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Learning is merely a component of life, like the limbs of the human body.  We can learn a lot from others, but some things in life must be experienced to be truly understood.  Below you will find a list of 10 such things, the things we all must figure out for ourselves.1}. Love – There is no official guide for falling in love, falling out of love, or dealing with the emotional intricacies of love.  Love cannot be taught and it certainly cannot be forced.  Love is an instinctual feeling, a powerful sentiment, one we will all find under different circumstances and must each figure out for ourselves.
Friendship – Some personalities simply click and others clash.  Just like love, friendship is a natural process that cannot be forced.  Other people can select our acquaintances for us, but over time we will find true friendship on our own.  When the conversations are comfortable and relaxed and a mutual feeling of trust is apparent, true friendship has been found.
Loss – At some point each one of us will experience a loss in life.  It could be the death of a loved one, the devastation of personal belongings, or a vicious rejection in our career.  Each of us is going to naturally deal with loss in our own unique manner, some taking more time to reflect on it than others.  While suggestions can be made, we must figure it out for ourselves, morn if necessary, and move on when we are ready.
The Short vs. Long Catch-22 – There is a paradox found in various situations where we must choose between short-term and long-term fulfillment.  It governs the path we take concerning our aspirations, desires, and available opportunities.  Things that seem positive in the short-term can turn sour in the long-term.  Likewise, disciplined efforts to meet long-term objectives can lead to a more dull short-term existence.  People can try to advise us in specific situations, but we must ultimately figure out how to manage this catch-22 for ourselves across the broad scope of our lives.
Self-Forgiveness – We all make mistakes.  It is an inevitable element of being alive.  Since we are undoubtedly our own toughest critic, we sometimes inflict unnecessary self-guilt on our conscious for certain actions we did or did not take.  This typically hinders our productivity and happiness.  Many self-help instructors attempt to teach self-forgiveness, but every circumstance and individual is slightly different than the next.  Experience is the key.  General experience in dealing with the process of trial and error across various life circumstances is really what increases our comfort level with making mistakes.
Life Balance – Living a healthy, rewarding life involves the simple art of balance.  We must balance risk vs. reward, family and friends vs. career goals, quantity vs. quality… the list could continue indefinitely.  Over time, and with enough experience, we will be able to evaluate any situation, decipher the boundary extremes and find a happy, healthy medium between these extremes. 
Responsibility and Independence – Responsibility is not a quality instinctually instilled in all human beings.  Some of us have to work really hard at leading a responsible life.  The key is to realize that it is okay to assist someone, but the full burden of a responsibility should never be taken away from its owner.  If it is, the owner will never learn, thus becoming forever dependant on others.  Cause and effect is the ultimate guide to responsibility.  “If I don’t get a job, I won’t have money to buy food.”  Our success with responsibility will eventually lead to complete independence.
Character Identity – “Who am I?”  We all have to figure this out for ourselves.  Character identity is incredibly difficult to define. We all have ideas in our minds of who we are, who we want to become, or how we want to live.  The single greatest gift a human being possesses is free will… our ability to think, make choices, and take action with the decisions we make.  These decisions eventually mold the person we are, our character identity.
Betrayal – Dealing with betrayal usually sends a person on an emotional rollercoaster ride.  There is no practical way of preparing for it because every act of betrayal contains a different set of variables.  When it happens, we are usually left asking a series of questions.  Why?  Is there another side to the story?  Can we work through this?  These are questions only the people involved can answer and deal with.
Happiness and Success – As u can see, happiness is doing what you love, and success is excelling at doing what you love.  Nobody else can tell us how to be happy or what to love.  As we progress through life we uncover these mysteries on our own.  Once we have happiness figured out we can map out a course for achieving our own personalized version of success.

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The issue is that some women are unstable, they don't believe in one man, likewise some men, along the line may cause problem on the process, and you know that you cannot serve two masters at a time, one day day one must definitly fail you. these things are true but its 4 those who have one, and those who intends to have only one, whereby you have two or three one day small thing may came across you may say afterall if Ngozi go chiamaka dey, if chiamaka go precious dey, in this process you will see that there will be no luv again. if its where you have only one you will cherish it then live goes on. but whereby you there is compromise how can you then give her full assurance. even though you said i may not come from your heart thats all...........

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This doesn't apply to all guys, or all types of relationships, but the vast majority is still accurate. some certain Steps

