I was married 12 years to a Netherlands man, and because we lost our first daughter we grew apart, and lost each other there. He became a workaholic when i was alone with the kids 24 7. There was no way i could talk to him.Whatever i tried he just ran out to toilet and other places and ignored my talks.All became worse and worse troughout the years, but he never cheated me though.At the end we both made the decision to end the marriage, because our twins also felt bad seeying us so unhappy.I tried to remarry to both Chidi Ihesiulo and Victor Ikpeba, but both were having women all over the world,and kids as well.Thats something a white never will accept, a man who sleeps with other, mainly because we dont want to get hiv , second because its humiliation number one.
They were so busy on all this women and kids, that marrying wasnt an option.I needed help that time and my ex husband a roof, so he came to stay under my roof as a normal friend, and he helped me when i helped him.
Since then we stay together in pure friendship and my last 2 kids of this naijas at least got him as a dad.I come from a large family on both my mothers as my dads side, and all are happily married, we all are christians, baptized by birth and our kids study and work hard all.It would be nice if the people on here would investigate things instead of saying whites dont listen to Gods word, because we do and also live by it.But at least we dont stay together, when the man is constantly sleeping around, and when that shows a very bad effect on the kids.The kids copy this behaviour and thats why most naija guys ,living in our countries, dont have any clue why God created  Eve, or how to show a woman some respect.They go from woman to woman, most of them.If one doesnt do what they want, they go to the next on their list.Is that good culture? Is that what they learned back home?At least we live honest , when something doesnt work , we talk and find a solution and when nothing works again, we make the right decision and part and make sure the kids still feel comfortable, more then a mum and dad who argue constantly.Any idea how hurting that is for kids?I just try to explain my side of this.Stay blessed all.

SLEEP WELL.

UR THE ONE WHO CONSTANTLY INSULTED ME OK. OR U DONT KNOW WHAT UR DOING HERE, TALKING OF A MAD WOMAN, AM JUST DISCUSSING U ONLINE IN NIGERIA, THEY LAUGH ABOUT U, SAID I SHOULDNT MIND U, U DIDNT SEE LIFE YET. THEY ARE RIGHT. HAVE A WONDERFUL EVENING AND TAKE CARE, AND STAY BLESSED, BYEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE.

I DIDNT LOSE ANYTHING BABY GIRL, IN FACT AFTER THAT THIS GUYS DIDNT SHOW ANY RESPONSIBILITY OF THEIR OWN FLESH AND BLOOD MY EX HUSBAND AND I ARE BACK AGAIN. HE SHOWED TO BE A REAL MAN AND REAL FATHER , AND SINCE THAT TIME HE AND I  ARE TOGETHER. HE AND I DIVORCED THAT TIME BECAUSE WE LOST OUR FIRST DAUGHTER, AND THAT HURT BROUGHT US FAR FROM EACH OTHER. SOMETHING U WONT UNDERSTAND WITH UR IRON HEART.BUT HE SHOWED TO BE SAD ABOUT THE WHOLE THING AND AT LEAST IS THE BEST FATHER FOR THIS KIDS NOW, WHO DONT HAVE THEIR OWN DADS. I WON COURT LAST YEAR ON KENLEYS DAD, AND SINCE THEN HE IS RESPONSIBLE, HE PROMISED HIS SON THE HEAVEN, BUT DOESNT KEEP TO HIS PROMISSES AS EXPECTED. THE WIFE HE GOT FOR HIS PAPER HE DIVORCED AGAIN, AND HE MARRIED ANOTHER SET OF LADIES AGAIN.U KEEP YELLING BUT U DONT SEE THE SERIOUS THINGS THAT WENT ON IN MY LIFE ATALL. ALL U DO IS HATE. NICE OF U.

