Real, true love is unconditional. All other “kinds” of love are not really love. Most people on this planet have never experienced unconditional love in their entire life.To love someone unconditionally means that you love the person exactly as they are, exactly as they were before, and exactly as they will be in the future – because people change all the time, so if you love the person, you will love them even if they become something you disagree with. True love is not about you or your pleasure or your amusement. It’s not about what you get out of it or what the other person can give to you. It’s not about having a trophy you can show off with and tell people “This is *MY* girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/​husband/son/daughter/​whatever”. You do not “own” anyone. It’s not about you feeling ‘proud’ to be with someone who always agrees with everything you say and do and never does anything you disagree with. Unconditional love means that the person can just live their life exactly as they choose and you will always be there for them no matter what.

There aren’t any different types of love. There is only love. The different “types” that people perceive are either love mixed with other things, or different ways of expressing love.For example, the typical example of unconditional love is a real mother’s love for her child that's a good example of the purest form of love.
 A real mother will have sleepless taking care of her kid.she will go to sleep hungry just to make sure the kid eats in the morning.No matter what d baby did at night the mother will still wake up in the morning and still find joy in her child.She will refuse to function when the baby is down.And when the baby grows up and he decides to go or make any choice the mother allows him to make any choice as long as he is happy with the choice.The mother never feels like the child is indebted to her for the love and care she gave him when D kid is growing up.

Erotic love” is the one everyone is always talking about.If you love someone and U are segxwally attracted to them, then that’s exactly what you are. you love the person, and you’re also segxwally attracted to them.Two seperate concepts.This is why it’s entirely possible (and quite common) to be segxwally attracted to someone without actually loving the person at all.A lot of people get confused with this and think that if they love someone, they must get love back in return.they put all their efforts to show the person they love and care,but loving someone does not really guarantee the person has to love you back.Most people these days only have infatuation about physical appearance and personal achievements and fame.Some men are attracted to a woman *Ass&Boobs, and will go into a relationship with her just because of that.Some ladies are attracted to a man because of his height,money,position,stat​us and fame and because of this they start a relationship with no single feelings of love but they claimed its love because D infatuation is giving them sleepless nights and they think its love..sometimes ppl get married in this type of situation.but after a while problem will start because those things that attracts both of them is not there anymore or they got tired of it.

** Akin Al - Ameen **
 

@ezenolly
one of the reason we have so many problems in the world is because we more foolish people than wise people. common sense and education is never the same..no one can be considered intelligent or wise untill you handle everybody level of understanding wisely..this is a public forum where everybody has the right to say their mind..but for you to say am saying trash is really very bad..it shows the type of upbringing you have and the type of understanding you have.i was not brought up to be rude, but to keep quiet and walk away peacefully if i cant say something good to or about my fellow human being..never blame your destiny without checking your heart..a heart full of hatred is far from blessings of GODS...

@ ezenolly.... Yes it applies to both sex
To lead is 2serve. Man is d head of D house, wife is not a slave. Good man leads with fear of GOD. HE will choose 2serve his wife rather than ruling her. He will not make decisions without d wife. HER happiness will be his priority. A good woman will be submisive and work with D man peacefuly n faithfuly. She will be reasonable n her demand, considerate n her actions,patience n her reaction. Who makes more income shouldnt be a problem. Both couples must walk at d same pace n put GOD first n all they do

The dream of every woman is to have a matrimonial home.To live happily together with her man and kids till D end of time. Most men see that as a weakness and take advantage of her. Most women need just a man to satisfy her many needs. Many men need plenty women to satisfy his one need. When all the responsible noble men are not available the available disables treat women with no respect. Real men give women all her due respect. Most men think they have nothing to loose when breaking apart, but a wise man knows he has a lot to loose. House and home is never the same. It's the presence of a woman that turns any house to home. Unimaginable is the pain women go through from wickedness of men. Some men will cheat and still demand for apology. Women endure unimaginable pain to save her home. So many faded dreams. So many broken promises. So many days of crying alone when there's no one to wipe her tears away. Behind the face every single mum is an untold stories of betrayal and painful memories. Her heart bleeds for raising kids alone while the father has moved on with life. Many men are dead in their kids life while they are still alive. Most men blame the mirror for their dirty face instead of washing their face. if U are not ready to give ur best to one woman don't try the rest, because every woman in the world want the best. A wise man remain faithful and dedicated to his wife and do everything to keep his family together, because he knows there are only two ways to regret in life.Those who choose to regret later in life may regret for life. GOD never take for granted the tears of a woman in pain. Most problems of men were caused by greed. When the result comes he says its d devil or enemies at work. A player is ruining his future thinking he's enjoying the game. He thinks he will remain thesame for life. When old age takes all the abilities away that's when a player knows he's life is damaged beyond repair. A child U avoid when he/she was young may not be there for you when you are old and weak.

