There are some things a lady sometimes does to keep a man. But some of them are extreme and unhealthy for a lasting relationship. While we must do our best to show love to our fiancé, must we go overboard and try to keep him/her at all costs. If a man/woman decides to break up with you because he is in love with someone else, would you cry on his neck and begging him/her to keep you.

What will you do?

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Posted: at 4-07-2010 07:31 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

i was able to do this when i was 18

but now... if one goes, another will come... there is no need to be with smb who is not in love with u

Posted: at 4-07-2010 02:08 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

sorry poster do what at all cost?.... if he decides to leave me then so be it

Posted: at 4-07-2010 02:14 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

That would be useless and humiliating!
I could never do such a thing!
If they chose another road, let them be,it's not by force!

Posted: at 4-07-2010 02:17 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

[Cost?so i must pay a price nawww i don't have cash 2 waste.]

Cost?so i must pay a price nawww i don't have cash 2 waste.

Posted: at 4-07-2010 05:16 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

sorry poster do what at all cost?.... if he decides to leave me then so be it

some are bent on having the guy.....no matter wat it requires...........they go to any length

Posted: at 4-07-2010 07:16 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

[Cost?so i must pay a price nawww i don't have cash 2 waste.]

Cost?so i must pay a price nawww i don't have cash 2 waste.

its not about money always........some try to be closer to the guy's family, at times doing chores for them

Posted: at 4-07-2010 07:19 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

U are asking too INQUISITIVE QUESTIONS

Posted: at 4-07-2010 07:21 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

How about a lady who always tells a guy that she loves him and he never says that he loves her? She always calls him and he never returns her call. He yells at her and makes fun of her in public. Some ladies are clutching at straws in a bid to keep a guy at all cost and by all means.

Posted: at 4-07-2010 07:27 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

is not easy bros....a girl that
i love just woke up and tell me is over between us.
is not easy to let her go @ first but
i can't do what i can't....just let her go

Posted: at 4-07-2010 08:46 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Like r kelly says:
When a woman is fed up
there's nothing U can do abt it
u're lettin down ur guard by tryin
to make her come back and if she eventually
does, things aint gon be the same cos she aint
feelin U no more

Let it go, let it flow...someday U'll definitely find love
she's lurkin around smwhr waitin for fate to get y'all connected

Posted: at 4-07-2010 09:11 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

i agree wit some of d comments but to sme pple dis thns r easier said dan done,sum pple r just not emotionally mature to handle such thns.....

Posted: at 5-07-2010 03:36 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

How about a lady who always tells a guy that she loves him and he never says that he loves her? She always calls him and he never returns her call. He yells at her and makes fun of her in public. Some ladies are clutching at straws in a bid to keep a guy at all cost and by all means.

Dis is wat i call arrant nonsense...No man is worth dying for not even ur blood. Everyman is accountable for himself on d last day. Imagine if God ask u wat killed u, u'll tell Oh God i died because an crazily in luv wit a guy or sum1... SOLDIER GO SOLDIER COME, no man is INDISPENSABLE

Posted: at 5-07-2010 03:59 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

No one is worth dieing for on earth! besides.. guyz jilt ladies or ladies jilt guyz no be today that one don dey happen.. he's no more inlove with you FINE! Get going and move on... Go forward and u go see person wey go even buy you more expensive than you know it

Posted: at 5-07-2010 04:50 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

i agree wit some of d comments but to sme pple dis thns r easier said dan done,sum pple r just not emotionally mature to handle such thns.....

food for thought...........emotionally mature

Posted: at 5-07-2010 05:30 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

How about a lady who always tells a guy that she loves him and he never says that he loves her? She always calls him and he never returns her call. He yells at her and makes fun of her in public. Some ladies are clutching at straws in a bid to keep a guy at all cost and by all means.

Dis is wat i call arrant nonsense...No man is worth dying for not even ur blood. Everyman is accountable for himself on d last day. Imagine if God ask u wat killed u, u'll tell Oh God i died because an crazily in luv wit a guy or sum1... SOLDIER GO SOLDIER COME, no man is INDISPENSABLE

lol

Posted: at 5-07-2010 05:30 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

The fact that he's leaving me for someone else is humiliating enough, why would i want to cry/degrade/depress myself even further? That thing u left me for will send you running back to me.

Posted: at 5-07-2010 08:26 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

there is no ned fighting to kep him or her beause if u finally did . He/she will later leave you when it will be too late to make out something out of life without him

Posted: at 5-07-2010 08:36 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

GUY I AM FACING IT RIGHT NOW. I LUV HER SO MUCH
she just woke up and decided not to play along again.

I've tried to beg without succes! what else can i do?
i am considering letting her go!

Posted: at 5-07-2010 08:46 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

I strongly believe in this saying that you dont have to lock up a pigoen in the cage , set it free and if it's really yours , it will fly round the world and come back to you

Posted: at 5-07-2010 08:57 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

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