What is wrong with our naija chics and their underwears, i wonder why they even wear anything at all, they should have left everything open and see what mad men would do to them free off charge.

Hi guys tis is specially for the hot ladis in the house, who attend  parties instead of having fun are having loneliness.
  A smooth way to sweet talk a classy guy at a party, is to first and foremost observe him carefully to check out any any details you want to find out about him, then stride up to him and say"excuse me, there's some one here i'm trying to shake, would you mind  keeping me busy and talking until he gets the picture?" A classy guy with a sense of humor would jump at such a chance to play the protector or bodyguard, and remember don't over stay 1/2 hrs is ok those few minutes would provide you with an opening to beguile him with witty talk and maybe a future date. please visit www.smilesparadise.blogspot.com for more articles.

     Hi guys it's been a long time,well mr "relationships" as given to me by the great guys of this wonder forum, is proud to be back after a long break honeymoon with my exams. Well during my exams i came this question in a magazine on marital affair, and not long ago in Benin a man killed his wife for having an affair with another man and also killed himself. and there was also this article in one of hte news papers where a girl stabed her lover to dealth, and all this got me wondering the seriousness of extral marital affairs; who's to blame and what should be done instead of killing all in the name of "he/se broke my heart"  Accusations and counter accusations are banded by couples but then, who is ready to be blamed?
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Women are extremely difficult to figure out especially when it comes to the question of what they want in a man. Different women might have different preferences when it comes to the type of man they go for but there are some basic things which are common for almost all females and you must have these in order to be effective with the opposite sex. The fact of the matter is that most men don't know that they don't know but they think they know when it comes to the question of women. This is the reason why it's extremely important for you to know this. Read on to discover some of the most important things women look for in a man.......

A clear vision- It's often said that money is something most women are after but the fact of the matter is that money is not what they are after rather what they truly appreciate is a guy with goals. If you have sound goals and know where you want to get in life they would be more than happy in your company. Therefore learn to have a clear vision and goal in life.

A sense of security- How secure does she feel around you? This is another very basic need a lot of women look for in their man. You see a woman will never get into a relationship with you unless she feels totally comfortable around you. Women have a strong urge and the need to feel comfortable around the man they are with and this does not always mean security as in physical security, it also means mental and emotional security.

The power of decision- This is the most important factor which almost every woman in looking for. You see a lot of men out there lack the power to decide and often ask the woman for advice which is the wrong way of doing it. Learn to be decisive and she would listen automatically.

What you don't know yet- Ever tried to wonder what's in a woman's mind? What is she thinking about? Do you know that women do not always mean what they say? They might say something and mean the exact opposite. But what do women actually want? Do you know there are some secrets women don't want men to know but men absolutely must know these secrets in order to succeed with women? Read on to discover some of the most "Shocking Secrets" women don't want men to knowwww.smilesparadise.blogspot.com

 So you want to know what men find inrresistible in woman?
then lets read on.
Are you wondering why there are women who attract men like a magnet? With a lot of women out there, the competition is too high if you want to find that special guy you want. You have to stand out from the rest and you should know the things men find irresistible. Here are some tips:www.smilesparadise.blogspot.com

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There are endless ways in which to attract girls, just as there are endless types of girls out there. Flirting, eye contact, subtle smiles, being confident. Those are all important, but what you're going to look at now is about one aspect that can make or break that attraction. Specifically, clothes.

"Clothes make the man." This little quote from Mark Twain has been around for over a hundred years and still is true today. When attracting girls, before they decide if they want to be with you, they evaluate what you wear. They're not trying to be snobs, they're just detail oriented. (By the way, the rest of that quote is "Naked people have little or no influence on society." Of course, Mr. Twain never had Playboy!)

You don't have to dress like a model to dress well. You DO have to dress appropriate to the occasion. Your favorite football teams jersey might be alright for going out to a game and a sports bar afterwards, but going to a movie and dinner after, well, you need to dress a little better. A nice shirt and/or sweater, a decent pair of pants and dark leather shoes need to be the attire.

