i met this not quite long, one day in the course of our discussion he asked me when i was going to get married i responded that soonest either this year or next, though i am not engaged i just said it jokingly after dis i asked  about his own relationship status but to my surprise he told me he is not engaged and that he is seriuosly searching for a responsible wife and that if i could help him with one he'll be very greatful. with this i regreted my actions. up till when we saw last, he still asked about what he requested me to do (although he is a shy person). what can i do to reverse my statement   

i av a fiancee(male) dat requests for hw i spend my salary every monthly ,after giving account he'll ask me to borrow him money of which i'll av no option so far he already knows hw much i have in my account. is this write.pls advice me

it cannot be generalized but 80% of d girls out there do it.dey use dat as an avenue to acquire what they need or want