Her life was quiet & peaceful b4 u came 2 her. She considered ur story & fell 4U. U proposed to her & got her married 2U. But after d wedding U change ur ways. SHE refuses 2 tell anybody just to save her home. She goes through a lot of pains dat she can't explain. U make her life miserable 4 the sake of love. There's more to marriage than money alone. Her feelings & happiness mean nothing 2U. U shattered her dream of having a home.

Most women need just a man 2satisfy all her needs, Most men want many women 2satisfy his 1need. It's easy 2make a cat bark than 2satisfy a man who lacks discipline in control. His woman is what every man dream as a wife, but the greed in his heart has blinded his eyes. He said he wants varieties & sleeps around. He calls it short time but d impact is long. He ruins his life gradually. When the results comes he says its d devil at work.

** Akin Al - Ameen **

The race to marry a BIG BOY is what's now in vogue.Most ladies nowadays can't function if there is no cash involved. The urge for material things has changed the story of love. Never make money your only priority when choosing your spouse. There's more to marriage than money alone. A man with good heart is better than a rich man with D heart of beast. Most women say they want security in life so they wont date the poor. If he's not rich today doesn't mean he will be poor for life. The happiness and security of your life is your responsibility. Those who choose never to endure at all may have to suffer for long. Getting married to the rich doesn't guarantee happiness in life. Happiness is priceless. Perhaps those who say they will rather cry inside a Mercedes than laughing on a bicycle have never experienced PAIN in their life.Some relationship mistakes can cause a life regret. Women of virtue don't date for cash. They work hard and pray to GOD to make them rich and give them a good partner in life. IF IT DOESN'T COUNT, DON'T LOOSE THE COUNT. Many young women have blindly turn themselves to TEST DRIVE VEHICLE for the love of material things. Don't spoil ur tomorrow today. What qualified you as great woman is not in designer shoes and bags. its in your good heart, good characters and real personality.When a real man finds a wife in you he will never let you go.Ts funny how material women blame men for breaking their heart. A man who win your love with cash man not stay for long.Real men don't settle down with fake women.THE ONLY PLACE YOU CAN FIND A FAKE WOMAN IS TEMPORARILY IN THE HEART OF A FOOLISH MAN, BUT WHEN THE FOOL BECOMES WISE, THE WISE PERSON IS IN SERIOUS PROBLEMS. Looking for a real man when you are fake is like looking for a live fish in the forest. There is nothing in life that is not a risk. DATE WISELY. Sometimes a good and innocent woman will fall into the wrong hand. she will put so much efforts in a relationship to make it work and it all end up in vain. Let GOD wipe your tears away. Don't put ur life on hold because someone broke ur heart. Whoever broke ur heart has moved on with his life. Sometimes we hold on too long to what GOD is taking away from us. Don't stop living while U r still alive.A lonely life is a sad life. Turn every pain to experience and move on wisely. Never allow anyone to change you. You will never know your value until you finally meet someone who truly knows your value.

** Akin Al - Ameen **

Not all lovers are friends. Make your partner your best friend before getting married in life. The best marriage is the marriage of deaf & blind.To talk, laugh & do everything freely happily.True friend will know your weakness & still be your friend.True friend will smile, argue, and fight but will never go to bed or wake up with fight. When old age takes the abilities, beauty & families away, friendship + love is th only thing that will never refrain..........

