No matter the circumstances that caused a man or woman to lose virginity, the person is no longer a virgin. I am a man and I lost my virnity in a dream. I dreamed of sex with a female friend and woke up with sperm all over my clothes in the morning. Most girls in Nigeria lose their virginity by force. Growing up, u would hardly find a girl who would give a full consent to have sex, but they would continue to pretend while enjoying it.

The reason emphasis on virginity is placed on the women than men is because most men start ejaculating in their sleep soon after puberty, while women would have to endure some pain of penetration and tissue damage to lose their own virginity.

Nametalkam, are u trying to be funny, why are u thanking Jonathan? What does Jonathan have to do with the oil discovery? Foriegn companies have been working/exploiting/exploring our oil right from the word go - Jonathan was a small boy when it started. That is the condition Jonathan's predecessors created for the country. U can be naive or funny all you want, but leave Jonathan out of it because he is not the Legislature that can promulgate a law to ban foreign exploration in the country. Secondly, past leaders of the country enjoyed the kickback they received from foreign companies; therefore, has not invested wisely on Human Capital, R&D, and other technologies that would help us become independent of foreign compnies.

It is really a thing of pride for a woman to tell her would-be husband that she is till a virgin. I also think most men appreciate the preserve of a woman's most natural pride. How on earth would a man say he does not like to marry a virgin? If your dick is not strong enough to disvirgin a woman, then you don't need to be phyuking - you need to see a doctor. Why do people phyuk anal, isn't it because they are looking for tight compartment to give them more friction?
Every woman could become promiscous whether virgin or not, it all depends on how well men treat their women: satisfaction in bed, provide for her needs, be there when she needs you, encourage her to avoid bad friends and show her enough love. After doing all these and the woman turns out to be bad wife, then she was not your in the first place. Unfortunately there's no way one would determin a good wife untill u actually marries her - and she begins to unfold her real self. My stand on the topic: Yes, women who stayed virgins till they got married (to the man who disvirgined them) tend to pride themselves and faithfulness while staying married. That is why women often stay close (as friends or lovers) to the men that disvirgined them even after marrying another person.

Is Islamic religion a troubled faith? Why does its practitioners cause havoc all over the world? There is nothing wrong with Pope praying for our country, we need more and more of such prayers. But, the unfortubate thing is the politics that the world is playing with the country called Nigeria. Have we not made it clear that Nigeria needs division? Does the UN claim ignorance that Nigeria cannot exist anylonger as a country? When will the world leaders assist Nigeria to disband the myopic union of three unidentical nations? Perhaps these issues are among the areas we need the Pope to concentrate the papal watch and prayers on - and everyday too.

Poster, we are still waiting for more info: Did the boy die? Were they able to revive him? Was there any Doctor in the hospital or on call? How many nurses were at the hospital at the time? How long was the woman at work before the situation? Was she burnt out due to hospital negligence to schedule enough nurses? Was there any "emergency program/procedure" in place? Did she make any type of contact with hospital authorities and EMS before resorting to prayers? If she did, did the doctors and emegency team arrive on time - otherwise she could also have been overwhelmed by the circumstances.

If the boy survived the ordeal, I say give her back her license because God answered the prayers, if otherwise, let God still be her fortress.

Let us call a spade what it is: she made bad judgment. I'm not a nurse but I dont't think nurses were taught to pray first before administering the right medication, or notifying authority for emergency. I also think it is part of the medical psychology/studies to avoid being overcome by emotions in case of emergency. She could have saved herself the headache by just calling in the doctors, other nurses, DNR team and EMS.

Poster more information is needed: was she alone in the hospital, was she a personal nurse to the patiant, did she hit the panic button to alert the doctors etc?
It is unfornate it happened to her, the authorities would revisit her case with time. But now, they have to take such extreme measure to calm down some anger.

Depends on the mood and how hungry each partner is to do it. Plus how the man does his work on the woman. I usually do the damage (get her body tuned to receiving the job) before I start using my rod. Unfortunately, Nigerian men are selfish in bed - they only think about their own orgasm not the woman's. For me, I make sure she cums first so the walls would be lubricated for my big rod. I hate digging in a dry honeypot; and artificial lubes are not always safe for women. So guys, foreplay, eat all u can eat, finger the much she could let u, drink her milk as much as she could produce it, do the work, and she will cum first and the rest is history. So depending on whom u ask, I say women first  - all things being equal.

KB my sis, is this U? I think I will leave fake pastor issue for now and flirt a little with this your photo - lol.

