By getting married......

Date: 24-04-2012 4:49 am (11 years ago) | Author: ......
- at 24-04-2012 04:49 AM (11 years ago)
(f)
By getting married, you are not just getting a wife; you are getting your whole world. From now until the rest of your days, your wife will be your partner, your companion, and your best friend.
She will share your moments, your days, and your years. She will share your joys and sorrows, your successes and failures, your dreams and your fears. When you are ill, she will take the best care of you; when you need help, she will do all she can for you.
When you have a secret, she will keep it; when you need advice, she will give it. She will always be with you: when you wake up in the morning the first thing your eyes will see will be hers; during the day, she will be with you, if for a moment she is not with you by her physical body, she will be thinking of you, praying for you with all her heart, mind, and soul; when you go to sleep at night, the last thing your eyes will see will be her; and when you are asleep you will still see her in your dreams.

 In short, she will be your whole world and you will be her whole world.
The best description that I personally have ever read describing the closeness of the spouses to each other is the Quran verse, which says: “They are your garments and you are their garments”.

Indeed, spouses are like garments to each other because they provide one another with the protection, the comfort, the cover, the support, and the adornment that garments provide to people. Just imagine a journey in the winter of Alaska without garments! Our spouses provide us with the same level of comfort, protection, cover, and support in the journey of our lives on this earth as garments would do in the Alaskan journey.

The relationship between husband and wife is the most amazing of all human relations: the amount of love and affection, intimacy and closeness, mercy and compassion, peace and tranquility that fills the hearts of the wife and husband is simply inexplicable.

The only rational explanation for these most amazing of all human feelings is that: it is an act of God.
Only God in His Infinite Power, Boundless Mercy, and Great Wisdom can create and ingrain the amazing and blessed feelings in the hearts of man and woman.

God  knows that the human heart is not a static entity, it is sometimes weak and at times dynamic. Feelings can and do change with time. Love may wither and fade away. The marital bond might weaken if not properly cared for. Happiness in marriage cannot be taken for granted; continuous happiness requires constant giving from both sides.

For the tree of marital love to remain alive and keep growing, the soil has to be sustained, maintained, watered, and nurtured.

Try to always find some time for both of you to pray together. Strengthening the bond between you and God  is the best guarantee that your own marital bond would always remain strong. Having peace with God will always result in having more peace at home.
Finally, it is common that man and  woman vow to love and honor their spouses until death do them part. I do believe that this vow is good or even great, but not enough!

Love should never end and we do believe there is life after death where those who did righteousness in this world will be joined by their spouses and offspring’s. So with that being said. I say until life begins again, and that I love to life versus death.....



Posted: at 24-04-2012 04:49 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
- Franclin at 24-04-2012 05:37 AM (11 years ago)
(m)
Wonderful message indeed. But, ar u a figure to such?
Posted: at 24-04-2012 05:37 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
Reply
- Franclin at 24-04-2012 05:37 AM (11 years ago)
(m)
Wonderful message indeed. But poster, ar u a figure to such?
Posted: at 24-04-2012 05:37 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
Reply
- brownhappiness at 24-04-2012 06:11 AM (11 years ago)
(f)
It sounds too good to be true,how many married men see their wife as confident.
Posted: at 24-04-2012 06:11 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
Reply
- boulder78 at 24-04-2012 06:22 AM (11 years ago)
(m)
marvelous, you should be love/marriage counsellor.
Posted: at 24-04-2012 06:22 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
Reply
- Empress_Ameera at 24-04-2012 10:06 PM (11 years ago)
(f)
Quote from: Franclin on 24-04-2012 05:37 AM
Wonderful message indeed. But poster, ar u a figure to such?
I do not understand what you are asking me ...

Posted: at 24-04-2012 10:06 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
Reply
- Beauti4 at 24-04-2012 10:11 PM (11 years ago)
(f)
Guess this is for the guys
Posted: at 24-04-2012 10:11 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
Reply
- Empress_Ameera at 24-04-2012 10:26 PM (11 years ago)
(f)
Quote from: boulder78 on 24-04-2012 06:22 AM
marvelous, you should be love/marriage counsellor.

I did that once.....

Posted: at 24-04-2012 10:26 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
Reply
- sophiebaby at 25-04-2012 11:17 AM (11 years ago)
(f)
Quote from: Empress_Ameera on 24-04-2012 10:06 PM
I do not understand what you are asking me ...

using Q for Q...why?  Grin Grin

Posted: at 25-04-2012 11:17 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Reply

fire TRENDING GISTS fire