Why is that white people are more fond of Divorce? (Page 5)

I was married 12 years to a Netherlands man, and because we lost our first daughter we grew apart, and lost each other there. He became a workaholic when i was alone with the kids 24 7. There was no way i could talk to him.Whatever i tried he just ran out to toilet and other places and ignored my talks.All became worse and worse troughout the years, but he never cheated me though.At the end we both made the decision to end the marriage, because our twins also felt bad seeying us so unhappy.I tried to remarry to both Chidi Ihesiulo and Victor Ikpeba, but both were having women all over the world,and kids as well.Thats something a white never will accept, a man who sleeps with other, mainly because we dont want to get hiv , second because its humiliation number one.
They were so busy on all this women and kids, that marrying wasnt an option.I needed help that time and my ex husband a roof, so he came to stay under my roof as a normal friend, and he helped me when i helped him.
Since then we stay together in pure friendship and my last 2 kids of this naijas at least got him as a dad.I come from a large family on both my mothers as my dads side, and all are happily married, we all are christians, baptized by birth and our kids study and work hard all.It would be nice if the people on here would investigate things instead of saying whites dont listen to Gods word, because we do and also live by it.But at least we dont stay together, when the man is constantly sleeping around, and when that shows a very bad effect on the kids.The kids copy this behaviour and thats why most naija guys ,living in our countries, dont have any clue why God created  Eve, or how to show a woman some respect.They go from woman to woman, most of them.If one doesnt do what they want, they go to the next on their list.Is that good culture? Is that what they learned back home?At least we live honest , when something doesnt work , we talk and find a solution and when nothing works again, we make the right decision and part and make sure the kids still feel comfortable, more then a mum and dad who argue constantly.Any idea how hurting that is for kids?I just try to explain my side of this.Stay blessed all.

Posted: at 28-11-2011 05:40 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Infact...when i read this shti again it makes me angry!!! ....It makes me laf as well...see my teeth ...U wan kiss am???...... Wats with the experience and mature here for?.... Look back at what u wrote and tell me, its experienced and mature!! Ur so STUPID

Posted: at 28-11-2011 06:07 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Posted: at 28-11-2011 06:46 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

am comin back to you

Posted: at 28-11-2011 07:13 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

o i dont ve the right of comment anymore

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Posted: at 28-11-2011 07:22 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

 

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Posted: at 28-11-2011 07:27 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Every one wants to be a master. No one listen to the other and every one wants absolute freedom.

Posted: at 28-11-2011 07:33 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Nope...i dont think i need to be enlighten about Divorce ooo!!!  ...and Thank Youu for ur good wishes!!

Posted: at 28-11-2011 09:20 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

..Pls do!!

Posted: at 28-11-2011 09:27 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

At least they (the whites) are been realistic and honest..  it's better than deceiving oneself and having a false hope.  

Anyone who think that divorce is only common among the whites alone had better think again.  it's now raging like a wide fire across the globe and caught across every race.  Inclusive of Africa and Nigeria in particular.

Why on earth would any1 want to remain in an unproductive and a one sided r/ship devoid of love, affection and compatibility?  

My take is that "everyone deserve happiness " ..... but if u think u re ready and willing to sacrifice ur own happiness on the alter of a helpless situation then it's up to u...      

Posted: at 28-11-2011 11:39 PM (13 years ago) | Hero