TWO FEMALE LEGS, PERIOD!
JON JAZZY, THIS POST BY YOU HAS SAID IT ALL ABOUT YOU. YOU ARE SIMPLY IMMATURE, IRRESPONSIBLE AND STUPI....
YOU DON FALL THE HANDS OF YOUR FANS, PERIOD.

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ADDENDUM.
I wonder what we always think  about life. Life itself is a mystery or rather full of mystery. Life's future is unknown to everybody. If life's future is unknowable to humans, how then can we foresee what ones life becomes in the future? Just as we don't know what a child may become in the future, marriage itself is also like that. It is like a market. Even the buyer does not know actually if his good is going to be good, last, serve him, and be 'all weather' for him. We all have our different flares when it comes to making lasting choices. Our choices are quite different from others peoples choices. No-one makes choices for anyone, but only suggestions. A suggestion remains only a suggestion, but not a compelling. One is free to take people's suggestions if one deems it necessary or leaves it if it will pose some risks. In marriage it is like that. There have been cases where parents insist that their children marriage after their choices and such marriages failed woefully and the opposite became laudable. There have also been cases where children insist on marrying women after their hearts and such marriages failed woefully and the opposite became regrettable. There is always a dilemma in issues concerning marriage. It is better to choose between two evils, a lesser one. In this case, one can condone with a lesser evil than a horrible evil. Or which one is better, a lesser evil or a horrible one or your decision against your parents/relatives or your parents/relatives' decisions against your Will?  I think one buys from ones product choice. But products have their difference expiration dates, we should bear that in mind. Neither you the buyer nor your parents, your bosom friends or your distinguished relatives fixed the expiration date on your product.

I wonder what we always think  about life. Life itself is a mystery or rather full of mystery. Life's future is unknown to everybody. If life's future is unknowable to humans, how then can we foresee what ones life become in the future? Just as we don't know what a child may become in the future, marriage itself is also like that. It is a market. Even the buyer does not know actually if his good is going to good, last, serve, and be all weather for him. We all have our different flares when it comes to making lasting choices. Our choices are quite different from the others' choices. No-one makes choices for anyone, only suggestions. A suggestion remains only a suggestion, not a compulsion. One is free to take other people's suggestions. In marriage it is like that. There have been cases where parents insist their their sons marriage their choices and they failed woefully and the opposite became. There have been cases also where a man insists on marrying a woman after his heart and it failed woefully and the opposite became regrettable. There is always a dilemma in issues concerning marriage. It is better to choose between two evils, a lesser one. In this case, which one is a lesser evil? Your decision against your parents/relatives or your parents/relatives' decisions against your Will? I think one buys from ones own product choice. Products have their difference expiration dates, bear that in mind. Neither you nor your parents, friends and relations fixed the expiration dates.

Nice shoe for jugging- hope not to Dubai.

"An unexamined life is not worth living" (Socrates)-My dear commentators, examine your lives
"Cogito ergo sum" (Rene Descartes)-Is not always the case.
My friends, think positively,
Reason right-this is the reason why we are a higher animal.
Faith and Reason go hand in hand.

Mass Wedding, Mass Children.
Mass Children, Mass 'Ewu Awusa'.
More Aturu Awusa, Mass Rearing.
Mass Rearing, Mass Abokis.
Mass Abokis, Mass Uneducated Illiterates.
Mass Illiterates, Nigeria in Trouble: No Mass Education, cos they no need am.

BAD MARKET! LIKE IN THE BIBLE, PEOPLE DO SELL ALL THEY HAVE TO PURCHASE A TREASURE LAND. THESE DAYS, PEOPLE SELL ALL THEY HAVE TO PURCHASE 'WHITE SEPULCHER'. IT'S REALLY A BAD MARKET.

