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1  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Whom are you missing right now on: 31-10-2009 02:37 PM
Ohhh!

I am missing my childhood friend Chiwendu Nweke
way back in Ikenegbu Primary School Owerri...
She is such a wonderful friend and sister
2  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Whom are you missing right now on: 21-10-2009 03:25 PM
Ohhh!

I am missing my childhood friend Chiwendu Nweke
way back in Ikenegbu Primary School Owerri...
She is such a wonderful friend and sister..
Saw her last in 1999....

How I wish to see her again...
3  Forum / Religion / Re: Why RCCG pastors can't remarry on: 25-08-2009 07:56 PM
@ adetop & tera
So u guys are saying that the pastor should remain married-single waiting for a wife that left for over ten years (who is now remarried)....please u guys shud study ur bible very well
4  Forum / Religion / Re: Why RCCG pastors can't remarry on: 25-08-2009 11:46 AM
When God allows some circumstances, it's because He sees the end from the beginning. God hates divorce but He "allowed" the marriage of king Ahasuerus to Vashti to collapse because He was determined to bring His eternal plan to pass. Life is not about your being comfortable, happy and successful, or pain-free. It's about becoming the man or woman God has called you to be at last. Does God not hate divorce? Indeed Vashti was an example of excellent womanhood! She was the most beautiful woman in the world then, but refused to abuse her beauty! Her courage was equal to her modesty: she chose to resist the royal mandate, rather than violate the rules of chaste decorum. What modest woman, would consent to expose herself to the view of such a group of drunken men? But God allowed what happened (the break-up of her marriage to the king), to promote His eternal plan for the Jews! It was not about Vashti or Esther! It was about Jehovah's eternal plan that was at a risk! Esther replaced Vashti because Vashti could not have saved the Jews from Haman. That's why you must not cry even when unpleasant circumstances are allowed to happen in spite of your faithfulness, fasting and prayers! God can pass you through painful events now because He is concerned for your tomorrow! It's not only about your happiness now; it's about His plan for your eternity!

So it's not all about the pastor remarrying or not it's all about God's plan for his life & ministry
5  Forum / Religion / Re: Why RCCG pastors can't remarry on: 22-08-2009 05:51 PM
Quote from: kenyawest on 21-08-2009 05:47 AM
Quote from: dguy on 17-08-2009 08:17 PM
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But what the Bible says is that a minister of God must be blameless, husband of one wife. The Bible does not allow one to remarry. Rather it encourages both parties to reconcile. There is nothing like irreconcilable differences.

Citing Malachi 2:13-16, Matthew 19:1-9, I Corinthians 7:10, scriptures from the Bible, he says remarrying is not an option for any Christian but rather reconciliation. He adds that marriage is solemn, as the couple must know what they are going into, and sacred because God made it so, and serious because it is binding for life.
By Oluwatoyin Akinola & Onukwube Ofoelue

I think that they may be misinterpreting the Bible a little bit.  God hates divorce, but does not disallow it.  This topic was brought to Jesus Christ because Moses allowed divorce.  Jesus told them that Moses allowed divorce because we were stubborn or they were stubborn.  Divorce is allowed in the case of adultery and abuse.  The one that has been offended is allowed to forgive should they choose.

The Minister of God must be blameless, there is no evidence that this particular minister was to be blamed for his marriage failure.

The minister of God is to be husband to one wife.  There is no evidence here that this particular minister is married to more than one wife at a time.

I remember so many parts in the bible where men put away their wives.  I remember King Solomon that built the temple with hundreds of wives and hundreds of concubines.  King David had many wives also and Jesus Christ came from the lineage of King David as well as the lineage of prostitutes.

God understands.  We are not encouraging divorce.  Marriage must be held as sacred at all times.  Ten years of waiting for his ex-wife was long enough and God understands that as well. 

The minister should leave the church, join another tolerant church or set up his own.  Let the mightier than thou judges in those redeemed churches keep their church.  They are not God!


I don't see a bad thing in the Pastor remarrying. Since the Bible is for reference purpose; the book of Esther Chpt. 1 Vs 10 - 22. King Xerxes invited his Queen (Queen Vashti) but due to her selfish interest and pride, she refused to honour the invitation [Just like in the case of the said Minister's Wife]. Which made the King's Legal Advisers advised him to take another Queen in chapter 2 of Esther [Which the so called fellow Ministers of his would have advised him since they are using the Bible as point of reference].

In a nutshell, the wife's refusal to come back to him could be a way that God wants to use and uplift him, it is not as if God likes divorce but He removes whatever that would stop him from blessing His faithfuls, afterall God used Esther to kill Haman [Chapter 7 of Esther] in order to save His (God) people from Haman's evil plans, that was why He removed Queen Vashti from the palace and put Esther because Queen Vashti couldn't have carried out His (God) assignment... [This is not blasphemy]
6  Forum / Religion / Re: Who Created God? on: 22-06-2009 11:52 AM
Quote from: rbest on  9-06-2009 06:46 PM
@poster, is like asking ur father what he did b4 giving birth to u.

every adult knows how he came about biologically
but do not know  the existence of God.
Gos is a Supernatural Being, The Alpha and Omega,
Creator of Heaven and Earth and it was created for HIS pleasure.
God is God, God is no man....
7  Forum / Politics / Re: Rebranding Nigeria on: 28-03-2009 10:20 AM
TO ME IT REALLY MAKES NO SENSE.
THE INFORMATIN WOMAN IRRITATES ME BY THIS ACTION.
NO LIGHT, WATER, GOOD JOB, HOUSING; THE POOR ARE GETTING POORER
AND THE RICH DONT GET TO FEEL WHAT TO POOR AMONG THEM ARE FEELING.
NOW THEY COME TELLING ME ABOUT REBRANDING, DOES SHE THINK NAIJA IS A PRODUCT
MADE FROM ONE OF THOSE COMPANIES THAT NEEDS REBRANDING.

ANYWAY, EVEN IF WE ALL LAMENT FROM MORNING TILL NIGHT, THEY HAVE ALREADY TAKEN THE DECISION AND ARE ON IT..... SO LETS TAKE EVERYTHING AS WE SEE THEM, AS USUAL....
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