[Read her story below;]

A woman identified as Rosalyn from Benue state has narrated her ordeal at the hands of her husband whom she claims abuses her both physically and emotionally. The unhappy wife also revealed how she found out that her husband had been sleeping with her sister for 2 years to the extent of getting her pregnant and aborting it.

Read her story below;

Good day, my name is Rosalyn.from Benue state I need help so I don’t take my life. Because that seem to be the only option now. I got married in court at the age of 19 because I was pregnant and because I didn’t want to bring shame to my parents, I got married and it has been the worst decision I ever made..I have never had peace.i have been abused emotional, physically and psychologically..I have no say,at that time I couldn’t visit my parents, even when I was pregnant for my two kids, he treated me like I was nothing..

I did Cs and he threatened me to tell the doctor to discharge me because he didn’t want to waste money,I ended up having infection on my incision area( a flesh eating disease) it nearly killed me.He refused to put me in school as promised nor pay for me to learn a skill..

I was being punished for everything, it was like I was walking in eggshells. he locked me outside till 3am with my newborn baby inside the room crying for hours because I asked him why he came home by 12am. He goes out to drink, club,cheats with many women.

One day, I asked him a question and he beat me up in front of his mother,then it happened again and again .I ran to my parents house but I was told to go back because divorce is not good and that he’ll change..But he never changed, at times he won’t talk to me for weeks nor buy food or eat the food I cook, he’ll insult me and call me and my family names.

I keep baring everything until last year august when I found out he was sleeping with my kid sis who’s 16.  She told me that they’ve been having sex three times a week for 2 years,she got pregnant and they aborted it..I was devastated..I was shocked ,I was in pain..I wanted to run away with my kids but I had nowhere to go to,I had no money, no skill, no degree..

So i stayed bearing it all..He still hasn’t changed.he use it to rub on my face instead..I have developed a terrible high blood pressure at the age of 26. He keeps tormenting me and beating me up.. Threatening me with a knife, I ran away to Lagos for some weeks.. Came back and this morning, he starts beating me for no reason… I need to leave this marriage.. I need to get my life back. I need help.

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Posted: at 13-01-2018 08:57 PM (6 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Na wao 4 this end time husband. There is God oo

Posted: at 13-01-2018 09:10 PM (6 years ago) | Newbie

Nah waa with all this suffering you 're managing him...hmmmm so men get heartooo treating your wife like your servant...Madame leave that plce marriage is not a do or die affair you life is more important if you die  he will marry your younger sister.

Posted: at 13-01-2018 09:58 PM (6 years ago) | Hero

U really need help or else that man may kill u. Opening your legs and getting pregnant is what caused all of these. Tell your parents if they value your life they must accept u back.

Posted: at 13-01-2018 10:00 PM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac

YOU BETTER LIVE HIM NOW, VERY PAINFUL STORY.

Posted: at 13-01-2018 10:14 PM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac

why u marry a mad man!! comot him house na

Posted: at 13-01-2018 10:44 PM (6 years ago) | Grande Master

That's the problem with girls of nowadays, especially the teens, if them don they grow Bosom s, grow hash them no go let you rest.  Ordinary to send them common pure water for Iya Biliki shop go become problem becks them go they think say you wan toast them... eventually one will see them with bele,  bele wey be like bird own... only to find out say na agbero,  yahoo boy or one irresponsible lizard give them bele...I'm sure her parents deliberately sent her to that guy's house to make her pay for her senseless act... I pray u get out of this alive and if unfortunately  you don't then you'll become a martyr

Posted: at 13-01-2018 11:04 PM (6 years ago) | Upcoming

That's the problem with girls of nowadays, especially the teens, if them don they grow Bosom s, grow hash them no go let you rest.  Ordinary to send them common pure water for Iya Biliki shop go become problem becks them go they think say you wan toast them... eventually one will see them with bele,  bele wey be like bird own... only to find out say na agbero,  yahoo boy or one irresponsible lizard give them bele...I'm sure her parents deliberately sent her to that guy's house to make her pay for her senseless act... I pray u get out of this alive and if unfortunately  you don't then you'll become a martyr

Posted: at 13-01-2018 11:07 PM (6 years ago) | Upcoming

Madam is painful but my advice to u forgive him this is ur time of trouble pls forgive  him and continue ur marriage we are band's to do mistakes just send ur sister back home and mentain ur home OK may God bless u as u do this ciao ciao

Posted: at 14-01-2018 12:04 AM (6 years ago) | Upcoming

Madam is painful but my advice to u forgive him this is ur time of trouble pls forgive  him and continue ur marriage we are band's to do mistakes just send ur sister back home and mentain ur home OK may God bless u as u do this ciao ciao

Posted: at 14-01-2018 12:06 AM (6 years ago) | Upcoming

Madam is painful but my advice to u forgive him this is ur time of trouble pls forgive  him and continue ur marriage we are band's to do mistakes just send ur sister back home and mentain ur home OK may God bless u as u do this ciao ciao

pls if u don't know what to say, better keep quiet.can't you see she is in hell in the name of marriage? So she should stay in that bondage till her husband send her to her early grave? That husband is soo abusive.he will continue to torment her till he kill her.u prefers her to die before her time. That her will continue to beat her even if she send her sister packing

Posted: at 14-01-2018 12:50 AM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac

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One Congratulate One Birthday

Posted: at 14-01-2018 03:37 AM (6 years ago) | Upcoming

Madam call both families to tell them all you mentioned or even more. They will help you out to decide if you continue or head to court where you starred it. No one here will help you better. Life is precious

Posted: at 15-01-2018 01:47 AM (6 years ago) | Upcoming

the damage has been done....painful....lesson learned. ladies dont depend on any M.F for your existence....

Posted: at 15-01-2018 09:51 AM (6 years ago) | Hero

My advise will be that she should improve her self, get a vocation and improve your self, going back to your parent doesn't mean you are leaving the marriage. And also staying in it might end up your life. You have kids to look after, send your sister back home so maybe he can bring his own sister and mess with her. But please save your head

Posted: at 15-01-2018 10:24 AM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac

pls if u don't know what to say, better keep quiet.can't you see she is in hell in the name of marriage? So she should stay in that bondage till her husband send her to her early grave? That husband is soo abusive.he will continue to torment her till he kill her.u prefers her to die before her time. That her will continue to beat her even if she send her sister packing

Please were are the NGO's you people should help her out before that mad man sends her to an early grave ooooooooooooooo

Posted: at 15-01-2018 11:52 AM (6 years ago) | Newbie

Quiet a pity. You for go school na. At 19 you too young to marry. Approach NGOs who deai with viiolence agaist women. They will help you. Your randy husband is a monster.

Posted: at 15-01-2018 12:00 PM (6 years ago) | Gistmaniac

It's really unfortunate. Let her call both families and tell her story or go back to where they started, which is the court.

Posted: at 15-01-2018 05:41 PM (6 years ago) | Newbie

Sorry my dear is very painful but get heat.

Posted: at 15-01-2018 11:58 PM (6 years ago) | Upcoming

Asap live that Devil before he terminates your

Posted: at 18-01-2018 08:40 AM (6 years ago) | Newbie

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