if u dont have anything to say.. u better keep quiet. do u know what is culture ? Maybe in ur village culture, all men are trained to be aggressive to the ladies.
Note that aggressiveness is not the same as being abusive. [/quote]
It depends on what you want in a relation. If you want sex and different styles and positions, please club girls/Ashi are the best. Also they are ever ready to service you. But is you want companion think twice!!!
break up is part of relationship. Break up make some to be better lovers and some bad lovers. Break up creates opportunities for others. Please don't be selfish, spread the love not hate.
Nigerian men seem aggressive because most women do not give them straight forward answer and they are not honest with their answers. Most often you will see Nigerian women playing the card " I WANT, I NO WANT" . Thus giving the signal that the men need to try harder. So, most men seem it as the women are proving difficult to get and they need to try harder. And most cases you will see the women will giving in.
Have you ask yourself how many times you ask your first girl for a date in Nigeria.. For me, it is more than fifty times before her say yes.
This Nigerian male aggressiveness is cultural issue.
There is no true love. True love is only in movies and in your thinking when you are a teenage. But when you are adult, your will know there is no true love. Love is a contract based on what you can give and what you think you can receive. "NO TRUE LOVE"