Please and please...do not believe this lie from the pit of hell. I almost passed up commenting on the subject matter but these perverse spirits are capturing alot of people's minds. Be loose in Jesus name.
No Nigerian couples or any couples are to made love before getting married. Fornication will breed many other unforeseen problems and start the marriage out on a bad foundation.
1. Chemistry. If it happens, as it possibly has with the poster’s example, still all is workable inside their marriage; if the couple just look at themselves and do what is best for them. Stop looking at others and what they think might be happening with other couples. Things are not always the way they look or seem. When two people get married, the husband is suppose to delete all other vain imaginations of other women from his mind and the wife is suppose to delete all other vain imaginations of other men from her mind and NOT having sex before marriage makes it easier to achieve. It may take some time but a husband striving to please his wife and a wife striving to please her husband, they both can be taken care of without faking anything.
2. segxwal Identity. It is written in scriptures that homosegxwality is an abomination. I use to believe it was mainly a choice conscious or unconsciously but after witnessing many testimonies, there seems to be an evil spirit behind the perverse behavior. How or when the evil seed got planted though, I do not know. I don't believe it's the not made love before marriage that is an issue. We are to seek godly advice, and even more so God's advice about a life partner. God will definitely tell a person, if they ask him, about the person they hope to marry.
3. Sex Itself. Many times it may not be the actual sex but other issues like selfishness, pride, impatience, insensitivity, etc. that may be major hindering factors. If the couple is thinking about each other then they will reach their own special place together. Keep your private matters between husband and wife, as it is to be this way. Husband and wife are to cover each other, not publically shame one another.
4. Size. I don’t have much to say other than, if you love your partner and you are committed to your marriage, make it work.
5. segxwal Issues. If any segxwal issues should arise, take them to God first and seek medical solutions if necessary. What if no segxwal issues were present when the couple married but developed years into the marriage? Having sex before marriage, is still not the best.
The poster says that sex is an important part of marriage, as like other parts and it is true. It is also true that God rewards purity in marriage. Fornicating or having sex before marriage starts the marriage off on a negative foundation. Who is to say having sex before marriage is not a contributor to the rampant transferring of the spirit of lust, ungodly soul ties, strange women/men in marriages and so many other demonic influences. If one chooses to made love before marriage, then one is choosing to be disobedient to God’s word. Disobedience gives satan access to enter into our life, marriage, family, etc.
Don’t be deceived!
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