what do you need,a second wife for,t i thought you are an educated man,look at your beautiful wife and kinds,rubbish cant you change tradition of many wives.
ebube,i thought you are a wise girl,are you desperate or something?while not go and pray that GOD will remember you and you a husband,that wasting your time with second hand man, there by encouring the rot of GOD by committing adultery,shame shame on you if is true.
dont you know,that marry a married man is committing adultery,is better you leave that man and pray over your sin,because those you called lesbians are better that you REPENT.