it is money issue
I will advice you to tell your friend, marriage is not what u rush into, if he still luvs d girl, let him suspend the marriage thing, after-all they hv been 2gether for 4yrs nw, and this short time will nt stop it except he dose not luv d girl again, call the girl 4 a heart to heart talk on wht they both want for themselves, let him try to bring up ideas/suggestions that they can work on to better the girls family since that is the only issue here. Tell him, he shuld be helpful to her at this time of her life and not jst abandoning her cos her family is passing thru a tryin time..
i no sabi type plenty my brother, more to say, if u are interested, u fit send me mail sha, we go yan more..