more like groove me  i groove u....sounds groovy..lol

which is more stressful ... to have sex or not to have sex ?

mee too

passin

nothing is absolutely free

yeah, i guess you are right abt dat...

beautiful...

Lovemaking is beautiful, sensuous and sensitive. It is beyond carnal pleasure and for those who see farther, it is a divine union of Shiva.  An active sex life is an ingredient for a good marriage and healthy living. It is a beautiful gift of nature that must be nurtured with care.
But many a times sex life can be ruined and most times one would not realize what is going wrong. Here are a few pointers and remedies to balance out your love life.

#1: Did you ask your partner what he/she enjoys and worked on it? Nothing kills a sex life faster than a partner who refuses to try something new or caters to the needs of his/her partner. Unintentionally you might be sending 'don't care,' signals, "Your pleasures and needs are not important to me, I' am happy, so I don't care."

Ask your partner what he/she likes. They might have some hidden fantasies waiting to be explored. Don't shy away from trying them. If you think the whole idea is beyond you, speak your mind to your partner. Do not make nasty comments, for, these are very sensitive issues and once hurt, it might take a very long time to heal, or may not heal even. So watch out!

#2: When was the last time you ventured out of your segxwal comfort zone? Did you ever? Eating the same dinner every night, would bore you, wouldn't it? The same applies to your love life. Doing the same things over and over again, first leads to boredom, then slowly the fire dies and finally extinguishes. From here, then begins a whole turmoil of frustrations and emotional upheavals.

Get innovative. Talk to your partner, see how both of you can work a whole new world of love. Try new ways. If you can't think of anything, get hold of a good book. Both of you can explore together and if you can invent something new, nothing like it. Work at it, and you'll see long-term results.

#3: Dirty talking, not really sure how many enjoy this, but some do. You need to watch what you talk, because for some, this can be a complete put off. When you are on that high ski diving mode, a wrong word can land you flat on the face. If your partner does not enjoy this you can perhaps keep it to the minimum, so as to balance your needs as well as that of your partner's.

#4:While making love do you really pay attention? It is very important that you live through and receive the whole experience. Be aware of what you enjoy and what you don't. Pay attention to your partner's needs. In your pleasure don't ignore the pleasure of the other. Don't be the wild stallion running helter skelter, while your partner withers in pain.

#5:Do you always wait for your partner to initiate? If you do, you might be missing out on a lot. Power can be a huge turn-on and can be very sexy for both. Initiating when that's not your usual style can jump-start the whole act. Your partner will be pleasantly surprised and you will be in control. Try it and see how it feels.

#6:Do you have a diminished desire with very little or no fire? You might be one among the many who suffer due to stress or related problems. This might be physical, mental, or psychological. Get help. See this as a problem and seek help. It is very important to get at problem and nip them off at the bud. Don't let them grow into tall trees with firm roots. These can have long-term repercussions.

Well now that you know, won't you try a passionate wake up call? Kick- start your day with a passionate act.
Don't keep lovemaking for the dark hours of the night. Most couples restrict themselves to the bedroom instead of grabbing a quickie on the couch, kitchen slab, under the shower, on the carpet, wherever.
Try new ways.
If you can't think of anything, get hold of a good book, both of you explore together and if you can invent something new.
There's nothing like it!

A poll conducted across 3,000 people confirmed that:

1. A man thinks about lovemaking at least 13 times a day.
2. Comparatively, an average woman thinks of sex just fives time a day.
3. A man may think of lovemaking at least a dozen times a day, but he gets to have it just twice a week or 104 times a year.
4. Comparatively, women who think of sex less than half a dozen times a day, get to have it at least four times in a week or 208 times a year (twice more than men)
5. On the average, a man is happy with the amount of sex he is getting.
6. On the average, a woman is not often satisfied with her sex life and wants more than she is getting
7. A man is often well known for thinking about the sex he is getting much more than he would talk about the sex he wished he was getting
8. A woman prefers to talk more about the sex she wished she was getting much more than she would think about the sex she is getting

LHM (Lord have mercy)

Ailing Nigerian President Umaru Yar’Adua will finally return home this week according to reports, ahead of the 14-day deadline given the Federal Executive Council (FEC) by the country’s Federal High Court on Friday. The court in a stern declaration, ordered the FEC to prove that the ailing leader was fit to perform his duties or face an impeachment process.
Local media reports in Nigeria said today, that the ailing President who is recuperating from a heart surgery in Saudi Arabia is expected in Abuja, the capital, before Wednesday this week.

President Yar’Adua’s return to Nigeria will go a long way in reducing the political tension that has been rocking the nation since two months now and prevent his possible impeachment by the National Assembly.
After a long tussle among Nigerian politicians over the possible replacement of President Yar’Adua by his Vice president Goodluck Jonathan, the country’ Federal High Court on Friday finally challenged the two highest policy bodies in the country, Federal Executive Council and the National Council of States (NCS) with a timeline to end the brouhaha.

Even the members of the Federal Assembly have been under intense heat particularly from civil society organisations to “act on the state of the country and not on the side of one man.”

Hence, the Chief Judge of the Court, Justice Daniel Abutu, in his judgment ordered FEC to comply with the relevant section of the 1999 Constitution especially as it relates to the process of impeaching a sitting president.

In his ruling, Judge Abutu said: “Having regards to the fact that the president has been away on a medical treatment since 23 November 2009, he (Yar’Adua) is incapable of performing his presidential duties. The FEC should resolve whether the president is capable of performing his presidential functions or not and pass a resolution to that effect.’’