FOR UR INFO I WOULD HAVE HAD 7 KIDS IF I DIDNT HAVE LOST 3 OF MY BABIES. AND I AINT 22 , SO THE TIME I WAS UR AGE, I WAS MARRIED HAD MY OWN HOUSE WITH MY HUSBAND, AND I WAS DOING MODEL WORKS.ALSO IN TV AS A DANCER,SO U SEE, AGAIN U JUDGE OVER SOMEBODY U DONT KNOW A THING ABOUT.THATS KIDS TALK RIGHT.THEY DONT THINK OR INVESTIGATE BEFORE OPENING THEIR MOUTH.I FORGIVE U SINCE UR AS OLD AS MY OWN DAUGHTER.DOEIIIIIIII

MY ASS IS SO NICE THAT ALL GUYS LOVE TO HAVE IT,THE RIGHT SIZE GIRL. UR THE MAD ONE HERE, SEE UR DECENSY IS GONE FAST, THATS WHAT I MEAN, I JUST NEED TO GET U ANGRY TO SHOW UR REAL U HERE. ALL NOW SEE WHAT A NICE DECENT GIRL U ARE.GOOD FOR ME. 1-0 FOR HOLLAND HERE.KEEP THE ACT AND I LAUGH, AT LEAST I LIVE WITH MY HUSBAND FOR LONG YEARS. SINCE 1985. CAN  U SAY SAME? MAZZEL KLEINE MEID.

SAME FOR ME SMALL GIRL, THATS WHY I AM BACK TO MY FIRST HUSBAND, SINCE HE AT LEAST IS A REAL MAN WHO TAKES CARE OF KIDS A RIGHT WAY, EVEN KIDS THAT ARENT HIS OWN.U CAN BE JEALOUS OF ME TOO. THATS WHY ALL THE GUYS KEEP PLAYING WITH U HERE ONLINE, BEING A MARRIED WOMAN, FUNNY GIRL. DONT MAKE ME LAUGH, READ ON UR OWN PICS THEY WANT TO SEE UR BEHIND, NICE FOR A MARRIED WOMAN. BLAH BLAH. GIVE ME A BREAK.

JA OF COURSE I COME BACK , U PEOPLE ARE SO DUMB THAT I NEED TO COME BACK.HOLLAND ISNT PURE AND THAT WORD NEVER CAME OUT OF MY MOUTH, ALL OF U STILL DONT KNOW HOW TO READ.ALL COUNTRIES IN WORLD HAVE PROBLEMS, ALSO MINE AND I DONT DENIE ANYTHING HERE.IN FACT I WANT ALL THIS BAD THINGS TO END ON ALL WORLD PLACES.STARTING HERE IN HOLLAND.SO ALL OF U ARE WRONG AGAIN. U LIKE TO GET ME ANGRY AND SAY I AM ANGRY, BUT IN FACT I AM WITH A BIG SMILE ON MY FACE , READING THE NONSTOP NONSENSE HERE, AND MAMACITA, U GOT A BIG MOUTH FOR A GIRL UR AGE, UR UPBRINGING SHOWS.MAYBE U SHOULD MEET MY TWINS WHO ARE 22 LIKE U ARE, TO LEARN TO BEHAVE MORE DECENT. THEY DONT DARE TO TALK TO ANYBODY THIS WAY.GUESS UR JEALOUS FOR SOME REASON, POOR ANYWAY.
U GUYS ARE VERY FUNNY, TO KEEP TURNING UP NEW ISSSUES ABOUT ME HERE, AND ALL OF U WANT ME TO RUN CRYING, WELL I WONT,SIMPLY BECAUSE ITS A BIG LAUGH HOW PEOPLE TALK ABOUT ME , WHO NEVER EVEN CHATTED ME, NEVER MET ME, AND DONT KNOW A THING ABOUT ME.ITS LIKE A FAIRYTALE ABOUT ME.LOL.
MAYBE I WRITE A BOOK WITH ALL THE COMMENTS OF U ABOUT ME IN IT. HEHEHEHE.
I SIMPLY CANT BELIEVE HOW PEOPLE TWIST WORDS SO EASY, AND MAKE ALL SOUND SO BAD, WHEN I NEVER SAID ONE WRONG WORD. MAYBE U GO CALL DUTCH POLICE AND ASK THEM ABOUT THE ANTILLEN PEOPLE HERE TO KNOW IF I AM RIGHT OR NOT.NO SHAKING.THEY WILL ANSWER U CORRECTLY.
EVEN THE OLDER ANTILLEN PEOPLE TRY TO TALK TO THEIR YOUTH, TO STOP THEM FROM ALL THE CRIMINAL THINGS THEY DO HERE.FOR US A KNOW FOR ALL OF U A GUESS RIGHT.BUT KEEP IT UP, THE TOPIC ABOUT ME GOES HIGHER AND HIGHER.VERY INTERESTING TO SEE THE FANTASIES ALL OF U HAVE ABOUT ME.I WILL KEEP FOLLOWING THE COMMENTS HERE AND MAMA KEEP UP THE HATE AGAINST ME. ITS ALL OK.