THIS IS NOT "MADNESS" BUT "MADMONINESS". THE BOY IS NOT MAD BUT  HIS MONEY IS. THE MONEY REFUSED TO FLY TO ANOTHER MEANINGFUL HAND

IT IS NOT ONLY THE DEVIL THAT CAN BE HAULED DOWN FROM HEAVEN. HIS ANGELS  TOO WERE ALSO HAULED DOWN.
HELEN TOO HAS FOLLOWED THE OVERHAULING PROCESS GOING ON IN HEAVEN, LOL. SHE BEEN HAULED DOWN FROM HER 'UK  HEAVEN ON EARTH' (FOR MOST PEOPLE CONSIDER THE UK AS  HEAVEN ON EARTH). IT SERVES HER RIGHT BECAUSE PRIDE GOES BEFORE A FALL.
I HOPE SHE DID NOT BREAK ALL HER BONES OR WOULD RATHER SAY-"HOPE SHE BROKE ALL HER BONES" SO SHE WOULD NEVER STAND ON HER FEET TO TEMPT THE CHILDREN OF GOD IN THE NAME OF CONVERSION.
I KNOW SHE WILL TAKE SOLACE FROM THE FILM "THE PRICE" WHICH SHE DIRECTED HERSELF. WHATEVER!

IT IS NOT ONLY THE DEVIL THAT CAN BE HAULED DOWN FROM HEAVEN. HIS ANGELS  TOO WERE ALSO HAULED DOWN.
HELEN TOO HAS FOLLOWED THE OVERHAULING PROCESS GOING ON IN HEAVEN, LOL. SHE BEEN HAULED DOWN FROM HER 'UK  HEAVEN ON EARTH' (FOR MOST PEOPLE CONSIDER THE UK AS  HEAVEN ON EARTH). IT SERVES HER RIGHT BECAUSE PRIDE GOES BEFORE A FALL.
I HOPE SHE DID NOT BREAK ALL HER BONES OR WOULD RATHER SAY-"HOPE SHE BROKE ALL HER BONES" SO SHE WOULD NEVER STAND ON HER FEET TO TEMPT THE CHILDREN OF GOD IN THE NAME OF CONVERSION.

Good lamentation from the deepest of the heart. God will hear and turn back to Nigeria through this your lamentation. The prophets of old did lament for Israel f old and God heard them. God will definitely hear your prayers and wish to this poor and innocent country, Nigeria through your own prophecy. Thank you my lady.

'Shamefullest' shame to the stupid so-called EFCC. So 1.6m dollar bullet-proof scandal of Ms Oduah is more crime than the 20m dollar of missing and unaccounted money of Sanusi. It is funny in Nigeria that if you EMBEZZLE big money, you will be compensated, praised and apologized to, while small embezzlement will be probed, penalized and of course jailed. I hail you Nigeria.

Nice comment madam. You always hit the nail on its head.

My brother, don't be deceived about looks or beauty. Marriage is not all about being beautiful. It is far beyond that. Men always think that they are in charge in any relationship-courtship, friendship, and/or marriage. I think your erroneous conclusion was drawn from that assertion. Your conclusion is deceptive and misleading. You are wrong and will continue to be wrong.

OF COURSE, YOU PEOPLE ARE HEADING TO MAMA AGAPE'S JOINT NOW. HAVE YOU FORGOTTEN? OR YOU ARE PRETENDING?
DON'T CONFUSE US WITH THE "GARDEN OF EDEN" STUFF. WE KNOW WHERE YOU ARE GOING TO WITH HER.

NONSENSE!!!

According to Leslie Becker-Phelps, “All marriages have their ups and downs; all people have their strengths and weaknesses; and all couples have areas of disagreement. But those who remain happy manage to view their relationship through a positive lens. They see the parts of their marriage that are most positive as the parts that are essential. However, most importantly, they are flexible about this. As the positive and negative aspects of their relationship shift with time, so does their judgment about what is essential — but they must always focus on the most positive aspects in the moment.

Along with this positive perspective, couples view their spouse’s problems, imperfections, or annoying habits in a way that neutralizes their impact. One approach they suppose to use is “viewing these things in a benevolent way”. For instance, a wife might understand her husband’s snapping as the result of a hard day instead of thinking of him as just being disrespectful. Such positive attributions help relationships to remain stable and supportive.

