Nigerian Men Are Not romantic. They are too full of ego.”- Ronke Oshodi (Page 3)

Date: 13-11-2013 7:43 am (10 years ago) | Author: sunday Kayode
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- Seun9ce at 13-11-2013 09:56 PM (10 years ago)
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Na craze dey worry her head, 4 d fact that u 've met u some strong men & they 've treat ur phyuk-up due to ur adamant act means every one 're like dem. Open ur eye b4 u fall anoda arms.
Posted: at 13-11-2013 09:56 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- papadip at 13-11-2013 09:57 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: lanudja on 13-11-2013 09:21 AM
Hmmmm! she even point 2 a particular tribe. Gud dat it nt coming frm sme1 frm anoda tribe *mouth seal*
Don’t self-seal perhaps you can enlighten us….

It takes two to romance…

Posted: at 13-11-2013 09:57 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- papadip at 13-11-2013 10:04 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: lexyclasy on 13-11-2013 10:30 AM
PREACH WHAT,LET HER SPEAK FOR HERSELF....IF SHE CAN NOT FOUND LOVE FROM HIS MAN SHE SHOULDN'T THINK ALL MEN TOOK THEIR WIVES AS SLAVES....WHAT DID SHE EXPECT WHEN SHE PUT WEALTH AND FAME ABOVE LOVE AS WELL A TRUE CHARACTER OF A REAL MAN.....IF SHE FEELS SHE CANNOT BE SUBMISSIVE TO HER MAN THEN LET HER KEEP DREAMING AND SEARCHING FOR THAT IMBECILE MAN SHE CAN POCKET AND REMOTE ANYTIME SHE FEELS LIKE.....MAN IS THE HEAD OF THE FAMILY AS CHRIST IS THE HEAD OF THE CHURCH......THAT IS OUR CHRISTIAN PRACTICE....AND SHE CANNOT DO OTHERWISE.....
Sensible comment...

Posted: at 13-11-2013 10:04 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- papadip at 13-11-2013 10:12 PM (10 years ago)
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It takes two to romance…meaning it cannot be one sided,.

If you like the food you eat you have to know how to cook it..

It is an insult to Nigerian men given her views….. Is that a romantic picture posted?

Remember she was once accused as a “husband snatcher
Ronke sounds bitter may be she should stop eating bitter leaf…
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Posted: at 13-11-2013 10:12 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- gbojac at 14-11-2013 12:33 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: angesco on 13-11-2013 08:28 AM
Correction. It is not just Yoruba men. African men appear to show little if any affection to their wives in public. They are afraid of being looked on as being weak. Our men have a lot of esteem issues that need to be addressed. Everything is done with a heavy hand to show who is in "charge!"  Hence the death of the 3 year old for wetting the bed!

To make themselves feel good they go for ladies who are fair skinned in the hope that their family and friends will envy them and give them some "street credibility."

But its good to see some strong women coming up in  Nigeria (I am not talking about those in govt) who despite everything are standing tall and letting the husband know that it tskes two to make a marriage work and not dictatororship!

However there are still women  who quote tradition and culture for living subservient lives in their marriages!

In the long run, we all chose what makes things work for us. And this is why certain parts of the world are afraid of female education!
who do you want the light skin girl to marry,,,, it's all relative, and what go on under the sheets has to do with mood,,,,the bible say "whoever find a woman, find happiness",,,,how come you are unable to make your hubby romance you, that mean you're not woman and you must be a tree, that's why your hubby not dey enjoy be with you
Posted: at 14-11-2013 12:33 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ksurrina at 14-11-2013 12:48 AM (10 years ago)
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The problem is that AFRICAN MEN live the life of the BEAST the CHRISTIAN LIFE where they BONDAGE and OPPRESSED their wives. As they claimed that Christ is the Head of the church. The False CHRIST they are talking about is the head of the church they attends every Sundays because the TRUE CHRIST comes through the Only Begotten Son who told us to LOVE YE ONE ANOTHER AS I LOVE YOU. He also tell us that He is the one who is building His Church. He also let us to know that A MALE leave his mother and father to CLEAVE UNTO HIS WIFE for both to become ONE. He speak all of this under the NAME OF JESUS. But they all speaking the words of Apostle Paul who told them that he is living under the thorn of being SATAN MESSENGER. They yet to take these WORDS from Apostle Paul but instead demanding their wives to SUBMIT. During my counsel hour with an Nigerian he told me he love his wife and he want her to SUBMIT unto him. God created Male and Female not for anyone to be submissive but for them to be ONE. Sad how Nigerian Men doesn't understand that they are the ENEMIES within their own household. They are the SATAN MESSENGER who is giving the same life that Apostle Paul lives with. Those who BELIEVE IN GOD also Believe in His Only Begotten Son "Let not your heart be trouble, ye believe in God believe also in me". Apostle Paul is not the SON who God gave unto the world. Neither are the Preachers who come presenting the teaching of Apostle Paul before you.  Hugs

