| Every body want to be loved and appreciated, but in relationships of today, all we hear is heartbreaks and disappointment. This got me thinking, can someone be happy in a relatiinship?. Then i discovered the problems behind most relationships. Number 1 problem. Most peole are looking for love and are not ready to give out love. We see people breakup with someone and the next thing is the search for someone to heal them. Well its does not work that way, the solution is a process called " the healing time". We all need to let go of all the hurt and pain inorder to truely love someone else. Number 2 probem most people are infatuated and they think they are in love. But the truth is " true love grows". We need to check our emotions to know what we actually feel. Do you like the person or just want to be with that person?, this and more we need to ask ourselves. Number 3 problem sex can't make someone love you more. Many people trade sex for affection, my dear it does not work that way. If someone loves you he or she will never want to hurt you or take advantage of you. Number 4 problem trying to impress the other person. I have seen many ladies give out everything they own just to keep a man, but at the end they are always heattbroken. If you can't be yourself with the person you love, then i don't think that love is geniue. Number 5 problem In every relationship there are bad times and good times, we should not be too fast to take off when we are having our bad times in our relationships. There is always a fixing period in our lives. We should always try to fix our problems not run. Number 6 problem Trust is a vital item in any relationship. Without trust there wont be love. Number 7 probem Every successful relationship is based on sacrifice, both parties must be ready to make sacrifices inorder to make the relationship work. Everything under the heaven has time, there is a time for sowing and a time for reaping. So sow well into your relationship inorder to reap well. |
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