid to express their emotions, talk about their feelings, show their interest and do it in the most romantic ways possible. Good guys can make a woman’s heart melt from miles away just by opening their romantic side and letting the love flow. Make love to a woman’s soul at the same time as her body. Merging with her soul is their ultimate goal…not just a mere orgasm.

10. Have achieved a balance in their lives on their own. Good guys have invested enough time in all aspects in their development – family, education, career, health, hobbies, interests and sports. They are happy with who they are and are satisfied with their lives.

11. Will find time and place for you no matter how busy and crazy their schedule may be. Good guys never use the excuse, “Sorry, but I was busy with work.” If they want to be with you, they will move mountains, sail oceans, cross continents, fly countries and do anything they can to be with their special woman.

12. Don’t use past relationship disappointments as excuses to why they don’t want to commit to a woman. What happened in the past, stays there. What’s important is the here and the now…and that is YOU!

I will surely giv testimony if i found one good woman....still searchin.. there r sum questions asked by sum pals here dat need no answer,i mean those dat wanna knw root of d post,they will neva appreciate things no matter hw small its...they always ask 4 more... mayb if i see their real PIC..i can giv dem the answer they need. And for those good pals dat wanna knw the signs of a good man...its coming soon...just watch outI will surely giv testimony if i found one good woman....still searchin.. there r sum questions asked by sum pals here dat need no answer,i mean those dat wanna knw root of d post,they will neva appreciate things no matter hw small its...they always ask 4 more... mayb if i see their real PIC..i can giv dem the answer they need. And for those good pals dat wanna knw the signs of a good man...its coming soon...just watch out

Thanks everybody 4 ur comments. I myself lukin for a gud woman dat posses at least half or 7 of d attributes coz i knw dat its hard 4 a woman to posses all. Women in da house,if u have at least 7 or 8 of d attributes pls dnt hesitate to holla me... And 4 those of u who ar expectin signs of a gud man... Its coming soon. May God preserve our soul till then (Amen)

@Cintetic, i think u should knw urself if u av at least 7 or 8 of d attributes cos i knw myself dat its difficult for woman to possess all. so am lookin for a woman who possess average or more of these mentioned above@blarkberry,signs of a good man is comin soon...thank u all pals....

I know most of men`s problem in this world is to find a good woman even me myself and some men have at some point or other in their lives been deceived and dazed by a woman's looks. Many of them have wasted countless hours and spent small fortunes chasing after women who lied to them and basically treated them like dirt. Some regret the lost opportunity to the marry a woman who was not exactly physically attractive but was a good woman.

There is really no "standard" litmus test for telling right away that a woman is "a good woman" or one of those "other" ones.

Here are just a few things to look for when you meet or date a girl/woman:

1. She is family oriented: She has a close relationship with her family and avoids bad worldly external elements that may taint its sanctity and purity.

2. Compassionate and gentle: Avoids yelling and hurtful confrontational words that can later cause long term damage and resentment.

3. She has a big heart: Thinks about others and knows how to talk to them and treat them.

4. Unselfish: Considers you in every situation. She does her part of the work in the relationship to make it strong.

5. Good with kids: If she is unable to be patient and understanding with kids, it is quite possible that she will not be able to be patient and understanding with you.

6. Cooks and cleans well: I might be hated for this comment but let's face it. Women are virtually useless if they do not have domestic skills. Don't get me wrong, men should learn these things too. It's just that you should expect this from women just like women expect a man to buy her a drink. They naturally attain a gift for maintaining life at home with every gentle touch. What a beautiful thing.

7. Patient: Sometimes this may be difficult given that time of month but a good woman will have patience. She will not rush you into saying "I Love You", living together or getting married in the first week of the relationship. Watch out for women who rush into things without giving it some time. Nine times out of ten it's not because you are "different from any other guy she's met", and has done this many times before.

8. Sense of humor: If she has a good sense of humor and loves to laugh most of the time. This is a big plus. Her willingness to have fun and play around. Pillow fights, air hockey battles, bowling, play wrestling, dancing, and singing are among some simple examples. Life is not that serious all the time so we must learn to drop our corporate grown-up act occasionally. We are all still children.

9. Tactful with class: One way to tell if a woman has tact is the way she eats. If she devours food and acts as if nothing else around her exists, that's not good. There is nothing more disappointing than a female slob.

10. Can enjoy and appreciate the simple things: a good woman should be able to enjoy the simplest things in life. Sitting down together and talking over some tea or wine. If she is not able to enjoy the bare minimum, it's time to look for somebody new. A good woman appreciates what she has been given. It's the simplest things in life that count.

11. Hard working & frugal: Is positive about her job and works hard at it. Does not complain and nag about work all the time. Knows how to save her money and spend it realistically (not caught up in lavish living unless affordable). She does not use your money all the time and belittle you for not having enough.

12. Honest: is not afraid to tell you the truth even though you may not like it.

Pals.. hope this thread helps especially men for in da house...

WTF... how can u just do such a thing whn men are many looking for u especially such a beautiful girl like.Even the one wit tribal marks all over her face settle down wit a responsible man. Ohhhh Or do u think he will join u in heaven so u can continue the wedding... Am sorry..may God forgive ur sins...

I possess all u demanded and am ready cos i knw i will get back whatever slipped away frm my pocket. Contact me....shhhhhhhhh