Posted: at 14-11-2013 12:48 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dickman2 at 14-11-2013 01:47 AM (10 years ago)
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ksurrina u sure say well at all..why calling jesus Christ for this matter now..she said Nigeria men,,is jesus from Nigeria..nawa for u this woman..
Posted: at 14-11-2013 01:47 AM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- K-TRUTH at 14-11-2013 04:16 AM (10 years ago)
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Different Different fever nahim dey so, dis woman fever na ronke oshodi fever. yeye nonsense.
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- smartiyke at 14-11-2013 04:40 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 13-11-2013 05:22 PM
Shut that your dirty mouth for insulting nigerian men bitch....go and work on yourself first before your husband or any guy.....I don't know about the rest nugerian guys but for my husband, he's good. ....next time don't say nigerian men...just say your husband...

You ain't got no husband, a man may be tapping that joint but that doesn't make him your hubby. Hey, maybe  he put you on layaway, but he is still  not your husband.
Posted: at 14-11-2013 04:40 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- papadip at 14-11-2013 06:09 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: ksurrina on 14-11-2013 12:48 AM
The problem is that AFRICAN MEN live the life of the BEAST the CHRISTIAN LIFE where they BONDAGE and OPPRESSED their wives. As they claimed that Christ is the Head of the church. The False CHRIST they are talking about is the head of the church they attends every Sundays because the TRUE CHRIST comes through the Only Begotten Son who told us to LOVE YE ONE ANOTHER AS I LOVE YOU. He also tell us that He is the one who is building His Church. He also let us to know that A MALE leave his mother and father to CLEAVE UNTO HIS WIFE for both to become ONE. He speak all of this under the NAME OF JESUS. But they all speaking the words of Apostle Paul who told them that he is living under the thorn of being SATAN MESSENGER. They yet to take these WORDS from Apostle Paul but instead demanding their wives to SUBMIT. During my counsel hour with an Nigerian he told me he love his wife and he want her to SUBMIT unto him. God created Male and Female not for anyone to be submissive but for them to be ONE. Sad how Nigerian Men doesn't understand that they are the ENEMIES within their own household. They are the SATAN MESSENGER who is giving the same life that Apostle Paul lives with. Those who BELIEVE IN GOD also Believe in His Only Begotten Son "Let not your heart be trouble, ye believe in God believe also in me". Apostle Paul is not the SON who God gave unto the world. Neither are the Preachers who come presenting the teaching of Apostle Paul before you.  Hugs

Your goddamn sermon does not make sense at all.

How dare you and who are you? You went too far..

Why would you even suggest or assume that African men live the life of the BEAST?
That is insulting to all Africans either continental or otherwise. You should apologize.

Did Jesus Christ say this?

How many African men have you married or dated?
What do you know about Nigerian men?

If you are a counselor then you should be retrained….
Don’t make an issue out Ronke who is dejected and rejected..

You don’t even understand much about Christianity let alone the bible.
Your thoughts are just exactly the same as of those slave masters….

