Can you make love to someone you are not in love with ?

10 years ago by: PRINCE OBINECHE
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(m) at 24-02-2010 12:09PM (10 years ago)

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I've been reading another thread that asks posters to give their definition of the difference between sex and making love.

Many of the respondents have noted that making love is with someone you are in love with.

So, after doing a few different searches and not finding one that addresses this, I thought I would throw out this question:

Do you need to be IN love to MAKE love to that person?

IMHO, no. I believe you can make love to a person without being IN love with that person. That being said, notice I said make love TO someone, not WITH someone. There is a difference.

This is not about sex or one night stands. This is about being in a relationship, whether it be FWB or at the beginning of a possible LTR where you are not IN love with that person, but you do care for them.

What is your opinion?


ebony_cutie (f) at 24-02-2010 12:14PM
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You don ansa am finish na....you said making love TO and not WITH the person, yea its possible to make love to a person you not in love with
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acaalliy (m) at 24-02-2010 12:20PM
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If she give me for free and i dont love her i go phyuk am die provided she fine sha... if na ugly gal forget it...
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brightossy (m) at 24-02-2010 12:24PM
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U don already answer wetin i wan talk. Sex = - Love, Love making = Love
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onchedu (m) at 24-02-2010 12:39PM
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In my opinion, the prime difference between making love and having sex is lies in the duration of foreplay and the whole activity that culminates into the time between coitus and sexual release.

Making love is a detailed act that entails more than just insertion and thrusting away. It involves romance, sweet words and actions prior to clothes coming off. It involves more than sexual communication between the bodies of the parties in question, it involves emotional communication, psychological, and otherwise. It involves body mind soul and spirit. It's deeper and richer in meaning than can be fully explained using words. It's a cosmic experience.

Sex is just sex. Notwithstanding it can be fun and enjoyed by people that are in love or just strangers caught up in spontaneous lust and fornication.

Making love to a stranger is possible esp when the one making the love is emotionally unstable. U can imagine a patron of the ladies of the nyt telling his escort he loves her while she's screwing him for money. Is that a stable person?
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myragonza (f) at 24-02-2010 12:40PM
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Quote from: princemech on 24-02-2010 12:09PM
I've been reading another thread that asks posters to give their definition of the difference between sex and making love.

Many of the respondents have noted that making love is with someone you are in love with.

So, after doing a few different searches and not finding one that addresses this, I thought I would throw out this question:

Do you need to be IN love to MAKE love to that person?

IMHO, no. I believe you can make love to a person without being IN love with that person. That being said, notice I said make love TO someone, not WITH someone. There is a difference.

This is not about sex or one night stands. This is about being in a relationship, whether it be FWB or at the beginning of a possible LTR where you are not IN love with that person, but you do care for them.

What is your opinion?


ok,whats the difference between making love TO someone and WITH someone.....i'm still learning nah....

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Miss_precious (f) at 24-02-2010 12:42PM
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ur own wan con too much

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onchedu (m) at 24-02-2010 12:42PM
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In my opinion, the prime difference between making love and having sex is lies in the duration of foreplay and the whole activity that culminates into the time between coitus and sexual release.

Making love is a detailed act that entails more than just insertion and thrusting away. It involves romance, sweet words and actions prior to clothes coming off. It involves more than sexual communication between the bodies of the parties in question, it involves emotional communication, psychological, and otherwise. It involves body mind soul and spirit. It's deeper and richer in meaning than can be fully explained using words. It's a cosmic experience.

Sex is just sex. Notwithstanding it can be fun and enjoyed by people that are in love or just strangers caught up in spontaneous lust and fornication.

Making love to a stranger is possible esp when the one making the love is emotionally unstable. U can imagine a patron of the ladies of the nyt telling his escort he loves her while she's screwing him for money. Is that a stable person?
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ebony_cutie (f) at 24-02-2010 12:55PM
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Quote from: myragonza on 24-02-2010 12:40PM
Quote from: princemech on 24-02-2010 12:09PM
I've been reading another thread that asks posters to give their definition of the difference between sex and making love.

Many of the respondents have noted that making love is with someone you are in love with.

So, after doing a few different searches and not finding one that addresses this, I thought I would throw out this question:

Do you need to be IN love to MAKE love to that person?

IMHO, no. I believe you can make love to a person without being IN love with that person. That being said, notice I said make love TO someone, not WITH someone. There is a difference.

This is not about sex or one night stands. This is about being in a relationship, whether it be FWB or at the beginning of a possible LTR where you are not IN love with that person, but you do care for them.

What is your opinion?


ok,whats the difference between making love TO someone and WITH someone.....i'm still learning nah....

