Peter_Ade at 18-02-2011 02:28 PM (13 years ago) (m) ummmmm Posted: at 18-02-2011 02:28 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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try kwa abi make u bring ur own opinion Posted: at 18-02-2011 02:29 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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onyiis at 18-02-2011 02:32 PM (13 years ago) (f) heheheheheeeeeeeeee !! he no get opinion
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". Posted: at 18-02-2011 02:32 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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omorewa at 18-02-2011 02:36 PM (13 years ago) (f) hmmm oga mzi da oracle, well said but to me, we are all humans and we are bound to make mistakes. lady A and Mr A made a mistake in the sense that they both know tat Mr a has proposed to ladyB... WHY CONTINUE WITH THE RELATIONSHIP??? maybe lady A cant give birth again that is why she is scared of jumping into another relationship and she believes that mr A will understand her situation since Mr A is aware of her abortions.... i don't think they should be concerned about the curse of lady A but they should be concerned about the curse of the unborn children because i think tat is their major problems...
t he children too have eleda(creator) ENI TO KO BA JE GBI KO LE KU GBI....
from my experience they are both at fault and tey have both sinned to God and they need serious prayers including fasting self.... My advise to Lady B is that she should seek deliverance asap ( this one no bi say leave my husband alone )
olododo(righteous) too dey chop out of elese(sinner) punishments God help us all Omosexy, thanks a lot......but you got it a little missed up.......lady A is the one seeking advise now.........and she wasnt aware of the proposal until they started arguing about keeping the pregnancy or not....... but still sis why would a lady stay with a man or why would s a lady reconcile with a man that has told you to abort 4 times... she is not a kid now and abortion is not a joke... to me they are still both at fault... TE ADVICE I WILL GIVE LADY A IS THAT WHETHER SHE KNOW ABOUT THE PROPOSAL TO LADY B OR NOT, SHE HAVE SINNED ALREADY( we are all sinners but sin pass sin) IF SHE IS A MUSLIM OR XTIAN, SHE SHOULD GO TO ER PLACE OF WORSHIP PLACE TALK TO HER PROPHET' SO THAT THEY CAN PRAY FOR HER AND MR A TOO( it is not compulsory for mr A to know) Lady A HAVE HER OWN CURSE TOO AND I BELIEVE SHE SHOULD FIGHT FOR HER LIFE FIRST BUT DURING OR LATER IT DEPENDS ON HER SHE CAN PUT MR A IN HER PRAYERS...
don't over step your boundaries.. thank you! Posted: at 18-02-2011 02:36 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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it's difficult to tell, but it's only lady A who knew d kind of vow she took nd where she took it. so if after 10yrs she is still single while the couple are equally not wit a child, then she should know dat woteva vow she undertook might be d cause.
She knew wot she did nd where she did it, she should really tell dem, as she owes it to lady B nd to herself. She probably might hv put herself nd lady B in a life time curse. cos she did everything wrong, 4rm carrying an unplanned pregnancy to aborting it then to taking a wicked vow knowingly or unknowingly dat it will affect a fellow woman who did her no wrong.
this is confession time even though coming late, but better late dan never.
My dear, I actually asked her if she went anywhere to make the vow, she said NOOOOOOOO, she only knelt down with tears in her eyes in her room and said what she said........as for aborting it, you dont have to blame her that much, she wanted to keep the baby.......what about the various abortions Mr. A boasted of having carried out?........dont you think the cries of those babies might have reached up to God? is it a coincident dat within same 10yr period she is still single as d couple witout a child.
at times we say some things dat might come back to hunt us. she was pregnant, in a deep sorrowful emotional anger wit tears running down her cheeks, she knelt down nd cursed d man. at times we dnt know or understand d power our words(negative or positive) carry wen made in an unusual circumstances like dat.
God is not a human being like us who carry out wicked sentences like dat on us. whether we believe it or not, they r evil forces around waiting for such mistakes 4rm us to unleash their negative power. if medically d doctors hv not seen anything wrong wit d couple nt to hv children, then something is wrong somewhere.
i ask again...after same period she is still single....same period d couple nt hving no child. and one important thing dat should not be over-looked is, her conscience sucking blood out of her. if not for anything...let her set herself free. she will never rest until she do wot her conscience is prodding her to do.