1Understand that most guys just don't talk. Guys do not normally discuss feelings and are rarely emotionally open unless they are extremely comfortable with you; men are inherently closed in their feelings to maintain their belief of con
2Be prepared for a little territorial behavior. Guys tend to be territorial and jealous; this is not to be confused with being suspicious of their partners. The feelings tend to be so deep that if their partner shows any attention to another guy, they get slight uneasy feelings; this is a biological instinct. If you are involved with him and you start talking to another guy and in any way say nice things, or touch him or he touches you anywhere, the instinct will kick in; he may not punch the guy, but he will no longer be in a good mood; he will go from "I love her so much" to "I wish I were home watching TV and not dealing with this".
3Know that most guys feel the need to be in charge (even if they aren't in charge). Guys want to -feel- as though they are in control; not that they always need to get their way, but they need to feel that things won't happen unless they allow them. No matter how much you feel that you shouldn't have to get the "OK" from your guy to do something or make decisions, it would be best to at least talk to him about it and ask him first -- basically, they want to feel that they are doing things because they want their partner to be happy, not because they have to do it. They respond better to the "lip" and the big eyes than they do to orders.
4Let them be a 'man'. Guys want to be "manly" -- make them feel big and strong. They love to be the "knight in shining armor". You are weak, he is strong. You don't really have to be weak, but allowing him to feel that he is taking care of you and protecting you will make him happy.
5Be prepared to be touched. Guys like physical contact. Their hormone levels are very high (which can make them act like jerks in certain situations), so they may find a number of different types of physical contact enjoyable. They won't always be able to figure out what's OK, and whats a no-no. It's important that they are told by their partner what they should and shouldn't do. Their feelings will not be hurt. If you prefer, tell him where the lines are drawn on your body. It's not going to ruin the moment for him. If anything, it will be a relief so he knows the boundaries. Don't think, "He'll figure it out". Don't try and give him signals (although the biting of the lower lip is universally known as the "kiss me" sign); tell him verbally.
6Even though it isn't politically correct, guys love girls that can cook. Saying something like "I want to be single for the rest of my life" will kill it fast. Prove to him that you can be a good wife, and he will prove he can be a good husband.
7Guys 'tend' to call girls "hot" if they are thinking of them segxwally, and they will call them "beautiful", "gorgeous", or "pretty" if they have more innocent intentions. This isn't a universal absolute, however; in fact, this applies very little, but it can be an extra hint.
8Guys can have obsessions over their partner's eyes, hair, hands, other random body parts, etc. It's weird, but deal with it. If he likes it when you do something with your hair, do it a lot. If he gave you a ring or a necklace or something, wear it whenever you're with him - and point it out in case he doesn't notice, then give him a kiss and remind him how much you like it. He will then know you appreciate the things he gives.
9Guys rarely mind feeling like they are owned - many times they like the feeling. A simple way of displaying this is holding his hand with both your hands, and wrapping your arms around his. The idea of their partner hanging off them isn't an unpleasant one to guys. There is a difference between this and being clingy, though. One shows that you are completely devoted to him, the other is annoying him.
10Guys like to know that their partner feels grateful to be with him. He'll return the favor a hundred times over. If you make him feel like he isn't good enough, he will be more jealous of other guys - he may leave you. Guys don't like feeling inferior any more than girls do.
11If he had a bad day, give him a neck rub or something. Don't ask if he wants one, just start doing it, he'll tell you if he doesn't like it. And say something nice. Not necessarily about why he had a bad day. Just randomly say how much you love and appreciate him. It'll make him feel better.
12Guys enjoy the touch of a female; very soft and pleasant. As rule number 5 says, guys don't mind touching - put your hand on his face. Run your fingers up and down his arm. Hold his hand against your face or chest.
13Maintaining the relationship is very important. The first few months will be easy; you are in the heat of a young relationship. Don't fall under the false impression that you don't have to put forth anything. He will get bored, or feel unappreciated. Remember what it was like in the beginning, when you'd both do anything for each other. Keep that mindset. Treat him as someone who can't be lost.
14Let him know that you will stick with him through anything - and mean it! Tell him you will never leave his side. He will like that. Never give him the "thin-ice" feeling to get your way. Like tell him to deal with it, or make it seem like you'll break up with him over something unless he complies. Using the relationship as a threat will really make him mad, and he may break up with you for doing it.
15When he says that he won't leave you no matter and with assuring you always. He really means it!
16Include him in things. Guys like to feel that you want him around, even if it is only little things. (going for a walk, sitting at your parents, family activities, holidays) It's part of getting closer!!               

1. Discover his favorite pet name n call him by that.
2. Allow him exercise his authority as the head of the family.
3. DO not challenge him when he is hurt.



4. Be silent when he is angry. You can go back to him in his sober moment with apology n explain why you behave that way that annoyed him.
5. Be quick to say " I am sorry dear". When ever u offend him pettingly, insist on his forgiveness and kiss him when he does.
6. Speak good of him b4 his Friends n siblings.
7. honor his mother
8. Insist that he buys gift to his parents and so be sure that he will do same 4 your parents
9. Surprise him with his favorite dish especially when he has no enough money at hand
10. Do not allow maid to serve him food when you are at home. B'cos u may lose him to them.
11. Give him warm reception with an embrace when he returns, collect his luggage and help undress him.
12. Smile when u looks at him and give him occasional packs when u are out socially.
13. Praise him b4 your children.
14. Wash his back while he is in the tub or shower.
15. Put love note in his lunch or purse.
16. Phone n tell him that u miss him.
17. Dial his number and on hearing "hello" just tell him I love u
18. If he is a public figure or politician gently wake him at the early hours of the morn n romance him to the point of demand. He will not be entice by any other woman that day.
19. Tel him how lucky you are to have him as your husband.
20. Give him a hug 4 no reason.
21. Appreciate God 4 the Adam of your life. Implement this law that every morn your family will wake up n pray. It do brings unit. Value your husband b'cos u may
not have the 2nd chance to love
him. Pray to God to protect him. If u practice all these, your husband will be afraid to cheat on u, even if he does his mind 'll not be at rest. If your husband is already cheating on u,begin to practice these and u will win him back. Do support it with prayers b'cos nothing is impossible 4 God. I wish u a happy home and lovable husband.