Another way partners remain happy together is by being aware of — and acknowledging the positives while allowing themselves to get upset about specific problems. In contrast, spouses who tend to be more blaming and less understanding create a negative environment at home.  For them, specific problems appear bigger and tend to snowball. It’s amazing how a toilet seat left in the upright position can ruin a couple’s whole day together!

Some people are inherently better at seeing the positive side of situations and understanding others from a more compassionate perspective. And they will certainly be happier for it. But for the rest of us, this is a skill that can be learned — when people are interested in developing it. For instance, couples can practice sharing what makes them feel loved and then practice doing those things.

Unfortunately, life sometimes makes it hard to be positive. We all have only a limited amount of time and energy. So when problems pile up (such as job stress, deaths of loved ones, illnesses, problems related to children), people’s inner resources become strained. Even the most charitable people can reach their limit, making it difficult to approach their marriage in positive ways. Because of this, it’s important for couples to nurture their relationship during the good times. This way they have more positive feelings to rely upon when life gets tough.

In the end, maintaining a happy marriage is, to a large extent, about how couples approach each other. The more they can see their marriage in a positive light and can be supportive and understanding of each other, the more successful their marriage will be”.

To achieve a long and lasting marriage, Rose Pollard pointed out that “couples’ (italics-mine) ‘in-advanced age’ means that they (italics-mine) have many of the anxieties that can be as challenging as the marriage anxieties for the newlyweds”. That's one of the things we cannot forget about, ‘time’, because time doesn't mean that much."- (Rose Pollard). Is it better to ‘marry your age?’ I think Pollard’s point does not suggest that it matters if marriage meant ‘marrying your age’ or not. It meant that anxieties in marriage can challenge our different expectations about marriage and love irrespective of age gap or differences.

As we know, men and women have different kind of expectations about marriage and love as I mentioned above. The best thing is to talk about these expectations before and during the beginning of the marriage. The newly married, as well as the ‘old cargos’ in the ‘industry’ should learn to “take their time and get to know one another everyday till death do them part. They got to know if they like all the things that each person stands for so as to “be forgiving and patient and always say ‘I love you’ once in a while."-Rose Pollard).

Most of the time, our victims, I mean the people we crucify, abuse, hail, praise and defend, might seem to me that either they could not give each other positive feedback when it was necessary. For example, they might have failed to tell each other one thing every night (night-the most appropriate time for couples-you know what I mean?) that he or she appreciated what he or she had done that day; or were going asleep like enemies; or never talked things (their differences) over; or never gave time to expressed themselves even if it took the whole night to solve their problem. It could be that they might have not been familiar with the Swedish way of saying “the grass is not greener on the other side” or they did not understand its implications. Perhaps, they did all of these, yet their marriage could not stand. Marriage doesn’t seem to be an easy graduate school. It is not a bed of roses either. In this ‘business’ and/or ‘vocation’ called marriage, each party must respect each other’s opinions even if they sometimes don’t understand them.

To us out there, we should try to help advice couples who are at the verge of losing and/or loosing their marriage bonds. It doesn’t help when we chastise, castigate, crucify, hail, praise and/or adore any party’s opinions and/or mistakes. To the unmarried out there, don’t even mind, it shall soon be your own turn. You stand out there at akimbo and gossip, criticize, hail, praise and all worth not. Let’s see how you will school and graduate in this ‘all important institution/school. Peace to us all!

According to Leslie Becker-Phelps, “All marriages have their ups and downs; all people have their strengths and weaknesses; and all couples have areas of disagreement. But those who remain happy manage to view their relationship through a positive lens. They see the parts of their marriage that are most positive as the parts that are essential. However, most importantly, they are flexible about this. As the positive and negative aspects of their relationship shift with time, so does their judgment about what is essential — but they must always focus on the most positive aspects in the moment.

Along with this positive perspective, couples view their spouse’s problems, imperfections, or annoying habits in a way that neutralizes their impact. One approach they suppose to use is “viewing these things in a benevolent way”. For instance, a wife might understand her husband’s snapping as the result of a hard day instead of thinking of him as just being disrespectful. Such positive attributions help relationships to remain stable and supportive.

