A Pastor Is Sleeping With My Wife And He’s My Uncle: WHAT CAN I DO?


I reader of  sent in this message, seeking for constructive advise on the best way for him to handle this very disgraceful situation that is going on in his family. Please lets help him out, for a friend in need is a friend indeed.

His story goes like this...
I stayed with my Uncle in lagos, he has a church in Ogudu Ojota. Around late 90 I have a lady and we courted for 6 years b4 we wedded in 2002. Up till now no child; sickness upon sickness for this lady.

Last January a pastor asked me to fast and pray, and I fasted and prayed. To my surprise after the prayer, my uncle went to my daddy to confess that he was going out with my wife b4 our wedding and that he even continued till now. I was shocked when my father told me, because this man is a popular pastor.

But I could remember that back then anytime this lady come he always exhibit hatred towards me, in fact he hates me... I don’t want to reveal his name and the name of his church. The truth is that I know he was doing all these bad things but I didn’t know he would do it with my own wife, taking her to different hotels.
Pls what can I do?

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Posted: at 2-07-2012 06:46 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Confront them with the facts on ground and if the story is true, put a hold on your wife.

Posted: at 2-07-2012 09:07 AM (11 years ago) | Hero

kp pastor out of it, instead put all d blame on ur lose wife

Posted: at 2-07-2012 09:22 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming

kp pastor out of it, instead put all d blame on ur lose wife

ok ..

Posted: at 7-08-2012 12:31 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero

 

Posted: at 23-08-2012 08:35 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero

sorry 4 d unfortunate thing...anyway its painfull iknow u love ur wife but this is also unbearable since u say that ur pastor confessd that he used to do it b4 and still does even after u married her!!!!plis my dear brother...seems like she coerced u in2d relationshp! or d uncle did it to hide his evil deeds,jaz surrender ,wise men do not fight to win praise,,it comes atomatically to  men and women who  who displays extraodinary bravery, imean leave that woman alone she loves the man..y would u want 2 strugle the whole of ur life with awoman who has openly expressed her feeling by showing that u dont deserve her...move on sir..she isnt d only lady GOD d  almighty will grant u abetter wife if u pray earnestly 4even the bible allows u 2divorce awoman who is unfaithful,,ur uncle only did confess so that you allow him to continue coz he had no other best forum to adress u except throu ur father..unless u want 2always share with him.all the best

Posted: at 1-10-2012 05:32 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie

oh

Posted: at 10-11-2012 08:40 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Forget

Posted: at 21-08-2015 08:28 AM (8 years ago) | Hero

kk

Posted: at 16-04-2016 01:43 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac

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