I have learn never to never. words are easy say than done some times, you might convinces yourself now that, you can hold and keep to yourself, but you never can tell what will happen before the nights come. The word of God told us not to lean unto our own understand, allow God's wisdom to guide you. Remember marriage was founded by our creator, when you said marriage is a failure..... that is a sin to the holy spirit i guess, and you have are making a mockery of what God had founded. are you saying that, you know better than God, who saw the need for marriage in human kind?
a woman must not seek after a man, only a man have to seek after woman. that's why the word of God said: a man that finds good wife, had found favor from God. when woman seek and search for a man, she made herself vulnerable. A woman must ask God for her future partner, be patient, not prideful, be submissive, and loving.

I pray everyday about every woman i met, in order to be sure she is the one for me. Not everything that glitter is gold, i cannot depend on my on human knowledge, i need God's guidance, wisdom, and direction for me to truly know the type of woman she is, and if she is my bone. Money can buy you every thing but cannot by happiness, and true happiness is only from God. Remember, Adam had everything, but some thing was missing in him, and that is happiness=his bone of bone (Eve). may God help us all.

Posted: at 2-10-2010 07:38 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Hmmmm!
Thx,but I didn't mocker anything! I said so because of what I'm seeing around me! Too many couples
who are living in the same apartment, and are like room mates, not spouses! Why would want anybody
such a life?
I'm not say that I'll never do it,nobody knows tomorrow!
But I think one could live alone,and without disobey God's order!God doesn't force us to marry, only if
one can't control himself/herself!
As you said: May God help us all!

Posted: at 2-10-2010 07:57 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

You are welcome. I want you to know that, before anything happen in life; God knows and sees it before it happened. Remember this world is a mystery, because an horrible accident happen on the way, does not stop people from driving through that same high way. And because some of your friends marriages failed or you see people around you going through a hard time with there living together mate, partner, or spouses, does not mean you have said MARRIAGE IS A FAILURE. However, if you choose not to go into marriage, that i would give you and respect your personal decision, but do not judge MARRIAGE because of your personal experince, the word of God says: thou shall not judge.
Jesus said to his disciples and i quote: " IN THE WORLD YOU SHALL FACE TRIBULATIONS; BUT REJOICE BECAUSE I HAD OVER COME THE WORLD FOR YOU". So...don't be amazed by those things that are happening around you or in the world, we're getting to the end time of the earth and all this things shall continue until the JESUS COMES BACK. All we can do, is to serve God righteously, and allow him to take us to where our peace, joy, and happiness is in this life time, before he calls us to Heaven. SEEK FIRST THE KINGDOM OF GOD AND HIS RIGHTEOUSNESS, AND EVERY OTHER THINGS SHALL BE ADDED UNTO YOU.   

Posted: at 2-10-2010 08:16 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Hmmmm!
I never judge anybody, and I respect ppl's choices, even if it's about something I could never do (and I'm not
referring at marriage now,but in general)!
Thx for your words!

Posted: at 2-10-2010 08:22 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

I hear you, and I wish you well.

Posted: at 2-10-2010 08:27 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Thx!
The same to you!

Posted: at 2-10-2010 08:33 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

In my own opinion,NOPE.

Posted: at 2-10-2010 10:11 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

In my own opinion,NOPE.

I feel you, dear!

Posted: at 2-10-2010 10:29 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

Opposite of weird?
Hmmm!
To me, opposite to weird it's normal,but....normal doesn't mean necessary good!
You know,normal is only a cycle on a washing machine.. 

u still make me confuse in ur definition the word normal?
ok weird is abnormal ist what u mean

Not really!
In the way I see things, a weirdo is more preferable to a so called normal, because a weird person
is usually open minded ,so therefore, more interesting!

where do u place me,open minded person....or........ u are sounding like  good girl

Posted: at 5-10-2010 08:39 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

Opposite of weird?
Hmmm!
To me, opposite to weird it's normal,but....normal doesn't mean necessary good!
You know,normal is only a cycle on a washing machine.. 

u still make me confuse in ur definition the word normal?
ok weird is abnormal ist what u mean

Not really!
In the way I see things, a weirdo is more preferable to a so called normal, because a weird person
is usually open minded ,so therefore, more interesting!

where do u place me,open minded person....or........ u are sounding like  good girl

Thx!
Well, I can't tell, because I don't know u so well, but I guess u're a good kid!

Posted: at 5-10-2010 08:46 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

good man,remove kid,if u want place me at good side of the world

Posted: at 5-10-2010 09:39 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

Sensible guys at the word ''kid''!
Ok,maaaaan!

Posted: at 5-10-2010 10:02 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

is that a romantic word

Posted: at 5-10-2010 12:11 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Which one? 

Posted: at 5-10-2010 12:12 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

the word u used

Posted: at 6-10-2010 06:11 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

kid?

Posted: at 6-10-2010 03:15 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

In my own opinion,NOPE.

Tell me why. so that I will that guy not to waist his time.

Posted: at 6-10-2010 04:12 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

In my own opinion,NOPE.

Tell me why. so that I will that guy not to waist his time.

Don't be too sure about that!
A guy may make her change her mind someday!

Posted: at 6-10-2010 06:16 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

marriage de say is not an easy task,but one has no choice becos is a task man has to accomplish, as for me i would say marriage is necessary no matter the ups and down involved in it.

Posted: at 7-10-2010 09:22 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

ok,dear!
Happy marriage to u!

Posted: at 7-10-2010 09:24 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

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