"The atmosphere within a home can be like the weather. One minute bright and shiny, the next, cold and stormy""Cold words can bring about a small spark which becomes a blazing fire""Separation weakens any relationship. Those in the same house may be miles apart"
Breaking away from a good friend is one of the most difficult experiences to endure. Lack of forgiveness is usually at the heart of the matter. Without forgiveness, the richness that friendship was intended to bring is lost. Barriers are setup that keep us from carrying out responsibilities or meeting needs. The problems spill over to other family members and friends like a sickness.
"Lack of forgiveness changes people physically, mentally, and emotionally. Never for the better.""Negativity either drives people away or drives them crazy.""Progress resumes when relationships are righted."The pain that is being experienced or inflicted can be reversed. We often have blinders on that keep us from seeing wrong behavior or attitudes.
Sometimes it takes time to see problems and conflict. In most cases, however, both knows know when interactions are less than loving. Knowing how to ask for forgiveness starts with humility and a right heart. Take responsibility for your own actions. Do not address the offenses of your spouse.
Quick forgiveness is very important. If the other asks for forgiveness, the other needs to give it instantly or as soon as possible. The best solution is to forgive even before being asked. Fast action will prevent most issues from taking root. The friendhip reenergized by forgiveness is well worth this effort.
Sensitivity and humility together are very important. Even if we are not wrong, forgiveness needs to be offered for behavior that was less than honoring. Many times the hurt feelings come from how something is said and not the issue itself. Unresolved hurt can create a distance in the relationship. Many other areas can be impacted over time.
Deep seeded conflict will require unpeeling the layers of issues. The feelings between friends may be very negative. Working together on any issue may be difficult. There needs to be a safe place chiseled out for resolving problems.
Keep a positive attitude. Look for things that will build hope and trust into the other partner. The forgiveness and healing may take significant time. The wait may be long. Supporting each other needs to be a decision, not a feeling. This will provide the foundation for which forgiveness can be built.
Sometimes issues require an objective third party to help resolve. The emotions and the hurt between friends may make it difficult to deal with. Friendships are always worth saving. . You could have started out with a loyal or true friend for a friendship. Don't let a break up occur. Don't let the issues reach the broken heart stage. What i want is a strong and lasting friendship.
Please KEBELLA & FLYMAMACITA you Guys should be friends again please, whatever has happened or has caused a quarell btw u too, (that i dont knw and dont wish to knw either) dont spill it to anyone, keep it to ursef and forgiv n forget
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