All the present old clothes were once new before.The couples that becomes enemies today were both once in love. Never allow greediness to ruin your life, never allow pride to take your joy away. Listen to your partner whenever you guys need to talk. A known devil sometimes is better than a strange angel. Anybody can change that's human being for you. Don't leave a person who lacks 30% of what you want to go with a person who has 80% of what you want. Sometimes people can pretend to be what they are not. Don't choose temporary luxury over everlasting joy in life.The end is always better than the begining. Be mindful of your old age when making your relationship decisions.. Whatever makes you get married will make your childrean leave you one day... Be patience and reasonable when making up your mind...........

** Akin Al-ameen **
 

These career looters has turn our country to a comedy channel in the eyes of GOD. And the angels in heaven always tune to channel 234 whenever they want to laugh. To see these heartless leaders who lack the fear of GOD. How they share our money and laugh among themselves. How they go to churches and mosques forgetting GOD cannot be fooled. The greatest thieves are these leaders who steal billions of money with pen.These fools are obsessed with power and material things of life.Their own definition of ruling is looting. To secure the lifes of their unborn children with uncountable billions of stolen dollars in foreign accounts. The greed in their hearts has blinded their sight. The cry and pain of the masses has no meaning to them. So many fake promises. So many dead dreams while the dreamer is still alive. One of the most painful things in life is to wait indefinitely with no sign of hope at sight. The youths graduates every year from school with no hopes for job. It’s not what you know that but who you know. For over 50yrs the story is still the same. So many people are forced into a slavery journey of no return. While other countries are already fighting for animal rights. These people take our human rights and throw it away. To lead is to serve. Leadership is a sacrifice, a commitment, a hope,  a love, a promise and a security. Leaders instill in their people a hope of success. A leader should be faithful, loyal, transparent and be sensitive to pains of his people. Whatever makes them happy should be his priority. A leader surround himself with real people who tells him what he needs to know and not what he wants to hear. Real leaders don't fight for power.They are not enticed or controlled by material things of life. Real leaders don't impose they dialogue, before taking actions. You cannot force kindness on people if they don't want it. You can only have power over people as long as you don't take everything away from them. But when you've robbed a man of everything, he's no longer under your power he's free again. You don't need a lot of securities around you if you are truly loved by people and ruling with the fear GOD. It’s funny how people change at the touch of power and cash. Before elections they tell us they are the MESSIAH sent by GOD. They sing to us the song our hearts wants to hear. So many stories and actions of make believe, but after the election the story will change. They get to Abuja and got carried away.They come up with different grammars and stories to enrich themselves. Never add to the agony of a poor man if you cant take his sorrows away. It’s hard to know the pain of hunger when you and your kids have never went to bed hungry with no hopes of food in he morning. The ultimate measure of a man’s character is how he deals with a person who cannot fight him back.....

It's not everybody that's living has a LIFE.Without a life U r dead ALIVE.Social LIFE and personal life is not d same.Don't take one too serious and forget d other.D best way 2live is 2ballance ur life.Do wot is right n LIVE n PEACE.Whoever takes life 2serious will forget to live.Live everyday of ur LIFE as if its D last because one of these days u will surely be RIGHT.D truth about life is dat we wont LEAVE it ALIVE.

It's good to be discipline,focused, intelligent and serious about life..but don't take life too serious and forget to live..all works no play makes jack a dull boy.always find some time to relax and enjoy ur life.Work when it is time to work u can overworking and hard working is not the same .Never work so much and forget to live.whoever takes life too serious will always live in pain.

No life is more worthy than a life spent bringing joy to other peoples life.D greatest legacy and investment is to invest in humanity.U don't have to be a doctor to save a life.A little help can motivate somebody.Be someone's blessing today.Put a smile on someone's face.U don't need a lot of money 2make an impact.Ur smile alone can do a lot.D only things we will take to heaven are those things we freely give away..A little help goes a very long way in life.You don't need to be a doctor to save a life.You don't need to be rich to help..You don't need a lot to put a smile on other peoples face.A nice word from you can make someone's day..A little smile from you can motivate somebody.A free hug can go a very long way..So many people are depressed because they don't feel loved..So many people are living in pain for being lonely in life.Make a change.Laugh..SMILE..HUG..
 say positive things ur actions toward ur colleagues at work can make a different in their life

