You can kiss a fool or be kissed by a fool, but never allow a kiss to fool you. Always have a 2nd and 3rd look at every 1st impression. Those who mistake OIL FARM for OIL FIRM are already blaming themselves. It's better to get a life before getting a man. No man wants a liability, it doesn't matter how beautiful you are. Decision making can be difficult if U are 100% relying on him. If you are too demanding and materialistic, men will hit you and run away. Women of dignity will always get respect. Always keep your heart, eyes and brain open in your relationship. Some people claim to be in love with you while they were only blindly in love with your body shape and looks. Infatuation is what some people have while claiming to be in love. That's why people change after getting what they want. When you notice any changes don't be quick to judge. Always confirm stories before concluding on them. Communication plays a big role in any relationship. Be reasonable and flexible in your approach. Sometimes people need help, talk to him to know what's wrong. When you talk to him and nothing seems to change Give him a break but don't quit, sometimes a man can be tired of you but couldn't find the courage to tell U his mind. Selfish interest, wickedness or weakness is what makes a man stay in relationship with you when he's already done with you. If a man truly needs you, he will make every efforts to have you, but if he never bothers to come back and look for you means you have just help him to relieve his pains and u have helped yourself to stop being a fool in love.

** Akin Al ameen **

Dont start a new day without asking yourself. Am i where I'm suppose 2 be? or is what I'm doing wot I really want 2 do. Life without a purpose is an empty life. If you tried and fail try to try again. Failing dosent make u a failure. D greatest failures are those who never tried at all. Whoever has never spent a minute in your shoe can not condemn you in life, Be through to yourself about issues concernin your life. Life is like stone. Everybody is busy pushing their own. No one will help U if U don't help yourself.

** Akin Al ameen **
 

You can get motivated by words or be inspired by actions. But the greatest advice is the one you give yourself. Never lie to yourself about the situation of your life. Be bold to take any decision concerning your life. The greatest motivation is the power to start.Those who lacks the courage to start in life are already finished.To see changes in ur life you must take control. Desire is the starting point of all achievements, not a hope, not a wish, but a keen strong desire which transcends everything. Vision without action is daydream. Action without vision is nightmare. Don't live your life blindly in dreams. Every dream is in sleep mode, to make your dream a reality you have to wake up.I f your TALENT can't pay your bills try and get a job. Miracle and magic is never the same. Those who choose to do nothing with their life will always help others achieving their ambitions in life. There's nothing in this life that's not a risk. Never give up if you still want to try. Obstacle is inevitable if you want to grow. Failing is a TEMPORARY condition GIVING UP is what makes it PERMANENT. Some succeed because they are destined. Some succeed because they are determined. Not all actions brings success but there's never a success without action in life....

Dont start a new day without asking urself. Am i where I'm suppose 2 be?or is what I'm doing wot I really want 2 do. Life without a purpose is an empty life. If you tried and fail try to try again. Failing dosent make u a failure. D greatest failures r those who never tried at all.Whoever has never spent a minute in your shoe can not condemn you in life. Be 2ru 2urself about issues concernin ur life. Life is like stone. Everybody is busy pushing their own. No one will help U if U don't help urself.

** Akin Al ameen **
 

Family plays a big role in every society, always give your family D first priority in life. Don't be a father be a DAD. Never bring any baby if you can't be present and active in their life. Your happiness and peace at old age may depend on it. Every woman wants happiness but what makes them happy is different.This hard to satisfy any woman but if U are not ready to do your best don't try the rest cause every woman in the world want the best. When the woman is happy the home is at peace. If she chooses U mean she needs you. if you cant be faithful to her don't propose to her. When she is truly in love she loves with all her life. You dont need a lot of money to satisfy a woman who is truly in love, but if U are not responsible and provide for her, any woman will remove respect from love and the man becomes ordinary with no regards. Providing for her needs with money is never enough. No matter how much money you spend on her, if she cant have your full attention its never enough. Her emotion determines her reactions. Be quick to forgive her mistakes but always remember to acknowledge her good deeds. GIVE A WOMAN THE BEST TREATMENT EVER IN HER LIFE AND NOTHING WILL MAKE HER LEAVE YOU AND IF SHE MISTAKENLY DOES SHE WILL LIVE TO REGRET LOOSING A MAN LIKE YOU FOR THE REST OF HER LIFE.

** Akin Al-ameen **

Behind every divorce is an untold story of truth and false. Not everybody will say D truth when it comes to self defense. People might be fooled by your story but your conscience knows d truth. Marriage is love, a commitment, a joy a promise and sacrifices. Whoever refused to endure temporary pain may have to suffer for long. Never make your partner's life miserable. There's a limit to how much people can endure pain and D name of love. When love turns to misery and its demanding for dear life people take D next exit. We spend lots of time and efforts searching for a good, clean, or even new mirror to look good. while what we only need is just to wash our face. Marriage is not only about finding a good partner its a lot about making yourself a good partner. When U do the same thing every time U get the same result. Never condemn your partner without checking urself. Don't be your own enemy. No one tell ur story more than U. The best advice is D one you give yourself. Always try your best before U leave D rest. Always check and change yourself first before changing your partner..

