But be cautious abt it. And be very observant abt any change in behavior after tellin him. U can neva knw d mind of a human bcos it constantly undergoes change. Be as wise as a serpent.

yes. Ure ryt. He may be tempted to start making demands but dis can only happen if he's jobless n ure d one dat decided to foot his bills. Somtyms, men dnt make d demands,its we d stupid women dat take it upon ourselvs to be luk desperate n spend 4 d men. In ur case, he's open abt his.so derefore u shud be open abt urs. Its ur choice at d end of d day.

Very correct. Most men especialy african men dnt knw dis. Some of dem r living in denial especialy d married men. I hope dey wil learn.

Husbands r scarce commodities? Den hw come we r hearing of women mistreatin deir husbands wen dey cheat? Why r divorced women remarryin n who r d men marryin dese women? Are d men imbeciles?

Exactly. Dats d difrence btw african n white men. D whites hav enforced marital laws n dats y domestic violence is a crime. African men do not value n respect women n d women dnt even help demselvs n yet dey complain of men doin dis n dat. As u see me so, i dnt knw hw to pretend to be somtin dat im nt. If im nt comfortable abt somtin i say it rada dan resolvin to use an Ak 47 rifle 2 blow up any man's brain. Ive neva tolerated cheatin i wud neva. I make sure i let any man im dating to knw exactly hw i feel abt cheating.  I say it as it is so dat d man knws exactly wat wil happen to him if he cheats n i stick to it.

which shameful life r divorcees living? Where r u from? 18th century? So uve nt bn on dis planet earth to see hw pple r divorcing n remarrying anyhow? Even som pple parents here commentin have divorced n remarried. D men wey dey dese divorced women be ghosts? U no dey see dem? U obviously dnt knw wat ure sayin.

hahahaha. I luv ur comment so much. Dese women interviewed r just a very small portion of millions of women we have in nigeria. So its only som1 whose brain is d size of groundnut dat wud take wat dese women said n use it to generalize odas. Dnt be surprised dat some married ones amongst dem r cheating on deir husbands. Pple r supposed to knw dat nigerians r d greatest hypocrites in d world. No be dis same women dey cut deir husbands dick if dey cheat, or put laxative or rat poison or sleeping pills or menstrual blood for deir husband food if he make d mistake of cheating? Its nt evrytin we say dat we can do dat we rily do. As u see me so, if i dare tolerate cheating, im equaly doin d same. Dis guy u replyd is obviously living in d 18th century cos he doesnt to see d rate at which divorced women r marryin. D men wey dey marry dese women be ghosts? Lolz. Dnt mind him jare. He's a learner. No be married women dey cheat lyk water nowadays? Abeg leave mata for mathias jare.

Na today??? wat do u expect?? after e go talk say e never find beta wife.

Dats why i say nigerians have d most ridiculous n backward mentality in d world. Our mentality rily nids surgery! Nice post!

Oh! Just ten on d list n nigerian men r shivering especialy d ones wit big mouth sayin na white woman beta pass 9ja girls. Poster, dese atrocities cnt be compared to d ones men al ova d world do even in 9ja d dat we hear evryday. Get a post 4 men n den u wil see dat dey r worse. Or u no dey hear of men wey dey kill deir entire family? Find beta post jare.

So if u cnt mention her name, of wat use is dis news?

Which Holy water? Wat is holy abt d water dat 3 lives have bn lost? GOD will soon expose al u fake fake jokers calld men of God. Ur broda chris, dey talk say masturbatn n smoking isnt sin. He also introduced a demonic book dat has no biz wit christians, book of apocrypha. Dats hw God is using ur mouth n ur actns to xpose al of u. Al of u misrepresenting him in bad light, ur works r worthless. Perform al d miracles u want, if dey r nt frm God, ur end is coming in a very disgraceful manner. D bible has said it. And so it wil be so.

Which Holy water? Wat is holy abt d water dat 3 lives have bn lost? GOD will soon expose al u fake fake jokers calld men of God. Al of u misrepresenting him in bad light, ur works r worthless. Perform al d miracles u want, if dey r nt frm God, ur end is coming in a very disgraceful manner. D bible has said it. And so it wil be so.

So as serious as dis matter is, ur brain is so dead dat u nid our permission b4 u wil knw wat to do?

Nice post. Unfortunately, many marriages are lyk dis n d victim has to bear al dese till death. Too bad.

And why wont dere be cheating wen ur hubby is always goin for one trip after anoda??? den later we will hear dat u have divorced.

Dats why it is said dat d best marriage is between two frnds. if u dnt see ur gf or wife as ur best frnd, dat marriage wud luk more like father n daughter rlatnshp.. Only pple wit dis kind of mentality do well in deir marriage. In every romantic rlatnshp dere must be a dose of Friendship.

Sorry. I meant Any link to  the Ex must be gotten rid of fast.

THANK U MY BRODA. D only sensible comment here. ure supposed to knw we nigerians very well. we like to give advice dat we normally cannot practise. we are hypocrites or have u forgotten?? U go marry beta wife if ure still single. my own advice is dat the woman shud get rid of that watch fast!! any link to d end must be gotten rid of. and d husband needs serious marriage counselling.

Cheating Is like a cycle. U cheat, u will get cheated on. whether ure a man or a woman.