MISS DIKEH, BE REST ASSURED THAT NO IGBO MAN WILL LIKE TO MARRY A LADY WHO CANNOT KEEP THE RULES OF MARRIAGES( U CAN UNDERSTAND WHERE AM COMING) i.e ADULTRY etc. THE SECOND REASON U AND UR LIKES ARE RUSHING TO BENIN MEN IS FOR ONE REASON AND THAT IS COS THEY DON`T CARE WHERE U GO OR HOW U MAKE THE MONEY. THEY ARE LAZY COWS AND GOOD ONLY FOR JIGOLOISM. (examples are not far fetched, take a trip to italy and see where a benin man will drive the wife or girlfriend to the red light district for ashawo job and come back later to pick her home after other have finish dududu with her and will still do dududu with her). THEY STINKS. I REST MY CASE. SO MISS DIKEH IT IS NOT A BIG DEAL COS U KNOW WHO U ARE AND THAT THOSE SLICE OF YAM WITH RED OIL IN BETWEEN UR LEGS CAN NEVER STAY IN A PLACE.