The difference is that making love to someone you love is just like having sex, u just love the person or somthg abt the person but not deeply in love...being in love with some1 involves both parties,goes beyond the physical,involves everything about you
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myragonza (f) at 24-02-2010 01:02PM
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Quote from: ebony_cutie on 24-02-2010 12:55PM
Quote from: myragonza on 24-02-2010 12:40PM
Quote from: princemech on 24-02-2010 12:09PM
I've been reading another thread that asks posters to give their definition of the difference between sex and making love.

Many of the respondents have noted that making love is with someone you are in love with.

So, after doing a few different searches and not finding one that addresses this, I thought I would throw out this question:

Do you need to be IN love to MAKE love to that person?

IMHO, no. I believe you can make love to a person without being IN love with that person. That being said, notice I said make love TO someone, not WITH someone. There is a difference.

This is not about sex or one night stands. This is about being in a relationship, whether it be FWB or at the beginning of a possible LTR where you are not IN love with that person, but you do care for them.

What is your opinion?


ok,whats the difference between making love TO someone and WITH someone.....i'm still learning nah....

The difference is that making love to someone you love is just like having sex, u just love the person or somthg abt the person but not deeply in love...being in love with some1 involves both parties,goes beyond the physical,involves everything about you

 Grin Grin Grin thanks Sis....i was just irritating Princemech actually...lol....but thanks for the reply though.... Wink Wink

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handsomeemmy1 (m) at 24-02-2010 01:05PM
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Ok learning.

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ebony_cutie (f) at 24-02-2010 01:06PM
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Quote from: myragonza on 24-02-2010 01:02PM
Quote from: ebony_cutie on 24-02-2010 12:55PM
Quote from: myragonza on 24-02-2010 12:40PM
Quote from: princemech on 24-02-2010 12:09PM
I've been reading another thread that asks posters to give their definition of the difference between sex and making love.

Many of the respondents have noted that making love is with someone you are in love with.

So, after doing a few different searches and not finding one that addresses this, I thought I would throw out this question:

Do you need to be IN love to MAKE love to that person?

IMHO, no. I believe you can make love to a person without being IN love with that person. That being said, notice I said make love TO someone, not WITH someone. There is a difference.

This is not about sex or one night stands. This is about being in a relationship, whether it be FWB or at the beginning of a possible LTR where you are not IN love with that person, but you do care for them.

What is your opinion?


ok,whats the difference between making love TO someone and WITH someone.....i'm still learning nah....

The difference is that making love to someone you love is just like having sex, u just love the person or somthg abt the person but not deeply in love...being in love with some1 involves both parties,goes beyond the physical,involves everything about you

 Grin Grin Grin thanks Sis....i was just irritating Princemech actually...lol....but thanks for the reply though.... Wink Wink

Aww didnt knw that  Smiley ..... you are welcome dear
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dirtykid (m) at 24-02-2010 01:09PM
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Oya show me the person, and we will see if i will not do something wit am.. Tongue

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myragonza (f) at 24-02-2010 01:12PM
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Quote from: dirtykid on 24-02-2010 01:09PM
Oya show me the person, and we will see if i will not do something wit am.. Tongue


she's behind the window..in Princemech's profile photo

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vivian07 (f) at 24-02-2010 01:14PM
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hmmm...dis question shouldnt be asked at this jet age...mcewww...if it was asked around that early 90,s u will have gotten a good answer....how many girls make love to guys cos they love em ? or how guyz make love to girs cos the love em.......i beg eee...
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myragonza (f) at 24-02-2010 01:18PM
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Make Love...Not War....

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dirtykid (m) at 24-02-2010 01:23PM
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Quote from: myragonza on 24-02-2010 01:12PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 24-02-2010 01:09PM
Oya show me the person, and we will see if i will not do something wit am.. Tongue


she's behind the window..in Princemech's profile photo

Make she show face small.. so i will know she is real  Cheesy Cheesy

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myragonza (f) at 24-02-2010 01:35PM
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Quote from: dirtykid on 24-02-2010 01:23PM
Quote from: myragonza on 24-02-2010 01:12PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 24-02-2010 01:09PM
Oya show me the person, and we will see if i will not do something wit am.. Tongue


she's behind the window..in Princemech's profile photo

Make she show face small.. so i will know she is real  Cheesy Cheesy

u need to give a little knock on the window...

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vivian07 (f) at 24-02-2010 01:39PM
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Quote from: myragonza on 24-02-2010 01:18PM
Make Love...Not War....
all join ...
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Akpan01 (f) at 24-02-2010 01:40PM
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nope i cant..

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