Don't be boring in your dress. If you're wearing a suit and tie, make the tie a brighter color. If you're wearing the type of clothing mentioned above for the movie and dinner, wear a sweater with some color in it besides black, blue or brown. Shine your shoes. You don't have to be gaudy, just not dull.

You don't have to look like you're ready for a black tie event all the time, but you do need to look better than the other men who are around. Be polished, be neat, be clean. Take pride in what you wear. When you look like a million bucks, you'll attract a million dollar girl.

1. Don't be too mushy with her on your first date. Sure women love to receive affection from men that care about, but certainly not while they are still trying to get to know you. If you want to do put your hands around her shoulder or neck, you can simply ask her if it is okay for you to do it. If you get the slightest impression that she is not comfortable with the idea, then get your hands off. It certainly does not mean that if she gets to know you a little more as the evening goes on, that she will not let you then. Just behave yourself and be patient.

2. Just don't engage in any bodily noises (passing gas, belching, etc.) to a minimum. You might think that she is comfortable enough with you to forgive this natural part of life, but generally women are disgusted by it, especially when they are just getting to know you.

3. Do not inundate your dinner conversation with talk about you. Sure she wants to get to know you, but when you keep the focus of every conversation on just yourself she starts feeling that you are not interested in her.

4. Never come across as if you are insecure or nervous about being around her. Most women will see this as a sign of weakness. And certainly no woman wants a man that lacks confidence.

5. When you are finished with your date, don't call her on the phone the same night you drop her off at her home unless you want her to feel that you are clingy.

6. Never show up at her home or her job without her invitation. If you do she will start feeling that you are the type of guy that will smother her.

So if you want the woman you are on a date with to still call you then try your best to avoid these blunders. As long as you give her the basic courtesies and you don't do things that make her feel uncomfortable you should be fine. for more isures visit www.smilesparadise.blogspot.com

Office romances are no longer taboo. They are expected. Most people work, and since that is where they spend most of their time and energy, it makes sense that that is where they will meet other attractive singles. segxwal harassment in the work place does exist, so it's important to keep boundaries clear when you're interested in someone you work with.

If you find yourself in an office romance DO NOT inform your boss. In fact, you should be very careful that your romance does not impact your work in a negative way. Telling your boss that you are seeing someone is too much information and none of anyone's business at a business. However, don't make it their business by making out at the water cooler or sneaking off to long lunches that turn into romantic dates. Keep your work hours and your romance hours separate. Even though you're excited about this someone new, discipline yourself to keep these boundaries. It will even make the time you are together -- but can't show your affection -- more of a turn on.

Find out if your office has a legal policy about office romance by asking your personnel office. In fact, put the request in writing. Don't give details of your own interest in a co-worker. Just jot down a short letter or e-mail to personnel, asking, quite simply, about your company's policy on office romance. Save the correspondence in case, down the line, you need it.

Dating up or dating down can both be fodder for segxwal harassment issues because of the difference in power. Any time that there is a romance, your co-workers may claim you played favorites or were played a favorite and got a promotion or perks because of your personal relationship. On the other hand, you may find yourself blasted by your ex office romance date if he or she claims you passed him over because you were angry or retaliatory over a romantic break. Watch it. Keep those boundaries in place!

And if you're still in doubt, read on:

(Wolf) whistle while you work? You Betcha!

Even though it’s often advised against, dating people you work with makes practical sense—after all, we spend so much of our lives in the office, there’s often no other way or time to meet anyone else. But that’s not to say you don’t have to be smart—extra smart, in fact — about your choices, and take special precautions if you’re going to venture into an office romance.