Thanks Mazi, I will let her know...........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! Posted: at 18-02-2011 02:41 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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sexweezy at 18-02-2011 02:47 PM (13 years ago) (m) Reply |
ive been diagnosed of "NOT-ABLE-TO-READ-LONG-POST" SYMPTOM .. could anybody summarise it for me pls. . Posted: at 18-02-2011 02:47 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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hmmm oga mzi da oracle, well said but to me, we are all humans and we are bound to make mistakes. lady A and Mr A made a mistake in the sense that they both know tat Mr a has proposed to ladyB... WHY CONTINUE WITH THE RELATIONSHIP??? maybe lady A cant give birth again that is why she is scared of jumping into another relationship and she believes that mr A will understand her situation since Mr A is aware of her abortions.... i don't think they should be concerned about the curse of lady A but they should be concerned about the curse of the unborn children because i think tat is their major problems...
t he children too have eleda(creator) ENI TO KO BA JE GBI KO LE KU GBI....
from my experience they are both at fault and tey have both sinned to God and they need serious prayers including fasting self.... My advise to Lady B is that she should seek deliverance asap ( this one no bi say leave my husband alone )
olododo(righteous) too dey chop out of elese(sinner) punishments God help us all Omosexy, thanks a lot......but you got it a little missed up.......lady A is the one seeking advise now.........and she wasnt aware of the proposal until they started arguing about keeping the pregnancy or not....... but still sis why would a lady stay with a man or why would s a lady reconcile with a man that has told you to abort 4 times... she is not a kid now and abortion is not a joke... to me they are still both at fault... TE ADVICE I WILL GIVE LADY A IS THAT WHETHER SHE KNOW ABOUT THE PROPOSAL TO LADY B OR NOT, SHE HAVE SINNED ALREADY( we are all sinners but sin pass sin) IF SHE IS A MUSLIM OR XTIAN, SHE SHOULD GO TO ER PLACE OF WORSHIP PLACE TALK TO HER PROPHET' SO THAT THEY CAN PRAY FOR HER AND MR A TOO( it is not compulsory for mr A to know) Lady A HAVE HER OWN CURSE TOO AND I BELIEVE SHE SHOULD FIGHT FOR HER LIFE FIRST BUT DURING OR LATER IT DEPENDS ON HER SHE CAN PUT MR A IN HER PRAYERS... My dear, that one is question for Lady B to answer, it has nothing to do with Lady A........Lady A didnt know anything about this until they started arguing about whether to abort or not...........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! Posted: at 18-02-2011 02:48 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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omorewa at 18-02-2011 02:53 PM (13 years ago) (f) God have mercy... true true there is power in word but is like she see can diagnose Mr A problems without diagnosing her own problems for Good ten years DP... i wish all all the best
don't over step your boundaries.. thank you! Posted: at 18-02-2011 02:53 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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whats ur problem?.........you have a problem with the poster or the different issues?........if you no get anything reasonable to say just delete from here.................abeg no kiss me, its not allowed...........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! Posted: at 18-02-2011 02:54 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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sexweezy at 18-02-2011 02:55 PM (13 years ago) (m) Reply |
omorewa at 18-02-2011 02:57 PM (13 years ago) (f) Reply |
God have mercy... true true there is power in word but is like she see can diagnose Mr A problems without diagnosing her own problems for Good ten years DP... i wish all all the best Well, from what she told me, she seems to think their problem are tied to that singluar action of hers.........but she is asking, must she tell Mr. A before she can have herself freed?.........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! Posted: at 18-02-2011 02:59 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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onyiis at 18-02-2011 03:02 PM (13 years ago) (f) God have mercy... true true there is power in word but is like she see can diagnose Mr A problems without diagnosing her own problems for Good ten years DP... i wish all all the best Well, from what she told me, she seems to think their problem are tied to that singluar action of hers.........but she is asking, must she tell Mr. A before she can have herself freed?......... she must not tell mr A but just a cincere confession to God can do magic
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". Posted: at 18-02-2011 03:02 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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sexweezy at 18-02-2011 03:05 PM (13 years ago) (m) DP... i wish all all the best Posted: at 18-02-2011 03:05 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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AlphaOscar at 18-02-2011 03:06 PM (13 years ago) (m) of course she is responsible. but wat does she stand to gain maybe same course has keep her single so the best thin is to tell Mr. A. and forgive him undo the vow she made so that everyone will be free including her. (ONYE GI MADU NA LA GI ONWE YA, meaning if u are holding smone down on the ground u also holding urself)
