i ask the question,cuz you're trying to tell me that we do have two or more definition of stubbornness.@oyii


@sophie...u can't define stubbornness in different ways.that's the simple truth.

lolz ..........I've told u its someone that is not easily pushed around .
if u think you are not stubborn , will you put your hand in fire if i ask u to ?

lol..that one is a different issue entirely,it get nothing to do with stubbornness..you are doing what know is right.don't even expect a dummy to put his hand in fire.when they say someone is stubborn,we are talking of someone that's "heart hearted",not ready to compromise when he/she knows very well that he/she is wrong. a person difficult to discuss issue with..such person cannot be submissive period!!!!

Well we are not seeing the issue of stubborness in the same light . A stubborn person thinks he/she is right but when proved otherwise usually gives in ................the problem with them is just that its not always easy to make them see things the way yiu do

Posted: at 18-03-2011 03:33 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

[not ready to compromise when he/she knows very well that he/she is wrong. a person difficult to discuss issue with..such person cannot be submissive period!!!!]

i ask the question,cuz you're trying to tell me that we do have two or more definition of stubbornness.@oyii


@sophie...u can't define stubbornness in different ways.that's the simple truth.

lolz ..........I've told u its someone that is not easily pushed around .
if u think you are not stubborn , will you put your hand in fire if i ask u to ?

lol..that one is a different issue entirely,it get nothing to do with stubbornness..you are doing what know is right.don't even expect a dummy to put his hand in fire.when they say someone is stubborn,we are talking of someone that's "heart hearted",not ready to compromise when he/she knows very well that he/she is wrong. a person difficult to discuss issue with..such person cannot be submissive period!!!!

Thank u bro !! No mind them, thinking if they argue little thing with friends out there they think in their head that they are stubborn... Typical example of stubborn is Mr Moammar Gadhafi !! Even when he knows he's wrong with his decisions, he stood his ground and keep doing what he wants, You can't discuss with him because he's not ready to listen to anyone.

He is not just stubborn he is a "dictator"

Posted: at 18-03-2011 03:35 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

i mean being sturborn does not make you not to know your faults or where u went wrong
e.g if i am wrong i know and say sorry
but if my spouse is wrong he doesnt xpect me to say the sorry na when he's at fault..
or u xpect me to say sorry just to prove say i submit wella?

ask them ...............they want u to be a zombie just to prove to them u are not stubborn

Posted: at 18-03-2011 03:39 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

once you are stubborn, it will be very hard to be submissive to anything, except is done ur way.

Being stuborn does not mean beeing a dictator ................its only dictators that dont believe others could be right .

I think stuborness is just accepting only those things you have conviction in 

I dey feel you

  the simple truth

Posted: at 18-03-2011 03:40 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

i mean being sturborn does not make you not to know your faults or where u went wrong
e.g if i am wrong i know and say sorry
but if my spouse is wrong he doesnt xpect me to say the sorry na when he's at fault..
or u xpect me to say sorry just to prove say i submit wella?

if this!!is your thought about being stubborn,then sincerely you are not stubborn..you can't say to somebody that offended you sorry   what for you aren't a slave,he's the one to say sorry to you but if he didn't want to,then you have to brush it off and move on with your marriage..that's what we call being submissive dear.

lol..brushing it up and forging ahead in marriage means u are submissive?

heheheheeeeeeeeeeeeeee !! they expect a robbort then 

Posted: at 18-03-2011 03:42 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Sophie dey sleep, yet she dey write/talk..............

i dey use left hand.. so that them go say i submit wella

lolz

Posted: at 18-03-2011 03:43 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Stubbornness is mostly seen in the negative light, but there is a positive side to it..........I still repeat, we all (except zombies) have an iota of stubbornness in each one of us..........

gbam !!!!

Posted: at 18-03-2011 03:44 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

i mean being sturborn does not make you not to know your faults or where u went wrong
e.g if i am wrong i know and say sorry
but if my spouse is wrong he doesnt xpect me to say the sorry na when he's at fault..
or u xpect me to say sorry just to prove say i submit wella?

if this!!is your thought about being stubborn,then sincerely you are not stubborn..you can't say to somebody that offended you sorry   what for you aren't a slave,he's the one to say sorry to you but if he didn't want to,then you have to brush it off and move on with your marriage..that's what we call being submissive dear.

lol..brushing it up and forging ahead in marriage means u are submissive?

heheheheeeeeeeeeeeeeee !! they expect a robbort then 

who knows.........

Posted: at 18-03-2011 03:47 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

 

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