I am not a relationship expert; well except you want me to give you tips on client-customer relationships, then I may be able to spin off one or two pointers, I would like to reel out some of the things that swim around the mind of women when they are about to pick a guy to settle into a relationship with. You must have thought it was all about your fancy clothes, car and wallet but Well all that plays an important role but believe it, women are deeper than that nowadays. The points below illustrate this:
1. Tall, dark and handsome is still a desire but if you are short, fair and look like Gollum (from ‘Lord of the Rings’), fear not. Just possess a very large bank account and wallet.
2. Care. Women want men that care for them, the kind that will massage their feet after a long day of trekking with heels, run a bath for them and maybe even make dinner.
3. Men who mind their business. Women like men who don’t try to form familiar or invade their space. You don’t have to know all her friends and make small talk about them.
4. Are you a man that uses make up? Yes? Then we have a problem. When you begin to line your eyebrows, dye your hair and maybe even apply a little mascara, she begins to wonder who the woman will be in the relationship.
5. Don’t be a critic. If you are privileged to eat her food, do not criticise it no matter how bad it is. Even if the Jollof Rice tastes like tomato struggle, just smile and show appreciation. This is very important, especially if you don’t know how to cook either.
6. You know that things many guys do (especially the ones from Eastern Nigeria), that Michael Jackson thing where you grab your crotch? Yes. Don’t do that.
7. Sometimes, it’s good to lie. When she asks you what you studied in school, pick one of the masculine courses like Engineering, Maths, Banking etc.
8. A sense of humor. Women want a man that can laugh, not some serious zombie looking dude. But be careful, you have to have genuine humor not the type that laughs at the kind of dry jokes cracked on IK’s comedy show. She also wants this because she will vex you a LOT but your sense of humor ought to help.
9. Mystery. You don’t have to tell her your entire life history; that just seems needy. Let there be some mystery about you. For instance, don’t tell her that the scar on your left arm came as a result of falling from the swing when you were a kid. Tell her it’s from a dark past you don’t want to remember. You see? She’ll be in awe.
10. Responsibility. That’s part of a relationship. Women want a responsible man, not necessarily the one that comes home at 7pm, doesn’t smoke or drink; BUT the one that is responsible for his bills...and hers too.
11. Be dumb sometimes. Women don’t want a man that knows it all. It is okay to have opinions but do not show how intelligent you are all the time. It can be frustrating.
12. Don’t be too friendly. Women see their men as trophies and don’t like when you become too friendly with other women. They like the feeling of having something others want...but can’t have.
13. The most important. Never talk about her weight unless you’re saying she’s lost some.
These listed pointers are results of a well conducted research,i try shaa.
Posted: at 22-04-2012 09:53 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
FinlandGuy at 22-04-2012 09:57 PM (12 years ago) (m)
I get all these qualities,na only Number 3 na im i no get becos i dey mind both my business and my babe business,becos me and my girl na one,if i lie ask my babe O' reality.
Posted: at 22-04-2012 09:57 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
@ poster, 7 is a write-off. If a man have all dez qualities he should'nt be tinking of a woman coz he' more like an angel than a man. Your Num 1 says tall, dark nd handsome, wht about tall, fair nd handsome, na only dark man women like. It' a pity you still think like a 16 yrs old.
Posted: at 23-04-2012 12:05 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
1, 5, 6, and 7 has nothing to do what we want. You just want us to spill out the code/secret to what we want. Poster, our desire is deeper and no man can handle it. We are mystery, but all you've got to do is to be yourself so that God will take you to your kind of dream girl. Some1 who will love you and respect you. So stop all these Men Featuring List of a thing. JUST BE YO SELF BOO.
Posted: at 23-04-2012 03:27 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
Treasure2 at 23-04-2012 10:45 AM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Beauti4 on 23-04-2012 03:27 AM
1, 5, 6, and 7 has nothing to do what we want. You just want us to spill out the code/secret to what we want. Poster, our desire is deeper and no man can handle it. We are mystery, but all you've got to do is to be yourself so that God will take you to your kind of dream girl. Some1 who will love you and respect you. So stop all these Men Featuring List of a thing. JUST BE YO SELF BOO.
Seconded.
Posted: at 23-04-2012 10:45 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
katung44 at 24-04-2012 12:27 PM (12 years ago) (m)
I really wish I could most of those. What you have just described above there is fundermentally true of Robots. Why don't programme all those qualities into a remote control and hand it to your girlfriend? Those things are largely true of a Man who is just being a Chameleon just to get the girl of his dreams. He will be doing all the emotional work while the girl sits back and enjoys the gains. I've got news for you my man. You will wake up one morning and find out you have been making a hell of an effort to please your girl and her friends (if she's impressed enough to show you off to them). Those qualities are not second nature to most men. However, I would recommend tips 8-10 as being important, the others I would choose to ignore. But, I do not think you would be pleasing yourself as you have not really asked yourself if you like how far you are going to make this girl happy at your own expense. Most guys who do that end up cheating on the girl when they start getting tired of all the effort they put into the relationship without the girl making any of her own in return.
Posted: at 24-04-2012 12:27 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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