But would you blame her for saying what she said then?.......apparently, she didnt know what she said would have any effect...could have been something said in anger, as a result of pressure.......according to her, she has been trying to undo what she did by speaking positively....but she fears Mr. A would be so furious with her............or dont you think he would be mad at her? That's why you have to be very careful of what you say when you are angry. I believe she should tell the man and forgive him deep from her heart 'cause she is in bondage of what she said 11 years ago as well as she is still single and even if she gets married today she might experience the same thing 'cause there is a clause there "no one will bear child for the guy except her". Posted: at 18-02-2011 03:06 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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AlphaOscar at 18-02-2011 03:12 PM (13 years ago) (m) And this is a lesson for all ya ladies/women in the house, most of you are the source of your husband's problem as at one time or the other you have said something negative against him in anger and evil forces around at that point in time had stamped it " so be it" without you not even knowing the magnitude of what you've done. So married women in the house, here is a piece of advice; always make sure you prophesy good things into your husbands life every day before he goes out for work. Hold his hands and pray for him. Trust me it works more than charm. God bless! Posted: at 18-02-2011 03:12 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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omorewa at 18-02-2011 03:15 PM (13 years ago) (f) well yes if she wants she can tell Mr A but it is not compulsory to me, Mr A can only get angry if he is an idiot....... but that shouldn't bother her because she has done her part...do your best and leave the rest to God
wish her all the best ( we are all humans and we are not perfect)
don't over step your boundaries.. thank you! Posted: at 18-02-2011 03:15 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Her story dey long, but please try read:
Lady A dated Mr. A who was her first love for many years. But during those years, Mr. A was unfaithful, he cheated but he didnt hide it from Lady A. Each time they were together, Mr. A would be talking about one of his other gals, Lady B. Lady A was not comfortable with this but didnt know how to tell him. She was young, in-experienced and naive about relationships. One fateful day, she called off the relationship but a month later, she couldnt cope, she called him back to reconcile and he agreed but during that one month, Mr. A has proposed to Lady B but he didnt tell Lady A about this. Few months later, Lady A took in and Mr. A asked her to abort it, she refused. But he threatened to hate her with the same passion he loved her if she refused (he then told her of his proposal to Lady B).
Almost every day Mr. A would come to try to persuade Lady A to abort the baby, claiming that Lady B has already had 5 abortions for him (Mr. A), that there is nothing there. Lady A refused. But as the pressure mounted, she (Lady A) made a vow (call it a curse) that if Mr. A succeeds in making her abort this baby, he would never be able to have kids from any other woman, except from her (Lady A). Mr. A was not aware of this vow. Finally they had the baby aborted and that marked the end of the relationship. One year later, Mr. A married Lady B who was pregnant before the wedding. But Lady B had a still birth and since then she hasnt been able to conceive again. It is now 10yrs since they got married, yet nothing. Lady A is still single. But according to her (Lady A) she felt her vow was responsible for all these, so she called Mr. A to get the wife so that they can join hands to fast and pray for forgiveness of their collective sins. They did but few days later, Lady B called Lady A on phone and blasted her, telling her to leave her hubby alone, etc. Lady A said she was really angry.
Now Lady A is asking, should she tell Mr. A of her vow 11 yrs ago?
Do you think she is responsible for all that is happening to the trio?
Well, there's no such thing as coincidence, and in this case,even the less! Words can carry a big load of energy! Ppl should really think well before throwing with negative words up and down! I've seen these effects with my eyes,so I know what I'm saying! As for this case,I don't think that it's necessary for her to make that man aware of her curse,but,she can still do some things about it!First, she must forgive him for all the pain he caused her(that's very important! ),and after that she must ask God's forgiveness, but that should be done from the bottom of her heart, otherwise it will be useless! And, if she can do that, God will do the rest!
Live and let live! Posted: at 18-02-2011 03:26 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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of course she is responsible. but wat does she stand to gain maybe same course has keep her single so the best thin is to tell Mr. A. and forgive him undo the vow she made so that everyone will be free including her. (ONYE GI MADU NA LA GI ONWE YA, meaning if u are holding smone down on the ground u also holding urself)
But would you blame her for saying what she said then?.......apparently, she didnt know what she said would have any effect...could have been something said in anger, as a result of pressure.......according to her, she has been trying to undo what she did by speaking positively....but she fears Mr. A would be so furious with her............or dont you think he would be mad at her? That's why you have to be very careful of what you say when you are angry. I believe she should tell the man and forgive him deep from her heart 'cause she is in bondage of what she said 11 years ago as well as she is still single and even if she gets married today she might experience the same thing 'cause there is a clause there "no one will bear child for the guy except her". Thanks dearie...........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! Posted: at 18-02-2011 03:27 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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