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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Kidney Disease Can Kill Anyone; See How To Save Yourself |
on: 5-07-2013 10:12 AM
| For dose who smoke anyhow n drink anyhow. no wonder kidney problems are so common. any small tin, u drink star in d mrning, drink gulder in d afternoon and drink Harp at 9t. ur belle dey grow evry day. pple go dey deceive u say u dey enjoy. sign of gud living. Not knowing dat ure dying slowly. Your lifestyle and habits go a long way to increase ur life span. but most pple dnt knw. dey just do all dese tins out of stubborness. | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: SOME MEN ARE IMPOSSIBLE TO PLEASE... (Page 4) |
on: 7-06-2013 07:19 PM
| Im so hapi dat i live my life free from worries. I no get two heads. na only one i get and i no fit disturb am bcos of a mere human. Nice post jare. please ko, displease ni. who get tym for all dese tins?? Only insecure men wit inferiority complex have dese problems. dnt have tym for such men. Life is meant to be lived and enjoyed. ladies take note. | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: IS IT PROPER TO TELL A BOYFRIEND ABOUT YOUR EARNINGS/SALARY? (Page 7) |
on: 5-06-2013 10:38 AM
| I think i agree wit those that said it should only be disclosed 2 one's husband n not a boyfriend, cos some very nice and genuine boyfriends may turn naughty and selfish the very moment they know about it. That's just what i think ooo...
My dear, at the end of the day, d choice remains urs. If ur intuition strongly is against telling him please dnt bother urself. Ure worrying urself ova nofin. | | |
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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: He Does Not Want A Court Wedding |
on: 5-06-2013 09:17 AM
| Find out if he has a child somewhere already or a woman is pregnant for him somewhere. If none, then he must have plans of getting someone pregnant. The court wedding is not an issue but his statement .
U make perfect sense!! Exactly wat i tot. deres a hidden agenda dis guy wants to execute. she needs to do a lot of investigations on dis guy, maybe she doesnt know much abt him. | | |
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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: He Does Not Want A Court Wedding (Page 2) |
on: 5-06-2013 09:15 AM
| His reasoning for refusing a court wedding is arrogant,selfish,suspicious though unfortunately wrong.(no type of wedding deprive your children of their inheritance). put your feet down or push him off the wagon only if the two of you had earlier agreed on that type of wedding.
My broda, u talk sense oo. im telling u if dis lady marry dis guy, she is in pot of hot boiling pepper soup!! | | |
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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: He Does Not Want A Court Wedding (Page 2) |
on: 5-06-2013 09:14 AM
| His reasoning for refusing a court wedding is arrogant,selfish,suspicious though unfortunately wrong.(no type of wedding deprive your children of their inheritance). put your feet down or push him off the wagon only if the two of you had earlier agreed on that type of wedding.
My broda, u talk sense oo. im telling u if dis lady marry dis guy, she is in pot of hot boiling pepper soup!! | | |
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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: He Does Not Want A Court Wedding (Page 4) |
on: 5-06-2013 09:12 AM
| Aaaahhh. U dis woman, if u dare make dat mistake of marrying dis man, URE IN SOUP!!! No wonder marriages are falling apart. too bad. I pity u oooooooooooo. dat man has someone else he is planning to take as 2nd wife n u dey dere dey ask us question. mehn, see fire for ur front!! U no go run for ur life? u will later come to confession forum n start crying blood for us dere!! Be Wise oooo. Ah!! | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: IS IT PROPER TO TELL A BOYFRIEND ABOUT YOUR EARNINGS/SALARY? |
on: 5-06-2013 08:55 AM
| u dey spik too much grama.. even if it turns out to be foolish.. u dont expect a reward wen showing love, do u?