Yes it's a sin to be overly rich. Riches originate from greed, greed leads to envy and both lead to destruction. Christ had the opportunity to become the richest person while on earth, He did not exploit His followers by mere sweet mouth, He did not delight in the things of the world, and He never staged a member(s) of His congregation to fake tormented by evil spirit, quote: "get on the ground, fall, jump, out, faint, pass out, up etc. This shows carefully rehearsed, carefully orchestrated and carefully coreographed presentation by the fake pastor and his cohoots. Little did he know the journalist would interview the lady whom he spotted (or by tipoff) early amongst the fake pastor's crew: did everyone notice how the pastor made the lady wear extra clothings so her private parts or undergarments would not be exposed during the fake torment? Otherwise which girl in Nigeria wears all those things at one time under the scorching heat? Christ and His apostles never needed to impress the odience to influence beliefs. This guy overdramatized the whole thing. Bytheway, does the phrase "reward in Heaven" ring a bell to the ears of all greedy pastors? Anyway, they are not even thinking of Heaven when they are here on earth amassing too much wealth and living their lives like they are seated at the right hand of God already. Those who have ears let them hear: stop giving your money to fake pastors, give to the needy, the helpless and those physically challenged to help themselves, help the poor people in your community; God would accept your gifts to the poor as tithes and offerings. Afterall, Christ told us that God loves those who give without exposing thei gifts to amaze others. Because He promised that His Fathers who see in darkness would surely see your goodwork and bless you. Stop pleasing the fake pastors who have accepted the earth as a place to accept rewards for their dishonest service to the word of God.

She has no values. She lost battle with morality when she aborted 14 babies. Who on earth is the Dr. that carried out the abortions? Did he ask her how many abortions she already had. Unless she went to different doctors, cos she was high risk abortion. Anyway, there is nothing left in her for a fruitful marriage. "It's not normal for people to chase (look for) their black goat when darkness sets in".  She needs to ask God for forgiveness and leave revange to fate.

No he did not go too far. It would have been too far if he started shooting to kill the bad wife and friend.
He deserve an award for staying focused, composed and carring out the plan without a leak.

Percywn: Sorry for the aggravation caused u by pals' comments. There is no doubt u are one of them - peradventure, his PRO. Just look at yourself, if u know the history of christianity in Africa, u would come to Naijapals to confess all your bad stewardship to misleading gospels of the bad pastors.

Every comment that disagrees with the practices and lifestyle of your pastor was supported by references to God's Words. I would have loved to hear u, since you have chosen yourself to be his spokesman, refute the quoted scriptures than mere sentiments to blindfold people some more. For your information, nobody cares how u feel or think - just accept it that Sign Fireman is exposed like other bad eggs in the church. Perhaps you need to refresh yourself of what christianity is - followers and believers of Christ's teachings, means "Christ-like".  In what ways does this manfire show the Christ in him - as the light that suppose to shine so people would see the good work in him and glorify his father in Heaven? Please don't be equally yoked with evil and manipulative business.

What tribe in Nigeria does this "Sign Fireman" come from? We need to verify his birth and elementary school records. The name does not relate to Nigerian names. I hope Nigerian Immigration investigates him.

We all have read the Bible, no part of the BIble said Jesus Christ was a millioniar. He was only rich in spirit - filled with good work, love and mercy, and prepared to carry out the asignment for which His Father (Almighty God) sent him on earth - to die for our salvation. Would this fireman pastor die for his congregation? No way! just try to arrest hime for a day, he will hire the highest lawyer on earth or escape with his ill-gotten helicopter. Every attempt by rich traders to swing Christ's faith to worldly riches He Turned down: remember the quote, "give to Caesar what belongs to Caesar and to God what belongs to Him"? "my father's house should not be house of traders of filty lucre" (warning for wealthy traders in the synagogue). Most footwear Jesus Christ had on according to photos, were slippers, not multi-million aligator and crocodiles shoes/clothing. Christ did not drive expensive cars, He lived the life of the meek.

Time has come for us to question the authenticity of the "Don't Ask Don't Tell" biblical scripture labelled "Blasphemy". Oh please, wake up and smell the coffee, those were words the early founders of the doctrine used to fool, enchant and mesmerize their followers. Like those days we were told not to read the seven books of moses, else you become a mad person - pleeaasseeee!