Another way partners remain happy together is by being aware of — and acknowledging the positives while allowing themselves to get upset about specific problems. In contrast, spouses who tend to be more blaming and less understanding create a negative environment at home.  For them, specific problems appear bigger and tend to snowball. It’s amazing how a toilet seat left in the upright position can ruin a couple’s whole day together!

Some people are inherently better at seeing the positive side of situations and understanding others from a more compassionate perspective. And they will certainly be happier for it. But for the rest of us, this is a skill that can be learned — when people are interested in developing it. For instance, couples can practice sharing what makes them feel loved and then practice doing those things.

Unfortunately, life sometimes makes it hard to be positive. We all have only a limited amount of time and energy. So when problems pile up (such as job stress, deaths of loved ones, illnesses, problems related to children), people’s inner resources become strained. Even the most charitable people can reach their limit, making it difficult to approach their marriage in positive ways. Because of this, it’s important for couples to nurture their relationship during the good times. This way they have more positive feelings to rely upon when life gets tough.

In the end, maintaining a happy marriage is, to a large extent, about how couples approach each other. The more they can see their marriage in a positive light and can be supportive and understanding of each other, the more successful their marriage will be”.

To achieve this to a long and lasting marriage, Rose Pollard advised and commented that “couples’ (italics-mine) ‘in-advanced age’ means that they (italics-mine) have many of the anxieties that can be as challenging as the marriage anxieties for the newlyweds”. That's one of the things we cannot forget about, ‘time’, because time doesn't mean that much."- (Rose Pollard). Rose Pollard meant that anxieties in marriage often challenge our different expectations about marriage and love.

As we know, men and women have different kind of expectations about marriage and love as I mentioned above. The best thing is to talk about these expectations before and during the beginning of the marriage. The newly married, as well as the ‘old cargos’ in the ‘industry’ should learn to “take their time and get to know one another everyday till death do them part. They got to know if they like all the things that each person stands for so as to “be forgiving and patient and always say ‘I love you’ once in a while."-Rose Pollard).

I think that our victims, the people we are crucifying, abusing, hailing, praising and defending, Tchidi and Sofia seemed could not give each other positive feedback when it was necessary. For example, they might have failed to tell each other one thing every night (night-the most appropriate time for couples-you know what I mean?) that he or she appreciated what he or she had done that day. It seemed to me also that they do go asleep like enemies. They never talked things (their differences) over. They never gave time to express one even if it took the whole night to solve their problem. They might have not been familiar with the Swedish way of saying “the grass is not greener on the other side” or they did not understand its implication. It meant that marriage doesn’t seem to be an easy school. It is not a bed of roses either. In this ‘business’ and/or ‘vocation’, each party must respect each other’s opinions even if they sometimes don’t understand them.

And you out there, try to help advice couples who are at the verge of losing and loosing their marriage bond. It doesn’t help when we chastise, castigate, crucify, hail, praise and adore any party’s opinion and mistakes. To the unmarried out there, don’t mind, it shall soon be your own turn. Let’s see how you handle and pioneer this ‘all important graduate school. Peace to us all!

WHETHER TCHIDI DUMPS WIFE FOR NUELLA OR THE WIFE WAS UNFAITHFUL TO THEIR MARRIAGE, THERE ARE A FEW THINGS I COULD NEVER BELIEVE:THERE ARE A FEW THINGS I NEVER COULD BELIEVE:

A WOMAN WHEN SHE WEEPS;

A MERCHANT WHEN HE SWEARS;

A THIEF WHO SAYS HE WILL PAY;

A LAWYER WHEN HE CARES;

A SNAKE WHEN HE IS SLEEPING;

A DRUNKARD WHEN HE PRAYS.

I DON’T BELIEVE YOU GO TO HEAVEN WHEN YOU ARE GOOD. EVERYTHING GOES TO HELL ANYWAY.