ONE MORE THING, I NEVER INSULTED ANYBODY, ITS ALL OF U WHO INSULTED ME MORE THEN ONCE. THANKS FOR THAT.
ROSEMERRY PLACE UR OWN REAL PIC HERE, NOT SOME MODEL. ITS SO FAKE , JUST CHECK THE BACKGROUND WELL.SAD TO SEE.
AND PEOPLE I NEVER SAID HOLLAND IS HOLY, IN FACT IF I EVER GET THE CHANCE I LEAVE HERE, SO THIS IS TOTALY WRONG AGAIN.
NONE OF U EVER CHATTED ME , OR KNOW ME, SO WHATEVER U SAY DOESNT HIT SIDE OR WALL, ITS TOTALLY FAIRYTALE ALL OF IT.
IST JUST TO MAKE ME LOOK BAD, OUT OF ALL UR FRUSTRATIONS ABOUT WHITES, U PICK ME AS VICTIM TO GET IT OUT UR SYSTEM.
WELL I GOT A TOUGH SKIN .
I KNOW WHO I AM AND MANY AFRICANS KNOW WHO I AM, AND IF U ALL HEARD WHAT I ALL DID HERE FOR UR PEOPLE NIGERIANS, U WOULD SWALLOW UR OWN TONGUE FOR THE TRASH U SAID ABOUT ME, ME OF ALL PEOPLE.ASK THEM ONE BY ONE HOW I HELPED THEM.AND ALSO ASK THEM HOW FAST THEY FORGOT.THANKS BUT NO THANKS.I GOT ENOUGH WITNESSES OF ALL.I LAY DOWN MY CASE, PERIOD, ZOEK HET ALLEMAAL LEKKER UIT MENSEN, MAZZEL

I DONT GET INTO THE TRASH TOLD HERE ABOUT ME EVEN. MY LIFE IS COMPLETELY DIFFERENT, AND FOR WHO IS INTERESTED U CAN MAIL ME HERE.DECENT TALKS ONLY.I AM A DECENT PERSON AND LIVE MY LIFE VERY DIFFERENT,THEN ALL U PEOPLE MAKE ME LOOK NOW.I LAUGH , BECAUSE IT BECAME A BIG HATE ACTION AGAINST ME INSTEAD OF FOLLOWING THE FORUM AND READ WHAT I ACTUALLY WROTE THERE. GOD IS MY WITNESS THAT I NEVER WROTE OR EVEN IMPLIED A BLACK GOT THE GIRL PREGNANT, THANK GOD SOME ONLINE HERE WROTE ME BECAUSE THEY CAN READ BETTER.
THEY FEEL BAD WHAT HAPPEND TO ME. IT BROUGHT ME MORE FRIENDS THEN, THANKS TO U ALL HERE.
I STOP RIGHT HERE AND RIGHT NOW, AM TIRED OF HEARING ALL THIS RUBBISH TALKS ABOUT MY LIFE, BECAUSE THE TRUTH IS OPPOSITE.
ONLY VICTOR AND I KNOW THE REAL STORY BEHIND ALL OF THIS, AND THAT WE WERE HAVING A RELATION DURING SOME YEARS.2001 TILL 2006 ISNT REALLY A ONE NIGHT STAND.I DONT EVEN THINK OF BEING SUCH A CHEAP FOOL.
I AM MORE THEN THAT, THE FRIENDS WHO KNOW ME ON HERE CAN CONFIRM THAT.
I WISH ALL OF U A BLESSED LIFE, AND FOR THE LAST TIME I TELL U THAT NO MATTER ANY COLOUR A PERSON HAS, I LOVE AND RESPECT ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.