** Akin Al ameen **

One of of the easiest ways to live a sorrow life is to always look for peoples fault. When u based ur heart on looking for peoples mistake you will never see anything good in them.. You will be so negative about everybody.. This will later develop to complaining about every single person either good or bad.. When people notice that you are always complaining, they try to stay away from you. because no matter how much they try to please you. You are never satisfy. Sometimes we need to encourage people to do more.. Its a way of motivating their souls.. But when u r always seeing things n a negative ways.. it may turn you insane.. people will think u r crazy when complain a lot.

The best way to see changes in people is to live by example..You can't change people from their ways of life because everybody has d right to choose his or her ways of life. But you can choose to be a role model and people can learn from you. If a person is very peaceful and doesn't like to make issues with people.. People other regardless of their behavior an learn from him because he is a peaceful person. why you impose on people they will think u r proud. But when you live by good example so many will follow you.

** Akin Al ameen**

MARRIAGE IS NOT A WORD, ITS A SENTENCE (a life sentence) MARRIAGE IS LOVE AND LOVE IS BLIND, SO THEREFORE MARRIAGE IS AN INSTITUTION FOR THE BLINDS. MARRIAGE IS AN INSTITUTION WHERE THE MAN LOSSES HIS HIS BACHELOR DEGREE AND THE WOMAN GETS A MASTERS.TO RUSH INTO IT IS TO RUN OUT OF IT.THE BEST N LONGEST AND LAST STAGE OF OUR LIFE IS URMATRIMONIAL LIFE.WHERE HUSBAND AND WIFE WILL LIVE TILL DEATH DO US PART.BECAREFULL AND PRAYERFULL WHEN CHOOSING YOUR SPOUSE UR ENTIRE LIFE DEPENDS ON IT...........

Marriage is d only institution where people get certificates b4 going 2school. Where 2 people will start afresh, learning about each other 4 d rest of their lifes. Dating and marriage is not d same. Dating can be temporary but marriage is for life.TOLERANCE, RESPECT, FAITHFULNESS, FORGI​VENESS and ENDURANCE, goes a long way in building a home. To discuss your partner is 2 ruin your home. High expectations makes u start afresh..........
 
** Akin Al-ameen **
 

Everybody in this world has a right to live. Never give to people what you can't take from them. Always respect peoples privacy and decision. Never raise your hopes too high on people anybody can break down at anytime no matter the closeness. Give more. Expect less. Free your heart from envy and hatred. Refrain from gossiping,  avoid arguments. Be quick to forgive. When people don't agree or reason with U doesn't make a them a fool or enemy. Everybody has right to their personal opinion. Always respect it. The greatest foolishness is to think U know everything. Never impose anything on anybody. Never tell anyone how to live their life what U can do is to give advice. U are not in a position to JUDGE anyone.Talk about GOD don't fight on religion. Live PEACEFULLY be POSITIVE, be KIND but don't be WEAK. Never look down on anybody. We are all something but none of us is everything..

There is no such thing like a perfect human being. Every single human will naturaly have a flaw. Human beings are not predictable atimes, but whoever is looking for perfection will wait for llong. Learn to overlook somethings cause u are not perfect yourself. Don't live ur life pointing out peoples faults, while ur own life needs urgent repair.To see the change in people try and change yourself. A blind man that mocks the deaf man is surely fooling himself.

Its only almighty GOD who is complete and will never make mistakes. As long as we are human we can never be perfect. We all have our diffrent individual weakness and short comings.There's nothing like a 100% human being. No matter how good we are we must surely have a fault. Someone will be good at what I lack and I will be good at what he lacks too.You can't have it all in life. When a person is too humble people will think he is a fool. When a person is too quiet people will say he is a sadist. To see a perfection in an imperfect person is what makes any relationship works very well. The greatest ignorance is to think you know more than anybody.We are all something but none of us is everything

The best food is what U are able to eat when U are really in need of food. Frendship is not in buying same shoes and bags. No friend is more real than a friend who faithfully remain with U when everybody refrains. A friend that knows all ur secrets and weakness but still sees D best in U. A friend that stands by U come rain or shine. A friend that tells U d truth even if it hurts. Friends are many but real ones are scarce. Friends can build or ruin U. If U are not lucky with friendship try and change your settings. If U are lucky to have one cherish them with all your heart. Sometimes we blindly treat like ordinary fans D good friends who treat us like SUPER STAR. We abandon good friends and run after those who care less about us. Always value a friend who sacrifice something for U, because that something can be their everything. Be sensitive to your friend"s feeling. Don"t be selfish i n friendship. Be a faithful, reliable, trustworthy and loyal friend and never ever forget a friend"s birthday....
 