Ts better to be alone n happy than to be in a miserable relationship.Whoever sees U as an option doesn't deserve to be a priority in ur life.U call him honey but he treats U like a monkey.He is ur everything but U r nothing to him.U r doing everything to make it work but he think u r desperate and turns all ur efforts to weakness.The pressure from ur age, families, and friends is giving you sleepless nights all D time.Everyone thinks something is wrong with U n U r beginning to think maybe they r right.You think maybe its not in your destiny to settle down in life.You feel depressed and lonely because no one understands D pain U r going through alone...PRAY!!!!..Be very careful if U don't know where U r going because U might end up nowhere.Don't impose urself on any man.Don't begged to be loved.Don't let anyone love U because of pity.Always be in control of ur life.People can only advice, criticize or judge U.But no one will feel UR pain more than U.A man that's not meant for U can never be for U.When D right man comes( AT GOD,s TIME) everything about him will just be right.
Have a Awesome 2012!!!!!!!!!!!!

** Akin Al-ameen **

Money is essential in life,it makes you live a life that's freed from wants and needs.It makes you live a life that's free from debts and bills.It makes you afford whatever money can buy.It create and put you n class and caliber of some people in life.It commands respects among families and friends.It makes people love you faithfully and unfaithfully because of cash.It makes people see you as a living god.Money will speak for you before U open ur mouth.It will make everyone wants to be like you.It will make you clear the road and make people wait for you.It makes u live like king and u most people will look unto U.but because fingers are not equal our level of wealth can never be the same.Wealth is level by level.When a village champion goes to town he will be forced to pocket his local championship and see the other side of life.

GOD put so many love and respect in money that it changes the thinking and reasoning of some people in life.Some people will see you as unsuccessful without money.Some will not want to talk or associate themselves with you because of your financial status.Some people will not take you serious if you don't have money.Some people believe in money to boost their zero self esteem.Some people believes without money no matter how many things you have in life its useless.Some people won't even give you attention if you are not rich like them.Some people will rather listen to a rich fool than than talking to a wise poor.Some people will do anything to please a rich man.Some people are serving the rich people in other to be rich in life.They will rather go to rich man,s house very early in the morning everyday,rather than going to the house of GOD once in a week.They have more hope and belief in the words of the rich people than in the powerful words of GOD.No one can make you rich apart from GOD.Whoever puts his hopes in human being has enslaved himself and may die serving people.When people knows your weakness they will take full advantage of you.Some people are more happy and comfortable with a rich man fake promises than believe In the words of GOD.No one can make him or herself rich without the grace of GOD.Our actions and efforts are nothing without the grace and divine intervention of almighty

So many people make money the most important thing in their life so much that they put every other things away.The most important thing in life is happiness.Ts good to have money.But its also very bad to make money the only reason you will function in life.Some men will make their wife and kids life miserable whenever the money they are expecting refused to come.They don't care about the family happiness if they can't make money as before.The only time they are happy is only when things are going on very well and money is coming in from every angle.They treat their wife and kids as if they are the reason for their financial stress.Some women also will never function very well if their is no cash involved.They will remove respect from love when the man is broke.Most relationships and marriages nowadays are built on money alone.When there's financial problems the real characters will emerge.Some people have lost valuable and important people in their life because of money.Some have lost great friendship and traded their happiness to get rich
 
** Akin Al-ameen **
 
 