HAHAHAHAHAH WISHFUL THINKING U CALL THIS.LOL U PEOPLE GO MORE CRAZY BY THE DAY. VICTOR HIMSELF KNOWS THIS IS HIS DAUGHTER, SINCE SHE IS HIS MIRROR IN HER LOOKS.AND DONT FORGET THE AMOUNT OF NIGERIANS IN HOLLAND AND ONLINE WHO RECOGNIZED HIM YEARS AGO FROM MY PICS MADE OF HIM.U REALLY ARE FUNNY AND NOT SMART, SAYING THIS HERE.
HE ALSO GOT 2 SONS IN GERMANY, HIS LAST SON, IS EXACTLY MY DAUGHTER, WHICH MADE VICTOR SAY, I AM LIKE GULLIVER, HAVING KIDS AROUND THE GLOBE. TO HIM ITS A BIG JOKE, THE KIDS ARE HURT THOUGH.
I ALWAYS TOLD HIM HE CAN HIDE IN NAIJA, BUT ONE DAY GOD COMES TO HIM TO SHOW HIM HIS MISSINGS.
ONE OF THE MANY TIMES I VISITED VICTOR IN AMSTERDAM, I FOUND A LETTER ADRESSED TO VICTOR NOSA IKPEBA, ON HIS TABLE THERE.HE WAS THE ONLY PERSON LIVING THERE.SO WHAT U WANT MAN, DONT MAKE A FOOL OF URSELF.
THE LETTER WAS ABOUT THE EMIRATES.CHECK ON NET IF HE EVER PLAYED THERE.
EVERY WEEK HE TRAVELLED TO GERMANY ,SINCE HE PLAYED IN DORTMUND.I WAS THE ONE BRINGING HIM TO ICE,THE FAST TRAIN TO THERE.
I KNOW HIS CLOSET, SAW ALL HIS JEWELRY, HE SHOWED HIS THINGS TO ME, SO I GUESS I KNOW WHAT I TALK ABOUT RIGHT.A NORMAL MAN DOESNT PAY SO MUCH ON A WARDROBE.AND MAMACITA, UR RIGHT. I GET ALL THE ATTENTION , GUESS I AM A VIP NOW.
LOL LOL LOL
AND FOR SOME BAD THINKING PEOPLE HERE, I AM VERY OK AND A HAPPY WOMAN AND MOTHER.ITS NICE TO SEE THE DISCRIMINATING ACTS HERE, I THOUGHT THE SITE WAS FOR ALL PEOPLE. U GUYS FORGET WE GOT SAME COLOUR BLOOD AND WE PEE  SAME COLOUR TOO. ITS NOT WHITE BEING THE RACIST BUT BLACKS.CLEAR TO SEE ON HERE. NO SHAKING,I AM MORE THEN THAT.AND NOT PLANNING TO STOP WHAT I GOT TO SAY JUST OVER SOME THREATS OR DIRTY TALKS. I LIVE IN A FREE COUNTRY WHERE I CAN SAY AND WRITE WHAT I WANT.STAY BLESSED BYEEEEEEEEEEE

@gimac, am referring to uziy4real who called me anuofia on page 17. just had it translated by my naija friends in yahoo, who are very angry at the guy for calling me that.sad

UR THE ANIMAL HERE, BECAUSE U NEVER LEARNED HOW TO TALK TO A LADY AND MOTHER OF MY AGE. UR 20 AND THANK HEAVEN MY TWINS OF 22 DONT DARE TO TALK TO BAD TO ANY ADULT OR ELDER PERSON.

YOOOOOOOOOOOOO NOW I GET SCARED . I AM A BAPTIZED CHRISTIAN AND GOD PROTECTS HIS CHILDREN. BESIDE I GOT MANY VERY GOOD FRIENDS OVER THERE IN NAIJA, WHO WOULD MAKE SURE NOTHING CAN HURT ME OR MY KIDS. SECOND I SIMPLY CALL VICTOR AND TELL HIM UR WORDS.AND LAST , I PRAY FOR U, U NEED IT.ARE U A CHRISTIAN???