ARIESPAPUZZI: good comments, and yet one more seed: the seed of "Ezinne Title, Nneoma Nwere Ugo" conferred on our mothers by catholic priests. I remember the day my mother received the tilte: the Rev Father was the master of celemony - with microphone in his hands, calling out our names, chanting "come and show the world your mother has iroko trees, returnees from overseas etc while keeping his eyes on the collection baskets located strategically. Jesus Christ would have shawned anybody who came to church to show off his/her riches. Pastors need to tell us which of the Jesuses they are following or preaching? Oh! one more seed: the seed of successful burial of loved ones, including the seed of memorial service after mourning the dead. Thank God Christ has already risen from death, otherwise these greedy pasters would have woken Him up before the appointed time.

123Sonia: Good comments, Darkcoco: please wake up from the slumber - make u dey there de sleep till "man of gods" uses his evil means to siphone your blood to refill his helicopter, Hummer, etc fuel. The journalist is African, perhaps a Nigerian, with some British ascent. Anyway, where he comes from does not matter, but the message in his findings. And for the little minds, Nigeria is not the only country where fake pastors are exposed. Those with regular access to Internet would know many church leaders have been under the microscopes in recent times..

Actually there are software in the market already that enable special effects/punctions on many languages including Igbo. The software is downloadable, but easier to buy and instal it on your computer. I used the trial version of it last year.

KB, asim ndu nmiri ndu azu. Egbe bere ugo bere. M na'ayo olisa bi na igwe ka o juputa ebun na'uche anyi nili na afo oma ya, ma mezuo nkwa ngozi na oganihu ya na ndu anyi. Nwannem, anwuchile maka ekpere oma dum i kperele m. O ga adiri nma n'aha Olisa bi na Igweh. Ka Chineke mezie okwu.

kebela, nwa oma, ezigbo nwafo igbo. Udo dikwara gi. Amabughi m na i bu onye uko chukwu rue otua. Omalicha nwa igbo ji eme onu. M na eweliri gi aka elu maka ihe dum na ntuzi aka nile i na ede na atuzikwa tutubo-tutubo (respectively) na naijapali.

O were ewu na okuko anya na ndi igbo mara ka esi enyomi asusu di iche iche na nba nile di n'uwa, ma wekwaa anya na anyi adighi atufu olu anyi maoli. Na obodo amirika nke m birila otutu afo, oha na eze ndi igbo agbaala nbo ikuziri umu igbo etu esi asu ma dekwaa okwu igbo. Biko onye no ebe o'no jisi ike kuziwe asusu anyi oke o nwere ike. Udo diri anyi dum. Ka Chineke mezie okwu.

Meetashley: ekene diri gi. i bu ugo nwanyi. Ewekwala iwe maka ntuzi aka nke m'ga enye gi. "i" bu nnochite aha (pronoun), o kwesiri inoro onwe ya na isi nbide owku gi: "I kwenyere na Biafara ka I kwenyeghi"? Udo diri gi, jide nke i ji.

Osuofia has nothing to do with the situation. They were at wrong place at the wrong time. But come to think of it, Poster, is this a fresh case or u just want us refresh the past story? cos Osuofia has not indicated any of such happening in recent time.

I hope they learned a trade over there. They can start petty trading if the crime in Nigeria would not devour them.

Exactly what I have been talking about. People preach the verses of the Bible that sooth their games. When I called them "Nigerian Holy Pretenders" I was not just blackmailing my own people.

What I did not like about the documentary is lack or no comparison of Nigerian pastors to the pastors we have here in US or Europe. Same findings had taken place in US; for example, The Benny Hinn Ministery, Pastor C. Dollar, Wayne T.J. ministery to mention but a few. These are pastors who use helicopters, Rolls Royce, and other expensive cars. And live in multi million dollar homes, wear suits and shoes costing more than $10,000.00 a pair.

The motivation to investigate Naija pastors originates from the western world whose pastors are multi-millioniars. However, the western world has come to terms with the truth that religion/church is the biggest business on earth. While African and third world countries a still graspling with the realities and dilema of true church leadership. Yes bible talks about tites and offerings; but those contributions are supposed to be God's: to help the poor and needy, for betterment of the church of God, and not for the making a Heaven on earth for the pastors and their so called first ladies/wives. Every good work Christ did according to the bible, He called a seed sowing which would be reaped in Heaven. But today, our pastors are reaping their own fruits on earth. Please people open your eyes: help the needy and the poor with your tites and offerings. Our God who sees through darkness and light would surely see your good work and bless u. Stop enriching the greedy opportunists called pastors/rabbi, Rev fathers, etc.