** Akin Al-ameen **

No one can drink water more than he who drowned and died in the sea. No one knows D value of money more than he who cannot afford his heart desire because of cash. What 10 men cannot do sometimes a $100 will do. When U have money U command respect, people see U as a living god and worship U days and night. Many peoples ambition is to get rich in life. To live a life that's free from stress, wants and need. The poor man thinks he's cursed for lack of cash. Many will do anything just get rich in life. Being rich and being happy is never D same. Of course money can makes life easier but if D rich also cry means money is not everything. Wise people don't ask GOD for money. They ask for HIS GRACE. Grace of GOD is a complete package that includes everything. GOD will never give U stone when U ask HIM for bread. You can dream and work towards ur ambition, but there is a limit to how much hard working and dedication can take U in life. It takes only D grace of GOD to reach certain levels in life. Praying without Hustle is a daydream. Hustling without praying is a nightmare. Without GOD any efforts and actions can be a waste of time.

Don't look for a dream man. Make yourself a woman of every man's dream. In a relationship every man is a different book with different stories. Read your man to fully understand him. Some men are romantic while some are not. If a man is not romantic does not always means he's not in love with U. Don't compare your partner with others because people can't be the same. Every relationship is a lesson, learn from peoples stories. This is always more painful to learn from your own mistakes. Never rush into a new relationship untill U fully understand why the last one dint work. Be flexible when U are ready to date. If being flexible is breaking ur back bone stand on your feet. So many people are still single thinking they have a relationship. Never deceive yourself, always check and make sure you are not in the relationship alone.
 

** Akin Al-ameen**

Dont break it b4 havin it. Many marriages av collapsed b4 d wedding day. Never bring 2ur matrimonial home, negative plans against ur spouse from painful experiences of other ppls failed marriages. Be positive n prayerful.U can ruin ur home if U r over careful. Some matrimonial problems were caused by mouth. Talk 2ur partner instead of talkin about him. Taking advice is different from ignorantly exposing urself. Bcareful from where n who u take advice. Any advice U take from a fool can make U look foolish.


These type of people always prefers to confide in a third party instead of talking or confiding in the person they claim to love. They will never make any decision without consulting a third party.There's nothing happening in their house that is not known in public. All in the name of being careful,they ignorantly ruin their matrimonial homes for of fear of things that is happening or has happened in other peoples life. Don't treat ur partner like a criminal. Don't suspect him for no reason. Don't punish your partner for the sins of other people. Don't generalize people.When u ignorantly allow other peoples life to determine your partners reputation then U r breaking your own home. Don't be too careful that you will begining to suspect every move he makes.When you do this,you are pushing your partners love gradually away from your heart. Even when your partner is still busy at work,you will think he/she is somewhere else.Because when u have your mind set on particular something that's what you will always think about all the time.
 

Whoever said he has never lied in his life is definately telling another lie. Its a very big lie to say they won't be conflict in a martimonial home. Misunderstanding in any matrimonial home is inevitable once in a while.Partners will disagree to agree. They will argue to reach a comprise. Its not why and how you disagree that matters but how you hadle crisis when it happen. If you really want ur relationship to work don't bring people in it. Don't always look for ur partner,s fault.If you always looking for his/her fault you may never see anything good about him/her. Be tolerant, flexible,forgiving,endurin​g,accommodating,kind,respe​ctful and prayerful.Be very calm and careful when u r angry. Its is always very good never to do anything anything when you are really angry. Give it a little time for you to get over the anger and express yourself peacefully.Those who react when they are angry always destroy more than what cause the anger either through their actions or angry talks.


Always learn to keep ur business between you and your partner. learn to talk to your partner instead of talking about him or her to the third party.There many ways of talking to your partner peacefully and make things work without exposing yourself to third parties.Always apply wisdom to any issue concerning ur matrimonial or or ur partner.If you truly love your partner,Don't always report him or her to those people who loves you dearly and will do anything to make you happy.When you complain too much about your partner to your family and friends this may cause hatred between your family and ur friends against ur partner,because they love you dearly and hate to see you unhappy.They will hate him for making you unhappy.When you get over it and make peace amicably with your partner they won't get over it and will still have that pain in them against your partner.


Sometimes things may get out of hand, and it might get to a stage where you will be so confused about which decision to make.At this point its good to take very good advice.Be very wise about your approach whening taking advice.Don't expose urslef thinking you r seeking advice.Don't talk to many people about ur matrimonial problem.Be very careful from who and where you take advice.Some advices in life are not deep down from heart.Some people will give you advice based on the hatred they have for you or your spouse.Some people won't tell you the truth because of what they will gain from you.some people will give you advice based on what has happened to them.Never take advice from a fool.A fool never sees good in anything.A fool will give you nothing but a foolish advice and when u take a foolish advice u end.


Always learn to put ur matrimonial issues and ur general life in the hands of GOD,because without GOD our actions and efforts are nothing.May GOD bless the home of everybody who is about to start their matrimonial journey in life and those already started....Amen...