WELL PEOPLE IT WAS NICE BEING AMONG ALL OF U, I LEARNED A LOT TODAY.AM GOING TO BRING MY KIDS TO BED THEN REST MYSELF.
DONT FORGET TO KEEP UP THE HATE TALKS ABOUT ME ON THIS BLESSED SUNDAY.
GOD WILL SEE ALL OF U TROUGH AT THE END.
TAKE CARE AND STAY BLESSED MY NAIJA FRIENDS.
BYEEEEEEEEEEEEE

SHE IS SMALL AS MY OWN KIDS, AND DOESNT TELL TRUTH EITHER. ASK HER ABOUT DUTROUX ABOUT ANTWERPEN HARBOUR ETC. AS IF BELGIUM IS SUCH A NICE PLACE NOW, DONT MAKE ME LAUGH. I COME THERE TOO OFTEN TO NOT KNOW.FUNNY APRIL FOOLS FOR REAL.

MY TWINS DAD TELLS U THAT I AM RIGHT, I DONT HAVE ANYTHING TO HIDE, BECAUSE MY LIFE IS CLEAN AND GOOD. I AM TAKEN AS EXAMPLE IN ALL MY KIDS SCHOOLS, FOR BEING A VERY GOOD MOTHER FOR MY KIDS. PEOPLE COME TO ME FOR ADVICE.THATS THE WOMAN I AM. JUST HAD MY NEW AFRICAN NEIGHBOURS AT MY DOOR, WHO ASKED ME ADVICE AS WELL. AM FAR FROM RACIST. MY PRIVATE LIFE IS NOT EVEN MENTIONED YET BY ME,LOL. UR 22 AS OLD AS MY DAUGHTER AND SEE HOW U TALK TO ME. MY TWINS NEVER CAN TALK ON THIS LEVEL TO ANY WOMAN OR MAN MY AGE. LACK OF EDUCATION AGAIN.TOO SAD.BYE GIRL STAY BLESSED

SUGAR DADDY UR TOO FUNNY NOW, ARE U SERIOUS THAT U DONT KNOW THE AGE OF VICTOR IKPEBA??? MY KIDS ARE 22 AND U KNOW HIS AGE AND IF U DONT LOOK IT UP AT WIKEPEDIA.FUNNY GUY.
BESIDE, SINCE HE RAN BACK TO NAIJA TO ENJOY HIS MONEY AND LEFT HIS GERMAN WIFE AND 2 SONS, HIS FRENCH WOMAN AND 3 GIRLS AND ME WITH LATISHA BACK, U CAN SAY HE BEHAVES LIKE A BABY, SURE. HIS AGE DIDNT TEACH HIM MATURITY TO NOT LOOK AFTER HIS FLESH AND BLOOD.
SINCE THEM I AM WITH MY TWINS DAD WHO IS 53 OF AGE, SO UR SO TOTALLY OUT OF ORDER HERE, THAT IT IS EVEN FUNNY NOW.
U REALLY WANT TO HATE ME IN THIS SUNDAY?? IS THAT UR LEARNING IN CHURCH? I WONDER WHAT PRIEST U GOT THERE THEN.FUNNY GUY. GO SLEEP AND FIND ANOTHER TO HATE MAN.