Be quiet and .....be muted on this subject.
Posted: at 14-11-2013 06:09 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- papadip at 14-11-2013 06:25 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: ksurrina on 14-11-2013 12:48 AM
The problem is that AFRICAN MEN live the life of the BEAST the CHRISTIAN LIFE where they BONDAGE and OPPRESSED their wives. As they claimed that Christ is the Head of the church. The False CHRIST they are talking about is the head of the church they attends every Sundays because the TRUE CHRIST comes through the Only Begotten Son who told us to LOVE YE ONE ANOTHER AS I LOVE YOU. He also tell us that He is the one who is building His Church. He also let us to know that A MALE leave his mother and father to CLEAVE UNTO HIS WIFE for both to become ONE. He speak all of this under the NAME OF JESUS. But they all speaking the words of Apostle Paul who told them that he is living under the thorn of being SATAN MESSENGER. They yet to take these WORDS from Apostle Paul but instead demanding their wives to SUBMIT. During my counsel hour with an Nigerian he told me he love his wife and he want her to SUBMIT unto him. God created Male and Female not for anyone to be submissive but for them to be ONE. Sad how Nigerian Men doesn't understand that they are the ENEMIES within their own household. They are the SATAN MESSENGER who is giving the same life that Apostle Paul lives with. Those who BELIEVE IN GOD also Believe in His Only Begotten Son "Let not your heart be trouble, ye believe in God believe also in me". Apostle Paul is not the SON who God gave unto the world. Neither are the Preachers who come presenting the teaching of Apostle Paul before you.  Hugs
Don’t make an issue out of Ronke who is dejected and rejected..
Posted: at 14-11-2013 06:25 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Tularemman at 14-11-2013 06:33 AM (10 years ago)
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You can not get riches, fame and romance @ d same time, you have to go for one. African men are romantic and even Yoruba men if you go for the right person. You can not marry a man because of money and @ the end of the day be expecting true love. What if the man gives you romantic affection while he let go of those huge source of income, I am sure that you will still be the first to say African men are not caring. Can you answer this question: Do you marry the man who truely love you or the one you truely love?,.... Your answer determines what you get, Shikina!
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- Kechywillz at 14-11-2013 08:05 AM (10 years ago)
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then go marry white man na,if we no dey romantic

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- doskobaba at 14-11-2013 10:02 AM (10 years ago)
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Those words usually come from a frustrated being. Don't worry, she will come around, they always do.
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- goodhealth at 14-11-2013 11:42 AM (10 years ago)
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True talk my dear.
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- funlam at 14-11-2013 12:45 PM (10 years ago)
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Sister Ronke, you are right, but thank God some men are changing, and some women now have the knowledge of who they are and what they are to enjoy as a wife. Things will change with African men soonest and African Marriages as well.
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- Lekan22 at 14-11-2013 01:13 PM (10 years ago)
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ok
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- dickman2 at 14-11-2013 01:36 PM (10 years ago)
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naija hate truth,,the truth be say this woman open up..una dey vex..for the men..HOW MANY TIME U DON TELL YOUR  WIFE THAT U LOVE HER..OR TAKE HER OUT FOR GOOD TIME OR TAKE HER ON HOLIDAYS FOR WEEKS,,HAVING SEX WITH YOUR WIFE  EVERY DAY NO MAKE U ROMANTIC OOOH..SHOW HER LOVE,,HAVE TIME FOR HER,,,SPEND TIME WITH HER MAKE HER HAPPY,,SOME MEN THINK BY MAKING SEX TO A WOMAN WILL MAKE U  ROMANTIC..NA LIE..BUT SOME WOMAN DEY FEAR TO TALK TO THEIR MAN..OR OPEN UP..THIS WHY I LKIE WHITE WOMEN..THEM WILL TELL U WHAT THEM WANT..
Posted: at 14-11-2013 01:36 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- link1234 at 14-11-2013 01:53 PM (10 years ago)
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just passing
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- okimiji at 14-11-2013 03:21 PM (10 years ago)
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absolutely rubbish, rather women are not shy to kiss their man in the public hence we are tire of forcing them therefore we also tend not be interested except for where they want it which is BED.................
Posted: at 14-11-2013 03:21 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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