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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Why is Abortion such a hot potato? |
on: 26-08-2011 07:06 PM
| Ladies who are up in arms defending women's rights, consider that apart from third world countries, in Western Europe abortion-on-demand clinics are heavily funded by central government. In my view this encourages laxity and moral decadence. Why? If a woman has to pay for it, she will think twice before segxwal indulgence. This is therefore a poor use of public fund.
@ gibsonpally, I commend your points but let's face reality. Public funds are used to enable poor women to access the same medical services as rich women, and abortion is one of these services. Funding abortion is no different from funding a war in the Mideast. For those who are opposed, the place to express outrage is in the voting booth. Again very good reasoning beautiful Rose, but unfortunately those who choose abortions are often minors or young women with insufficient life experience to understand fully what they are doing. Many have lifelong regrets afterwards. @ gibsonpally, beautiful exchange from you but remember that teenagers who become mothers have grim prospects for the future. They are much more likely to drop out of school; receive inadequate prenatal care; rely on public assistance to raise a child; develop health problems; or end up divorced. It is therefore proper to spare them that terrible life experience and to achieve this, abortion is the best option. Child rearing is not a simple task. That is why the society must reform and go back to strict morality code. A teenager has no business playing mum and dad when she cannot even sustain herself. Moral decadence is at the root of this problem. It is therefore essential to observe strict moral code and not this segxwal abandonment in the age of space and internet without repercussion. @ gibsonpally, like any other difficult situation, abortion creates stress. Yet it had been psychologically proven that stress was greatest prior to an abortion, and that there was no evidence of post-abortion syndrome @ Rosemerry, I see that you have taken a very hard stand comparable to steel. We shall continue this very highly interesting and educative discourse at a later time, sweetie. Best and kindest regards. It has been a very thrilling discussion, my dear Gibsonpally. I can't wait till the next time. Have a wonderful day, sweetie. | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Why is Abortion such a hot potato? |
on: 26-08-2011 06:56 PM
| Ladies who are up in arms defending women's rights, consider that apart from third world countries, in Western Europe abortion-on-demand clinics are heavily funded by central government. In my view this encourages laxity and moral decadence. Why? If a woman has to pay for it, she will think twice before segxwal indulgence. This is therefore a poor use of public fund.
@ gibsonpally, I commend your points but let's face reality. Public funds are used to enable poor women to access the same medical services as rich women, and abortion is one of these services. Funding abortion is no different from funding a war in the Mideast. For those who are opposed, the place to express outrage is in the voting booth. Again very good reasoning beautiful Rose, but unfortunately those who choose abortions are often minors or young women with insufficient life experience to understand fully what they are doing. Many have lifelong regrets afterwards. @ gibsonpally, beautiful exchange from you but remember that teenagers who become mothers have grim prospects for the future. They are much more likely to drop out of school; receive inadequate prenatal care; rely on public assistance to raise a child; develop health problems; or end up divorced. It is therefore proper to spare them that terrible life experience and to achieve this, abortion is the best option. Child rearing is not a simple task. That is why the society must reform and go back to strict morality code. A teenager has no business playing mum and dad when she cannot even sustain herself. Moral decadence is at the root of this problem. It is therefore essential to observe strict moral code and not this segxwal abandonment in the age of space and internet without repercussion. @ gibsonpally, like any other difficult situation, abortion creates stress. Yet it had been psychologically proven that stress was greatest prior to an abortion, and that there was no evidence of post-abortion syndrome | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Why is Abortion such a hot potato? |
on: 26-08-2011 06:36 PM
| Ladies who are up in arms defending women's rights, consider that apart from third world countries, in Western Europe abortion-on-demand clinics are heavily funded by central government. In my view this encourages laxity and moral decadence. Why? If a woman has to pay for it, she will think twice before segxwal indulgence. This is therefore a poor use of public fund.