On a Christmas day while other people are celebrating,praying,and worshiping,some people for their own selfish and wicked reasons blew up churches.ISLAM means peace and a total submission to the will of GOD.Which type of human being or religion leader will tell you to kill innocent human beings?NIGERIA BELONGS TO ALL OF US REGARDLESS OF OUR RELIGIOUS BELIEF.EVERYBODY HAS A RIGHT TO LIVE AND PRACTICE HIS OR HER OWN RELIGION PEACEFULLY WITHOUT FEAR.THE GOVERNMENT MIGHT HAVE FAILED US.BUT THAT DOES NOT MEAN WE SHOULD TURN OUR FELLOW CITIZENS INTO CHICKENS AND GOATS.Everyone of us belong to GOD.HE creates and caters for everyone regardless of our religious belief.Everyone in this world has D right to their religion.U can only preach but U can't impose.D final judgment remains with GOD.D best way to preach your religion is to live in peace.Those who ignorantly and blindly mix politics with religion says they r fighting n killing for GOD.It is the greatest level of ignorance and foolishness for a mere human being to say he is fighting or killing for GOD.GOD is not lazy nor busy.HE needs no one to kill or fight for HIM.Whomever kills an innocent soul intentionally is d real enemy of GOD.THE LEADERS IN NIGERIA WERE BUSY STEALING AND SAVING OUR MONEY FOR THEIR UNBORN CHILDREN.WE KNOW OUR FUTURE IS DOOMED WITH YOUR LEADERSHIP.BUT PLEASE IF YOU CAN'T PROVIDE INFRASTRUCTURE,CAN YOU PLEASE PROVIDE SECURITY FOR THE INNOCENT CITIZENS.MAY GOD REST THE SOULS OF THE INNOCENT CITIZENS IN PERFECT PEACE....

Everybody in this world has a right to live.Never give to people what you can't take from them.Always respect ppls privacy and decision.Never raise ur hopes too high on people anybody can break down at anytime no matter the closeness.Give more.Expect less.Free ur heart from envy and hatred.Refrain from gossiping,avoid arguments.Be quick to forgive.When people don't agree or reason with U doesn't make a them a fool or enemy.Everybody has right to their personal opinion.Always respect it.The greatest foolishness is to think U know everything.Never impose anything on anybody.Never tell anyone how to live their life what U can do is to give advice.U r not in a position to JUDGE anyone.Talk about GOD don't fight on religion.Live PEACEFULLY be POSITIVE,be KIND but don't be WEAK.Never look down on anybody.We are all something but none of us is everything..

** Akin Al - Ameen **

Life is like a moving train with many stops.You will meet many people in ur journey of life.There will be many departing never to meet again.There will never be a meeting without departing in life.Every friend ends with END.There's a purpose and time limit for everybody U r meeting in life.Some are blessings,while some will be lessons.Some r for season while some are for reason.Some will make U,while some will break U.Some r temporary,while some will be part of ur life.Some U wish they never leave and some U cursed the day U meet them in life.Never find ur happiness in people U will never feel sad when they decide to leave.Never feel bad when a person decides to leave U,it simply means their chapter in ur life is over.A lonely life can be miserable.We all need someone in our life.Show love to everyone.Its impossible to live without breathing,but be careful how and who U bring into ur private life.Choose wisely.Free ur heart from hatred, being positive,humble,kind n bold will help u a lot in life but dont be weak.Real stars don't struggle to shine.Don't live a painful life in other to get noticed.Those who wants to be every where always ends up being nowhere.Create ur own row,many people will roll with you when you glow in life.U don't need a lot of people.Avoid traffic and drama in ur life.A wise enemy is better than a foolish friend.A bad enemy is better than a sweet FRENEMY.Fake things don't last avoid fake friends.Seek advice but don't ignorantly expose urself.If its a secret keep it to urself.A loose mouth is a lost dignity.Be careful how U share ur story.Ts not everybody that likes ur story.Some people can turn a heart desire to a life disaster out of hatred.When its time to move up to the next chapter of ur life.Let go of anybody who will hold U down n remain D same.You can never please the world.But always make sure you keep at least 2 people out everybody that u come across in ur journey of life.You need one while u r still alive and you need one when you r dead n gone.  MERRY XMAS !!!!

** Akin Al - ameen **

Fingers are not equal be flexible, sensible and considerate when you r ready to date. don't raise your hopes and expectations too high. when your expectations are too high you may have to wait for a very long time, because there's nothing like a perfect human being.If you see someone close to what you want try and blend along,as time goes on you can help him or her to blend in to whichever taste or class.Don't fall in love with anyone for any reasons apart from love.Be sure your eyes and brain are wide open also when making a choice. Don't deceive yourself when choosing your partner. A GOD fearing and hardworking man is far better than a wealthy handsome man without d fear GOD.
 
