I said this about seven months ago: I will not marry any woman that denied me sex till after marriage. I love sex, and would love to marry a woman of the same value. I do not cheat on my partners, so to maintain that principle, I must make sure my prospective wife would not push me away to other women. In short, ability to stisfy me segxwally is the first and most important simple prerequisite for marring a woman. So I must test am 1st and be sure of what am getting into. No be sey honeypot dey for house man still de hungry for honeypot ouside. So test am first, cos a stitch in time they say, saves nine.

ulleval, please stop the believer thing now. I hope you have been following the turn of events and trends of revelations of the leaders of the believers churches. We are talking reality here: no fake christanity shit and their sentiments.  the topic is sex b/4 marriage - sin or normal, and why do we do it, even the so called believers do it, upon the fact they know is a sin?

First of all, Poster did not indicate the target group of this topic. Cos Non-christians do not buy into the asssumption; and Atheists do not care what you believe in and they are still living their lives. Perhaps the most relevant question here is why do we do it?

From the look of things, no one on this forum has been able to explain the expertise of Calabars in bed. Therefore, the assumption of dog-eating as aphrodisiac to calabar people stands to be more logical and beleivable. 404 soup is aphrodisiac and since calabar eat more dog soup, by process of elimination of other factors, they snack on dog and dog soup than any other tribe in naija. This could account for their better in bed. For instance, horse meat in asia countries is aphrodisiac. Or it could be the edikayikon soup. What ever the reason may be, I love my calabar women, I have had about 8 since I become a man, and they are pretty and really goooood in doing the do.

Poster, could u please be proud of who u are? We all are fans of one star or the other, but we still have name of our own. Anyway, you asked for Pals opinion on your choice of topic. You could use the opinions or toss them, I think you calling any comments bad means u had no reasonable reason for soliciting for public views. Again, you are flirting with pals instead of putting one to one and making use of ideas/viewpoints u never had. Put your priorities straight.

Ok Kebella, I will request to become your guest. I took some time off to visit home/naija. Am back now and can't wait to read your silly comments.

Not mad at all. I stand corrected. However, I have aired my views on the posting earlier, I was just exchanging some humor on other people's views/comments: "lashing your girl and your girl lashing u back" .

by- the-way kebella, where are those your pals who love to talk a lot of shit - love those jokes.  I may be off line cos I'm not familiar with slangs used these days.

So kebella, u can be my teacher on the current slangs, or can you?

kebella, what do you mean I'm in the wrong room?

Guys, if lashing in this contest means phyuking/stroking with the rod, how many of you would like your woman to lash you? Lashing as figurative representation of using your dick to do the job, do your women have dicks too? Are they hermaphrodites to lash you too? or do you allow them to use strap-ons to lash you back? please be careful what you ask for cos most girls in the western culture would go out their way to do just that for u if u please - LOL. Anyway, I think men should only ask women to please them segxwally as far as their femine anatomy allows them to. plus the mouth could usually do wonders work too.

Maybe he is a sadist, who enjoys the pain of a woman inflicted my him while having sex with her. Otherwise, there is no reason for spanking his wife. Then what would he do with a house maid? African men should stop putting their hands on their women. They should learn to walk away, get some air outside and come home when things cool off. Beating up a wife can only make matters worse - it does not signify love but control.

How about make her feel like a natural woman? Like give it to her any time she needs it, make her have multiple orgasm, eat her out/till she comes, do her other hole once in a while, suck her toes and crack. undress her with your teeth and tongue.

Good for u Tonto. We love ur pretty smile and smart acting scenes.
People, that is how it is done all over the world.. Money can buy the most beautiful things in the world; now money has found our dear Tonto.
Fame is a good turn, and as usual, they say "one good turn deserves another". Tonto might be softer and sweeter than we give her in the acting personality.

Dumb question. Questions for the poster: Do men sext with their mothers, sisters, and daughters? Do women sext with their sons, brothers, fahters? If your answer to these is no, then ask yourself why. Sexting involves expression of desire, lust, and interest; which if opportunity offers itself, one would not hesitate to take advantage. For young youth though, it could mean more than interest and desire.

Disfunctionality in the making!! Love should watch the children. If they love their children and themselves, there should not arise any argument of this sort. People should marry because of love not material things or sentiment - "Am Married". It is the responsibility of both man and woman to raise children. If the love is there, every extra activity should revolve around the kids. Please people, if you are not ready to settle down, keep running the streets till you are tired. It does not make sense to rush into marriage, rush into bringing innocent kids into this world only to argue whose duty it is to raise/guide/lead and show them the good direction.

What is good for the gees they say is good for gander. Depending on what type of husband a woman has. professional women wear g-string cos. they don't want their panty lines showing. Some wear it to allow their buddies to bounce and shake like the women who are fly and have big swaga. Some wear it to tease men or get attention. A young couple would love to add flavor in the bedroom. Older folks may not care about g-strings. So It depends on choice and indiviual situations.

Fake story it is. Tonto has acted in many movies, some involved lifting of her dress, fighting, dressing and undressing, soft porn etc. We saw undies and various undergarments not her bare body. Anyway, poster has nothing to do but fantasize about Tonto's beautiful body - lustfully too. However, most ladies these days no longer wear undies because they feel they have no protruded rods to hold down, no balls and enlongated body parts to hide. For those of them who have large anthills, it is a thing of joy for men to behold the shapes and sizes. Ladies already know they play their games better when they give men something to think about.

Some people have higher libido than others; therefore, they are easily stimulated segxwally than others. That is why we have nymphos - they are normal people but crave sex more than others. There is nothing wrong with more sex if your body could handle it. After all, at death, the virgina or penis decomposes to soil and ashes. So people use them when you can!!!!

Finally, Tonto is among the most beautiful actresses in African movies, so she would certainly attract many negative attentions and comments. Fortunately, she knows that already and capitalizes on it to market herself. Bros/poster, continue to think about Tonto's P...y, she will not give  u some. Ha-ha-ha.

Smoking is a dirty habit, and there's nothing wrong telling Tonto to smoke outside or in private. Second hand smoking is more dangerous than primary smoking. We love Tonto and what she does in the entertainment industry, but we would love for her to check into rehab for anger management/tantrum, alcohol, weed/pot etc.

Please Ghana bashers, Nigeria is not in any shape of form better than Ghana; so desist from your arrogant statements.
CWAGA:  "Can we all get along" (Rodney King).

Love is the key. If you love your man or woman, then there should be no boundry nor limitations. A segxwally active man will not wait, and an active woman will not tempt the man by starving him. If the two partners are attracted to each other, love each other and hove to live together as husband and wife, there's no point of playing the game of waiting. Personally, I will not waite otherwise I will cheat on her with someone else. So ladies be careful what you ask for. If you love your partner, please satisfy him/her b/4 you make him/her a cheater.

The Yoruba girls are more money-minded. Beacuase they would do anything for money including voodoo, killing, transporting controlled goods, using their woman power, and being the bread-winner in their homes.

As you all know, I love the hot topics and issues that rub heads and open up forum for self-expression.