very, very cruel to sleep with your own daughter. he's a pig and deserves to rotten to jail for taking advantage of the little gal after her mom's death. what kind of a father is this. he's suppose to give security, love and support to his child but seeing her as a strange woman to sleep with.

Please cut off his PENIS

meant candle in the wind

wow, what a waist only 25 years. may ur soul rest in peace. hopefully, your fmily will take heart to let go and let God's will be done. you were a cande in the wind.

it depends on the kind of person that you are. habndbag is good when you are loaded. carrying an empty handbag just because you want to be associated with a group of people. be yourself at all times

poster, you did not tell us where this guy was from. if he was a nigerian too but relocated to another city of country? also you forgot to tell us that where the younger sister was raped?

anyway, the onus is on the younger sister whether to forgive and forget or to deal with the emotions. I believe that i was time for her younger sista to ask thi man's intentions for rape and the way forward for the child. The eldest sister need to step back and let them deal with this issue in a manner that will be beneficiary to all parties.

there's no age if well dressed.

the choice is urs. but you must ready and fit for the outcome.

its good and bad. its good in the sense that you are expressing yor feeling but bad in the sense that maybe he will not respect. if a man does not respect after chasing youi for months and years, how much more to someone he didnt suffer. Only mature man will appreciate that and respect your expression. If he's not interested then it will the two of you that will know. some guys can only use you for sex and expect you not to complaint afterall you asked him out.

someone will think you are very desparate and lost hope for your beauty.

i dont think its a sin because it's just a body but your soul is either in heaven or hell.

come on gal, you need no teachers on this. tell your man how you want to be kissed and for how long you prefer.  be open in things like these or else you'll end up cheating.

twenty pac

tall, handsome, long eye lashes, fit with white neat teeth.

@sobeit, nope. just learning

well said

good decision and hopefully you mean it.

keep your teaching to yourself.

call it confused but i'm saving myself from sleepless nights

just saying my mind. no harm

i'm in love but also keep a space for disappointment so that i dont fall into pieces.

are you really in love or thinking you?