The one overriding warning worth heeding — the one that should dictate all of your actions and words — is this: People talk. No matter how friendly your co-workers are, or how tight-lipped the object of your affection seems, secrets are almost always spilled, one way or another, whether accidentally or intentionally. Translation? Say nothing and do nothing that you do not want everyone else to know. This means no chit-chat with the girls at the water cooler about his size or performance, and no pillow talk with him about how much you loathe your boss, and can’t wait to take over his or her job. There’s too much at stake—like, your livelihood—to take risks, and there’s too much to lose—like a potentially great love—not to give it a shot.

Some advice to make dating co-workers easier:

1. Don’t mix business and pleasure on company time. Agree to date out-of-work hours, but don’t turn a business lunch into a romantic lunch.

2. Stay fair. Don’t give someone you’re dating better work or pay, and don’t punish someone you’re breaking up with by giving him or her worse work or pay. Otherwise, you may find yourself on the receiving end of a lawsuit!

3. Make sure he or she is actually single. If they’re not – then keep personal remarks at work limited to sports, the weather and the kids. Don’t gripe or listen to gripes about a spouse. “I’m sorry, I’m not comfortable talking about your wife – I want to keep our relationship all business because I value us as co-workers,” is all you need to say – and do.


 

PROS AND CONS OF DATING A CO-WORKER:

PROS --

1. You know he or she has a job. You know how he or she is thought of at work.

2. You have a lot in common and can be more productive because you have this in common.

3. There is an understanding of each other's work schedules. One of you isn't angry if the other has to work late because you have a better understanding of what's involved.

CONS --

1. If you break up or have a fight, you don't get the respite and space you may need to heal or cool down because you'll see the person so often at work.

2. segxwal harassment is a real problem that can occur more easily when there are lines that get blurred at work. In addition, people gossip and you may make enemies if one of you is higher up in the corporate or business ladder at work, and the one is lower down may be perceived as getting unfair advantages.

3. If one of you wants a break from work and the other is into work, you may not have an escape from it -- even out of the office. for more visite www.smilesparadise.blogspot.com

You see someone across the room and you know instantly - they're the hottest person your eyes have ever come across, and you must meet them. So you gather your courage, casually walk on over, and...s-s-s-st-st-a-m-m-e-r. Your face flushes, your pulse quickens and the thought of actually getting a single word out seems totally impossible. You, my friend, are shy - and you’re not alone.

No matter how smart or sexy or confident we are, it’s likely that we’ve all experienced shyness at some point in our lives. The real problem arises when our shyness is so debilitating that we can’t overcome it and it actually stops us from moving forward. If that’s you - I’ve got two words for you: ”fake it!”   

That’s right, I want you to fake it until you make it. How? By having pre-established ideas for how to approach that guy or girl of your dreams. No spontaneity required, but they’ll never know (because you’ll have practiced and practiced until you have it down pat). And I’ll give you even more ideas about how to approach shy people if you’re not the one with the problem but they are.

3 Tips For Attracting (them) If YOU'RE the Shy One:

Role Player - If you’ve ever wanted to be an actor, this one is perfect for you. Come up with an image of who you think the coolest, sexiest person would be and how they would approach the object of your affection. What would they say? How would they act? Then, envision yourself as that person, and go through the motions. Make sure you have it all down before you approach your guy (practice in the mirror if you have to), and then go for it.

The Advice Seeker - Let’s pretend you’re in a clothing store and you see the cutest sales clerk. Here’s the perfect opportunity to use this technique. Ask his opinion on what you should get your friend for their birthday. This technique allows you to speak with the individual without seeming like you’re hitting on him/her, and you’re letting it be known you like and trust their taste!

The Innocent - For this one, you go up to your victim, er guy, and say right off the bat that you know this sounds like a pickup line, but really it’s not. Then, once they’re disarmed, tell him that he just really looks familiar and you wanted to figure out where you might know them from. This is perfect because it allows you to find out all about them (and vice versa), and by the end of the conversation, you’ll have established a rapport without ever having to put yourself on the line! for more isures romance and relationship please goto[url]www.smilesparadise.blogspot.com[/url]