Following that order on Friday, reports said the two supreme policy making bodies immediately propelled the necessary apparatus into action by taking the bull by the horn and thereby arriving at the decision of flying in the ailing president into the country by Wednesday and would continue post-hospitalisation medical consultation at home.

But the local media quoting medical sources in Jeddah where the President is being treated reported that he has lost nearly ten kilograms from his already slim posture and thereby making him appear very weak for any task.

Sources further intimated that upon his arrival in Nigeria, President Yar’Adua will be expected to put in motion the process of properly handing over power to Vice President Jonathan.

Inside sources further told the media that President Yar’Adua may have to stay for only two weeks in Nigeria after handing over power and will be flown out to the United States of America for further medical attention.

This is the third time that the President has been flown abroad to undergo a treatment for a heart ailment since he came to power nearly four years ago through heated ballot to replace the then incumbent president Olusegun Obasanjo who selected Yar’Adua as his successor.

Since Yar’Adua’s hospitalisation in Saudi Arabia, the opposition and civil society organisations in Nigeria have been blaming Mr Obasanjo for selecting a successor with a record of ailment but the former president retorted that Mr Yar’Ardua had presented a medical certificate that proved him fit for office.

interesting.....who'll be the teacher, who'll be the student?

fatal attraction...run for your life

...it's the beginning of your end....lol

i pass...

take the 500k, take the girl  and take off; that's my take on this..

i'd tell my mum bcos her intentions  are in my own interest

In fact, the authors of the study, in the journal Arthritis and Rheumatism, recommend that doctors give the drugs to all patients with lupus.

Lupus is a chronic disease in which the immune system confuses its own healthy tissues with foreign tissues and sometimes attacks both. The condition can manifest as a skin rash or arthritis and may lead to damage to the kidneys, heart, lungs and brain to varying degrees. The disorder disproportionately affects women.

Doctors first realized decades ago that antimalarial drugs such as hydroxychloroquine could be used to treat the joint pain often seen in lupus, according to the Lupus Foundation of America. Since then, research has suggested that antimalarial therapy can help prevent flare-ups of lupus and reduce overall damage from the disease, Dr. Bernardo A. Pons-Estel, from Hospital Provincial de Rosario, Argentina, and co-researchers note.

Pons-Estel and his team studied nearly 1,500 patients with lupus from 9 countries. They followed them for an average of about four and a half years. The study was not "blinded" - in other words, subjects, and their doctors, knew what treatments they were getting.

About 12 percent of the patients who did not use the drugs died during the follow-up period, compared to about 4 percent of those who did.

The difference was even higher for patients who used the drugs for more than two years.

After the team accounted for various factors, using antimalarial drugs appeared to reduce the risk of death during the study by almost 40 percent.

"The data presented, taken in conjunction with the data from the published literature, suggest that antimalarials should be used in all lupus patients regardless of their disease manifestation or disease duration," the authors conclude.

SOURCE: Arthritis and Rheumatism, online January 7, 2010.

The question is finally been asked: why men don't like to wear condoms during sex.? And it's the The National Institutes of Health who is doling a 4,23,500 dollars on the same. Ahem! That's right; that's the kind of money we are talking about, ladies and gentleman.

But then, the inevitable happens. The government watchdogs seem to have taken aback when they heard about the funding. It's believed that the finding hasn't gone down too well with government watchdogs, which say that the study is a nearly-half-a-million-dollar waste of taxpayer money.

The study has been aimed at why 'young, heterosegxwal adult men' have problems using condoms – an issue that has existed for long. The research also includes 'skill-based intervention' to teach grown men how to use protection. The research will be the work of Kinsey Institute, which is affiliated to Indiana University. The institute exists to promote interdisciplinary research and scholarship in the fields of human segxwality, gender, and reproduction.

Of the total two phases of study involved, which will be done over the period of two years, one phase will be termed as 'Barriers to Correct Condom Use', which is believed to be a Q & A round. When asked on what the second round of research will look like, Fox News quoted, Dr. Erick Janssen and Stephanie Sanders, from the Kinsey Institute, as saying, “The second phase involves a laboratory study, and focuses on penile erection and sensitivity during condom application”. Is that all? “The project also aims to to understand the relationship between condom application and loss of erections and decreased sensation, including the role of condom skills and performance anxiety”. They conclude by saying “The research aims to find new ways to improve condom use among those who experience such problems,"
But what about the issue that the Government watchdogs have raised. Is the committee really using the money of the tax payers? "This government is so out of whack with what the priorities are that this actually makes sense that we'd be wasting money on a condom study rather than the real problems facing the country," said David Williams, vice president for policy at Citizens Against Government Waste, which tracks wasteful spending in the federal budget.

In spite of all the hue and cry, the people involved in the research believe that the project performs a vital public health service, and could help develop prevention and intervention programs to stop the spread of HIV and other segxwally transmitted diseases. "Our study addresses important public health concerns in the U.S.” says Jansen, one of the lead researchers. He corroborates: “It's the first study to test claims about arousal and sensation loss in a controlled scientific environment, while exploring factors that may be addressed in prevention and intervention programs."

So far as the study is involved, it would be conducted among 500 men aged 18-24. But during the laboratory phase, he says, only 129 subject will be involved when when scientists will conduct neurological exams and 'test an instructional method on the correct and consistent use of condoms.'

eagles not at all super