Always learn from past experiences when falling n love.Never allow D agonies of D past 2affect ur present.Don't give up if u still want 2try.Be mindful of ur age when taking ur time n doing ur plans.Dont make ur expectations too high when u ready 2date.Looking 4perfection can make u wait 4long.When u r tired of waiting u may end up settling 4less.Settling 4less can make U look desperate n get less than wot u r worth

Sometimes we hold very precious to our heart someone or something we don't even have or will never at all.We show the person to the world that he/ she is the person we love.We make sacrifices to make the person know how much we care,We go through pain to put smile on the face of the person we love.We care less about what people say about them.We are dreaming of spending the rest of our life with a person who sees us as a fool and has an entire plan for his future with another person.No one can take advantage of you without your knowledge.Don't get carried away when falling in love.There is a limit to how much a sensitive and sensible person can be fooled all in the name of love.Love is not what you impose on people.Don't force yourself to sing where nobody wants to hear your voice.
 
** Akin Al-ameen **
 

Destiny is a book with many chapters of life, every soul has one.Inside each book lies D stories,programmes,timing and events of our life.Our destiny in life can never be D same. Destiny is a lonely road WE sometimes have to pass alone. Don't feel sad n lonely if U r walking alone.Everybody is busy with their own destiny n life.If u dont know ur destiny don't relax. D easiest way to depression and a miserable life is to keep comparing your destiny with others in life.D events of our life cant be D same.Human Beings R d only creature that has D freedom of WILL POWER.The ability n power to choose between good or bad.You will be hold responsible for ur actions n life.Any step U take can either be towards or against ur destiny.Always walk with GOD.What ever decision u make can erase,modify or fulfill ur destiny.Becareful how U make others cry to put smile on ur face.GOD may not act on time but HE surely never 4gets.Happiness nd sadness comes in different sizes N forms,both r inevitable natural stages in life.There's no age limit to trials and grace of GOD.Anything can happen to anybody at any point in life.Your relationship with GOD and behavior towards fellow human being can determine the size and time limit of ur sorrow and joy.Destiny is what makes a fool rich and makes D wise works under him.GOD can bless anyone regardless of their religious belief.Your destiny was written long before u were born.GOD already finished HIS plans on U before u start making ur plans.GOD is a merciful GOD.But HIS actions are unquestionable n HE surely never regrets.HE can do anything to anybody without prior notification.Those who died in natural disasters are not enemies of GOD.Never make GOD an option in ur life.Make HIM a priority.Destiny may fail us.But D grace of GOD surely covers all of us.If you are not happy with ur destiny then pray to GOD.Those who start without GOD always start afresh.But check urslef before praying to GOD.Praying and worshiping is never D same.Worshiping is serving while praying is asking.Never expect a thank U for brushing ur own teeth.HE is ever forgiving.If U turn to HIM.GOD is very close to U.Don't travel miles looking for HIM.Becareful how and where U worship and pray to GOD.Don't enslave your soul while searching for grace.Miracle and Magic is never D same.Don't go to a magic place and expect D miracle of GOD.HE is a miraculous GOD,HE doesn't do magic.

The most important person in your life is you.You are so precious to GOD that HE created U d way U are and never make another duplicate of U.Love urself n accept urself.Reject anybody,s definition of U.You can never please the world,no one has ever succeeded in pleasing D world.LIVE peacefully according to the will of GOD.Everybody n life has a story,never allow anyone use your story or situation to look down on you.There is a time limit to every situation in life.Your life is ur world.Never give the control of your life to anyone.Never compromise ur happiness for anything in life.If you love something go for it.If you are not happy with something dont pretend.Everybody in your life will eventually fall into two categories,some against you,and some in favor of you.Be bold to take any decision concerning ur life.Whoever cant appreciate you or add value to your can take a walk!!!!.Never allow people to stay in your life more than the time they deserve.Sometimes you have to determine your worth in life.It doesn't mean you are arrogant or proud remember "If you're ∙NOT∙ being treated with love & respect, check your "price tag".Perhaps you have marked yourself down. It's you who tell people what you're worth atimes ∙BY WHAT YOU ACCEPT.∙ Get off the "clearance rack" and get behind the glass where they keep all the "valuables.no one will look up to you if you look down on yourself.Never allow ppls comment determine ur life.Some ppl can't fully enjoy their own life bcuz they r busy watching U closely waiting 2 see a mistake! give them a show.When enemies turn your life to movie tell them to keeep watching.Be true to yourself when living your life.Don't be deceived by fake compliments.Don't live ur life in pain trying to oppress anyone.D greatest foolishness is to deceive urself.its painful n more expensive to live a fake life.if you must act like somebody or condemn someone to boost your own ego that means your self esteem is dead.Never hate or beef anybody becuase of GOD,S grace in thier life.Hatred in your heart can delay ur GRACE.Never give to people what u cant take from them.Be humble and respectful.Respect is a merit earn it don't demand for it.Never look down on anyone.Don't get carried away by ur position in life.You r bless not because you r smarter or better but because you are favored by GOD.....