@ gibsonpally, I commend your points but let's face reality. Public funds are used to enable poor women to access the same medical services as rich women, and abortion is one of these services. Funding abortion is no different from funding a war in the Mideast. For those who are opposed, the place to express outrage is in the voting booth. Again very good reasoning beautiful Rose, but unfortunately those who choose abortions are often minors or young women with insufficient life experience to understand fully what they are doing. Many have lifelong regrets afterwards. @ gibsonpally, beautiful exchange from you but remember that teenagers who become mothers have grim prospects for the future. They are much more likely to drop out of school; receive inadequate prenatal care; rely on public assistance to raise a child; develop health problems; or end up divorced. It is therefore proper to spare them that terrible life experience and to achieve this, abortion is the best option. | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Why is Abortion such a hot potato? |
on: 26-08-2011 06:21 PM
| Ladies who are up in arms defending women's rights, consider that apart from third world countries, in Western Europe abortion-on-demand clinics are heavily funded by central government. In my view this encourages laxity and moral decadence. Why? If a woman has to pay for it, she will think twice before segxwal indulgence. This is therefore a poor use of public fund.
@ gibsonpally, I commend your points but let's face reality. Public funds are used to enable poor women to access the same medical services as rich women, and abortion is one of these services. Funding abortion is no different from funding a war in the Mideast. For those who are opposed, the place to express outrage is in the voting booth. | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Why is Abortion such a hot potato? |
on: 26-08-2011 07:25 AM
| @ jennypriceson, available reseach showed adoption is a viable alternative to abortion and accomplishes the same result. And with 1.5 million American families wanting to adopt a child, there is no such thing as an unwanted child.
Adoption is not an alternative to abortion, because it remains the woman's choice whether or not to give her child up for adoption. Statistics show that very few women who give birth choose to give up their babies - less than 3% of white unmarried women and less than 2% of black unmarried women. @ Jenny sis, I am impressed. Another point that I wish to contribute to this point is safety of the procedure. Abortion is now a safe medical procedure. The vast majority of women - 88% - who have an abortion do so in their first trimester. Medical abortions have less than 0.5% risk of serious complications and do not affect a woman's health or future ability to become pregnant or give birth. @ jennypriceson, whilst that may be so, medical evidence suggests that abortion can result in medical complications later in life; the risk of ectopic pregnancies doubles, and the chance of a miscarriage and pelvic inflammatory disease also increases. @ Danpatrick, apart from medical issues involved have considered a pregnancy forced upon a woman? Look at it this way: In the case of rape or incest, forcing a woman made pregnant by this violent act would cause further psychological harm to the victim. Often a woman is too afraid to speak up or is unaware she is pregnant, thus the morning after pill is ineffective in these situations. So abortion is the right course of action. @tarakhanali, I agree that any forced segxwal intercourse is abominable conduct but in the instance of rape and incest, proper medical care can ensure that a woman will not get pregnant. Abortion punishes the unborn child who committed no crime; instead, it is the perpetrator who should be punished. @ Danpatrick, the point and force of tara's argument is that a frightened victim of rape or incest may have become pregnant by that singular violent act at that point in time. Any medical help will come after conception have already taken place. The proper medical care you referred to that will ensure she will not get pregnant is either too late or it means destroying the embryonic foetus. It is still abortion. @ smithengal, superb reasoning!  I am for pro-choice and agree with you. Another argument being used against abortion is that it should not be used as a form of contraception but such argument falls flat when you consider that pregnancy can occur even with responsible contraceptive use. Only 8% of women who have abortions do not use any form of birth control, and that is due more to individual carelessness than to the availability of abortion. Ladies I lift off my hat in salutation for your reasooned arguments in defence of the woman. I still don't understand this right to kill. @ bigbonecrusher, the ability of a woman to have control of her body is critical to civil rights. Take away her reproductive choice and you step onto a slippery slope. If the government can force a woman to continue a pregnancy, what about forcing a woman to use contraception or undergo sterilization? | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Why is Abortion such a hot potato? |
on: 26-08-2011 06:38 AM
| @ jennypriceson, available reseach showed adoption is a viable alternative to abortion and accomplishes the same result. And with 1.5 million American families wanting to adopt a child, there is no such thing as an unwanted child.