NOBODY IN THIS SITE CAN READ FOR ONE THING, NONE OF U READ THAT ALL MY FRIENDS ARE AFRICANS IN HOLLAND AND IN NET.SO RACISME ISNT WITH ME. SECOND U GUYS ALL CONVICT ME.
I NEVER SAID A BLACK DID IT , U GUYS ARE SO FRUSTRATED THAT U TWISTED MY WORDS HERE, SO U PEOPLE CANT READ , PERIOD.
ALL I DID WAS EXPLAIN WHAT ST MAARTEN IS LIKE. AND AM SURE MANY WHITES LIVE THERE AS WELL ,. AND I TOLD ABOUT 10 TIMES NOW THAT NO MATTER WHO DID IT, BLACK WHITE PURPLE YELLOW OR GREEN, THE PERSON SHOULD STAY INSIDE PRISON THE REST OF HIS LIFE.
INSTEAD OF YELLING , READDDDDDDDD.I NEVER SAID ANYTHING LIKE IT, AND THANK GOD A LOT OF PEOPLE CAME TO MY MAIL TO SAY THAT I AM A GOOD WOMAN AND MOTHER. I DONT HATE BLACKS., AND WHATEVER CONCLUSION MY KIDS MAKE FOR THEIR LIFE IS THEIR CHOISE.THEY ARE BIG ENOUGH TO KNOW WHATS GOOD FOR THEM, I DONT FORCE MY THINKING ON ANY OF THEM.NONE OF U MET ME, KNOW ME FOR REAL., SO PLEASE FIND ANOTHER TO KICK.SOME OF U WILL BE PUNISHED FOR THE DIRTY TALKS, THE BAD THEY SAID TO ME, AND ABOUT A PERSON U NEVER EVEN TALKED TO.I LAUGH, BECAUSE U PEOPLE ARE SO POOR AND SO UNCHRISTIAN THAT I EVEN FEEL SORRY FOR ALL OF U. KEEP YELLING, AM FAR ABOVE IT ANYWAY.I GOT A LOVING FAMILY AND THATS ALL. IN THIS HOUSE IS PEACE. MANY AFRICANS OFTEN COME TO MY DOOR TO VISIT ME AND TALK TO ME.THATS THE BIG RACIST I AM,HAHAHAHAHAHAH FUNNY PEOPLE U ALL ARE.AND I DONT HAVE ANY PROBLEM BECAUSE OF MISTAKES OF MY KIDS DADS, THEY ARE TOO MINOR TO WORRY ABOUT ANYWAY. GUYS THAT CANT BE RESPONSIBLE AND LOVE THEIR OWN FLESH AND BLOOD ARENT REALLY WORTH WORRYING ABOUT IS IT. AND BESIDE, ENOUGH NIGERIANS LOVE THEM A LOT, SO THEY GET ENOUGH NAIJA ATTENTION.KEEP THE HATE UP. I CAN SEE WHAT U ALL LEARNED IN CHURCH TODAY, SAYING THIS BAD HATEFUL THINGS TO ME ON GODS DAY.AMEN

Ur real foolish u know that @ loveit.My kids sit next to me black like u having a dad called victor ikpeba, am sure u heard of him.they say ur the one who didnt get any policy about talking to ladies. ur the racist here not me anyway, and bittersweet is one of my best friends , who hates just like me how guys like u talk to me, so please dont come with that.second my twins are both finished with their study, got succesful jobs, and have nice houses both, my last 2 half naija kids are doing more then well in primary school and i lead a very happy good life. so no wahala about my life ok.
U think u can get me down with ur hash and bad talks, well i got a God that protects me and loves me.I am far above all that worldish talks on here.
If the guy who got this girl pregnant is white, i am the first who goes vote for him to get life sentence thats the woman i am. no matter what colour the guy has , he simply has to stay in prison till death. so u and ur talks of me being a racist is the stupiest u can say to me. u better stay from me, i dont talk to people like u.My friends are more respectful caring nigerians, who met me in real life and know the worth i got.
I come from a studied family, am a christian, and i love blacks more then whites , so sorry but ur a laugh.I told all this before, and ur so bad educated that u didnt even read my words.
Last if u hide out in places like amsterdam and rotterdam means u hang out with this drugs criminals there, nigerians who are on black lists of Interpol, FBI and other bureaus for drugs, 419 or simply marrying for papers in spain.
Dont make a fool of urself here.Next time if u go to Netherlands, u go to other cities, smaller and villages where people still work hard , have studying kids and who lead a very decent good life.If we dutch already dont go to amsterdam or rotterdam, says enough about what we think of there.
I dont mingle with bad things, i rather stay in a place , where my kids learn decent and good life and study hard to achieve a good life.stay blessed