All these i have said does not make me any better..I am a human being and i have my flaws and weakness as well.I am not better than anybody neither am i perfect..These are just my thoughts...my personal opinion

Not all men are men..There are three types of men..A boy...A player and a man..whoever dates a boy has ruined herself,because a boy will always be a boy regardless of his age..he will care less about what makes you happy as a woman.He prefers to be among his boys friend than staying with you..He knows nothing about putting a home together and he is not ready to know.its d wife or the girlfriend who will be doing the thinking and take decisions on the home or. on d relationship.It will be hard for him to part with the things he is used to as a teenager.He will more concerned about his dressing than his reputation..He will talk about everything in his relationship to everybody and openly condemn his woman
 

THE PLAYER
 Its better to be single than dating a player..Game playing is a stage in every mans life where he will date more than one woman and hide them from one another.A man who doesn't. Go through this stage can be very dangerous and reckless later in life.Whoever refused to stop or leave that stage of his life is a PLAYER.A player can make you develop a heart attack.Any time or efforts you spend with a player can or end up in vain.No matter how many efforts you put to make a relationship work a player will never take you serious.Because he is not ready to settle down. Its easy for players to date any woman because they appears very attractive,clean and dress very smart and sometimes very rich.Do not be deceived by a first impression when choosing a mate.A player will make you promises that will make you feel on top of the world.A player will spend any amount of money and efforts to get between your legs when he accomplish his mission his story will change..He will always give you excuses when you bring up the issue of marriage.

THE REAL MAN
 A real man is the best gift any woman could get n life.A real man will love you genuinely and prove his love to you.He will be sensitive to your needs He will be allergic to your tears and treats you like queen.He can never be complete without you.He will make promises and keep to them.You will be his best friend, his next of kin and he will confide in you.He will gossip with you,laugh with you and cry with you.whatever brings you happiness and joy will be his priority in life.He will refuse to function when you are down and be on top of the world when you are happy.He will love whatever concerns you and connected to you.when there's conflict he will never raise either his voice or his hands.He will peacefully make you understand his point or view.He will carry u along whatever he plans to do.If you disagree with him he will never take offence..He will trust without fear and give without expect
 
** Akin Al - ameen **

People wake up everyday moving from places to places,working from morning till night. Everybody is busy in their own world. Diffrent people with different missions in life. Everybody is alone in thier own world , lonely with millions of thought rolling up n down their brain. Some they can share and some they will share in life. Behind every smiling and good looking faces of different people lies an untold stories of sorrow and joy.Everybody in life is fighting a war. GOD did not create us to be the same. Our story and glory can never be the same. A journey of 8hrs can take another person 8yrs . GOD has a different purpose for everyone of us. Life is a book with many chapters in it. Any next chapter of life is not predictable, sometimes its good and sometimes its bad. Life is mixture of both. U can't have days without nights. It doesn't matter your status in life. D rich will cry and the poor will laugh. Everybody will have their moments in life. If U are not happy today doesn't mean you will be sad for life. You are not alone in your journey of life. GOD is with U at every point in life. Remember the time you were crying alone about D situation of ur life, GOD was right there beside U smiling because HE alone knows your final destination in life. Sometimes we put all our efforts to get what we want. But when things don't work according to our plan, we feel bad and depressed thinking our efforts is in vain. Then GOD will give us a reminder that harvest comes in HIS time not our time. Sometimes also U ask GOD for what U want and HE gives U what U need. Because what U need is more important than what U want. Everybody in life falls into two categories. Some are living life while some are just existing. Never allow D situation of ur life to take control of U. Be grateful to GOD for the gift of life, for the things U already have that others are crying to get.If GOD still keeps you alive HE surely has a plan for you.Life is too short to live in sorrow and grief.Whoever lacks access to ur destiny can never laugh at you.Don't postpone ur happiness live it! Always be in total control of your life. Don't go the way life takes you.Take life the way you go.Remember you were born to live don't live because u were born!Live everyday of your life as if its the last,because one day you will surely be right. D truth about life is that U won't leave it alive.