Adoption is not an alternative to abortion, because it remains the woman's choice whether or not to give her child up for adoption. Statistics show that very few women who give birth choose to give up their babies - less than 3% of white unmarried women and less than 2% of black unmarried women. @ Jenny sis, I am impressed. Another point that I wish to contribute to this point is safety of the procedure. Abortion is now a safe medical procedure. The vast majority of women - 88% - who have an abortion do so in their first trimester. Medical abortions have less than 0.5% risk of serious complications and do not affect a woman's health or future ability to become pregnant or give birth. @ jennypriceson, whilst that may be so, medical evidence suggests that abortion can result in medical complications later in life; the risk of ectopic pregnancies doubles, and the chance of a miscarriage and pelvic inflammatory disease also increases. @ Danpatrick, apart from medical issues involved have considered a pregnancy forced upon a woman? Look at it this way: In the case of rape or incest, forcing a woman made pregnant by this violent act would cause further psychological harm to the victim. Often a woman is too afraid to speak up or is unaware she is pregnant, thus the morning after pill is ineffective in these situations. So abortion is the right course of action. @tarakhanali, I agree that any forced segxwal intercourse is abominable conduct but in the instance of rape and incest, proper medical care can ensure that a woman will not get pregnant. Abortion punishes the unborn child who committed no crime; instead, it is the perpetrator who should be punished. @ Danpatrick, the point and force of tara's argument is that a frightened victim of rape or incest may have become pregnant by that singular violent act at that point in time. Any medical help will come after conception have already taken place. The proper medical care you referred to that will ensure she will not get pregnant is either too late or it means destroying the embryonic foetus. It is still abortion. @ smithengal, superb reasoning! I am for pro-choice and agree with you. Another argument being used against abortion is that it should not be used as a form of contraception but such argument falls flat when you consider that pregnancy can occur even with responsible contraceptive use. Only 8% of women who have abortions do not use any form of birth control, and that is due more to individual carelessness than to the availability of abortion. | | | | |
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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Virgin Mary Spotted In Abidjan, Ivory Coast (Video) |
on: 20-08-2011 09:10 PM
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Virgin ma azz! Who in the world is going to believe this kind of story? Well,it's only in Africa that poverty is killing everybody that can accept this hoax! Why didn't Virgin Mary show herself in Saudi Arabia or Kuwait?! It only in Africa these miraculous things always happen...Africa I bow oooo!  As if they can distinguish Mary from Alice if they see her. The white man that introduced this religion to Africa never carried it on his shoulder nor is he shouting from the roof-tops like helpless starving Africans! Mary didn't show herself in Isreal yet but chose Ivory Coast, this war torn country on the verge of bankruptcy with begging bow. Some extreme poverty is life threatening and can drive a man crazy. I think that is what is happening there. Don't mind the ignorant natives. They never saw their ancestors on the face of the moon or stars yet preferred to gaze into sun to see Adam and Eve and Mary with Jesus waving at them. LOL | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Dating red flags no man should ignore |
on: 15-08-2011 01:57 PM
| Very interesting piece @ livingday. But what are the red flags women should be looking out for in dating men?
abi? Loneliness may be individual's choice of lifestyle. The real red flags are 'aggression, rebounding and evasiveness'Well said @ brendivas and dukkieson. | | | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Dating red flags no man should ignore |
on: 15-08-2011 01:55 PM
| Very interesting piece @ livingday. But what are the red flags women should be looking out for in dating men?
abi? my dear all these have happend to me too but now am just been careful not to be a victim of such again in my life. You are not alone, my dear sister. Some men have animal feelings but smooth talking to deceive. @ jennypriceson, don't 4get that women can be very deceptive too. They can give as much as they get from men if not more. That's what I referred to as the dark soul and two-timing nature of both women and men. You need to lend your shoulder to a weeping man and hear his tale of broken heart wrought by a woman and you will know how baby-like men really are when broken.   Right @ tarakhanali. This love of a thing is like survival of the fittest between the two lovers. Anyone of them can inflict maximum damage when he or she falls out of love. | | | | |
