Girl, is easier to be ur real self than trying to imitate another psn. U knw y? U can neva b that psn, but with hard labour u can be a second or even a third rate of that psn. So live d u in u dat makes you d you dat u're, imitator!!!
My dear, I think u need to take a break and focus. If u actually need a husband, then u have to stop all temporary comfort and happiness so that u can get a permanent one. U need who u can call ur own, so quit every 'undefined and I'm-looking-God relationships.'
I agree with him about letting ur spouse knw about any health or disease issue u might have than hidding them till after marriage. That might stir up regrets, u knw? All the same, God dey!
No be small matter, my dear. Let's just keep our fingers crossed and see where all these things leads to while still praying for our dear country and leaders. God bless Nigeria!