Foolish??? I thought we are all entitled to our opinions here. even ur opinion will sound foolish to odas so hw foolish mine sounds isnt supposed to affect u dat much. im nt supposed to care abt dat. lolzzz. sori if u feel dat way. If throwing away caution is ur style, gud for u then. and who's talkin abt reward here?? which reward are u talking about madam?? lolzzzzzzz. | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: IS IT PROPER TO TELL A BOYFRIEND ABOUT YOUR EARNINGS/SALARY? |
on: 4-06-2013 04:11 PM
| Thank God u said "INVEST WISELY". Dat alone tells u dat in issues lyk dese, U need to be cautious. When u put in all ur efforts in a rlatnshp, d question u nid to ask urself is, "IS MY PARTNER DOING THE SAME"? IS HE OR SHE DOING HEAVEN AND EARTH FOR ME DAT I TRULY DESERVE?? If ure putting all ur efforts and ur partner isnt appreciative of it or doesnt seem to put any effort as well, wat will u do??? Have it mind dat wen someone seems to do almost everytin in a rlatnshp to make it work, d oda partner tends to relax. somtyms, wen we arent sure of d future, we shud give a chance for d oda partner to show wat he or she has in store for u. if u decide to do all d work in a rlatnshp, ur partner will relax. D equation here isnt balanced. its only a balanced rlatnshp dat can go far. Not every man is d same.Not every man has d mentality of balancing a rlatnshp. some men wud just watch u do evrytin for dem and yet fantasize about anoda lady dat does absolutely nofin for dem. and dats y u nid to be cautious n watch ur man more dan playing the role of a mother too soon. A saying says "if u want to be treated lyk a Queen, den act lyk One". A Queen allows pple to do tins for her n if a man treats her so, she wud treat him lyk a King. Caution is d word here. well, U cud throw away the caution n come back and tell us how it worked for u. | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: IS IT PROPER TO TELL A BOYFRIEND ABOUT YOUR EARNINGS/SALARY? |
on: 4-06-2013 10:29 AM
| I am speaking from experience, please I think it sounds ideal to do so, but I will not encourage anyone to reveal your earnings to your boyfriend because that can be the beginning of trouble, especially if you know that you make more money than him. Men have huge EGO, and the smallest thing can make them feel insecure even something as small as your salary. It is not a crime to keep it to yourself, after all he is not yet married to you, so save yourself the trouble. Also you have to accept within yourself that if you will not disclose your earning to him, then don't force him to disclose his to you, so that your relationship will not be based on what either one of you earn.
Ure very correct ooo. Its just bcos he revealed his earnings to her. dats d only reason y i suggested she telling him. but its nt a crime still if she decides not to anyway. d choice is still hers. who are we to decide for her? | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: IS IT PROPER TO TELL A BOYFRIEND ABOUT YOUR EARNINGS/SALARY? |
on: 4-06-2013 10:29 AM
| I am speaking from experience, please I think it sounds ideal to do so, but I will not encourage anyone to reveal your earnings to your boyfriend because that can be the beginning of trouble, especially if you know that you make more money than him. Men have huge EGO, and the smallest thing can make them feel insecure even something as small as your salary. It is not a crime to keep it to yourself, after all he is not yet married to you, so save yourself the trouble. Also you have to accept within yourself that if you will not disclose your earning to him, then don't force him to disclose his to you, so that your relationship will not be based on what either one of you earn.
Ure very correct ooo. Its just bcos he revealed his earnings to her. dats d only reason y i suggested she telling him. but its nt a crime still if she decides not to anyway. d choice is still hers. who are we to decide for her? | | |
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Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: IS IT PROPER TO TELL A BOYFRIEND ABOUT YOUR EARNINGS/SALARY? |
on: 4-06-2013 10:25 AM
| even when he is jobless and makes no demand from her.. My dear not every woman who spend on her man is Stupid/foolish...money offcourse they say is the root of all evil.. if you dont spend on ur man as your spouse, or ur kids, who then will you spend it on, ur friends? even if you spend on him as ur bf whom u love,cherish and even worship the ground he walks on...and at the end of the day, it didnt work out so well like you taught, den it was never his fault.. but yours...Besides money has nvr made man(humans) happy...nor will it.. theres nothing in its nature to produce happiness.. cos the more of it one has, the more one wants..Margaret Thatcher said.. it is not the creation of wealth that is wrong.. but the love of money for its own sake.. besides a rltnshp or Marriage that makes nothing but money is a poor marriage or rltnshp...
My dear, we cannot deny wat is going on around us when money becomes an issue in a rlatnshp. dnt pretend u dnt knw wats goin on so i dnt have to repeat myself. when it comes to issues lyk dese, u got to apply caution ooooo. I still stand by wat i said sha. sometimes, men dnt make d demands its we d women dat decides to take a mother's role by spending heaven n earth for a man and in d end why is it dat d women alwys complain about one tin or d oda? Then d man begins to complain of her bein controlling. In anytin we do as women, our emotions are always involved. dats why men and women are not d same. dats why we can never have a logical reasoning as a man. dats why we always feel hurt wen our love isnt reciprocated d way we want it becos of all dat we have invested. i will always advice ladies to never invest too much in a rlatnshp dey are nt sure wud even go as far as marriage bcos we can never tell d future. In dis case, d poster isnt married to dis guy YET n dats y she needs to be cautious ooooo. Lets call a spade a spade abeg n stop living in fantasy. In a worldwide survey,Money is always d issue in marriages leading to divorce. so we shud alwys be cautious so as not to give ourselves problems. | | | |