Love is the sweetest thing in life. Love has only one single meaning. Love is deep, plain, pure, undiluted, colorless​, its spiritual, its peace. Like the way a true mother loves her kid. Love speaks only one language. Love does not care about your color, language, education, count​ry, status, religion, position,gender, condition, and situation. Love does not discriminate not differentiate. Its the best feeling in the world. Love is both subjective and objective.. Love is seeing and love GOD in every creature. Selfish emotional feelings is far different from true love.When we attach so many things to love we say love hurts. but D truth about love is true love never hurts.True love brings happiness n peace of mind. True love is evergreen and everlasting.True Love is giving and giving happily without expecting anything in return.To sacrifice happily and joyfully from deep down D heart with no string attached.Ts hard to love other people when U hate urself. True and unconditional love is very hard as human, because there's no such thing like a perfect human being. D best relationship is when two people r truthfully in love. To be close to true love try and love GOD first. When you are n love with GOD, U r close to loving human being unconditionally. True love doesn't hate,because its freed from hatred. To love someone unconditionally just for D sake of love.If you hate someone U loved so much because he/​she breaks ur heart then what you had was not love n d first place.True love is letting go peacefully of those we love and cherished so much but decides to leave.True love never seeks for vengeance.True love is neither arrogant,proud,imposing,greedy,nor​ demand respect.True love is quick to forgive.True love never regrets because it never expects.True love never oppress or look down on anyone regadless of their status n life.True love is to love n do unto others what U want for urself. True love never cheats because D love is enough.If loving someone is bringing or giving U problems try n love them from distance.LOVE is D only difference between heaven earth.Love is the only cure to, POWER, GREED, LUST, HATRED, MON​EY, and WAR which are the main problems of the world. Ts not the religion differences that is causing religious problems n the world.its lack of true love, lack of true love for fellow human being.True love is the mother of peace. Wherever there's true love PEACE is inevitable.

I write about love because I have always been deeply bothered by society’s definitions of love and how most people talk about love, and everything they associate with it. I have given this topic days of thought, and always found it extremely hard to explain my thoughts in actual words.How do you explain something as abstract and unexplainable as love?
Unconditional love is more of a spiritual thing. It’s not bound by physical things, like blood relations and the desire to pro create. It has nothing whatsoever to do with sex. Most people are in relationships because they’re horny and/or lonely, even if they genuinely think they love the other person. But if the person they “love” suddenly lost their “equipment” for whatever reason, would they still want to be with that person? Relationships based on needs are not unconditional.

Real, true love is unconditional. All other “kinds” of love are not really love. Most people on this planet have never experienced unconditional love in their entire life.To love someone unconditionally means that you love the person exactly as they are, exactly as they were before, and exactly as they will be in the future – because people change all the time, so if you love the person, you will love them even if they become something you disagree with. True love is not about you or your pleasure or your amusement. It’s not about what you get out of it or what the other person can give to you. It’s not about having a trophy you can show off with and tell people “This is *MY* girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/​husband/son/daughter/​whatever”. You do not “own” anyone. It’s not about you feeling ‘proud’ to be with someone who always agrees with everything you say and do and never does anything you disagree with. Unconditional love means that the person can just live their life exactly as they choose and you will always be there for them no matter what.