My Girlfriend Cheats On Me. What Should I Do? I Love Her So Much!

Date: 26-06-2012 12:06 pm (11 years ago) | Author: samuel iwuoha
- at 26-06-2012 12:06 PM (11 years ago)
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This is obviously a serious problem in your relationship; which would normally spell the end for most. However, as you have stated, you still love her very much and therefore you don't particularly want to just walk away.

If you want to stay and fight for the relationship you will have to be sure in your mind about two things. Will you be able to fully forgive your girlfriend for cheating? Also, and maybe arguably even more important, would you be able to trust her in the future?

A good and successful relationship is built on trust and many failed relationships are down to a lack trust. Without trust you might find that you constantly question your partner and struggle to allow them to live their own life due to the fear they are up to no good. This normally results in the couple suffocating each other as they want to spend all their time together to make sure they are not able to stray. This is obviously an unhealthy situation and so if you think you would have to be with her all the time to keep your mind at rest then you may have to think again.

You also need to be sure your girlfriend wants to fight for your relationship and actually regrets cheating as it could unfortunately be the case that she wants out or would rather be with the person she has cheated on you with. As harsh as that may sound it is better to know for sure now then further down the line.

If you confront her and she admits everything and swears she won't do it again then you may have a chance. However it will never be quite the same as before and you must truly forgive her and trust her if it's to work.


Posted: at 26-06-2012 12:06 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
- jossy4reall at 26-06-2012 12:56 PM (11 years ago)
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are u asking me??........u fcukin cheat on her too

Posted: at 26-06-2012 12:56 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- politica at 26-06-2012 01:14 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: jossy4reall on 26-06-2012 12:56 PM
are u asking me??........u fcukin cheat on her too
    hmmmm....but i don't want us to leave in this way, i really love her.
Posted: at 26-06-2012 01:14 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- sophiebaby at 26-06-2012 02:21 PM (11 years ago)
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P2

Posted: at 26-06-2012 02:21 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- politica at 26-06-2012 06:14 PM (11 years ago)
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this is very serious.
Posted: at 26-06-2012 06:14 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- giftmurphy at 26-06-2012 06:16 PM (11 years ago)
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did she confessed or u caught her cheating? Huh?
Posted: at 26-06-2012 06:16 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- politica at 26-06-2012 06:19 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: giftmurphy on 26-06-2012 06:16 PM
did she confessed or u caught her cheating? Huh?
   i caught her.
Posted: at 26-06-2012 06:19 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- Treasure2 at 26-06-2012 06:24 PM (11 years ago)
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For a good Relationship to last, trust must be there.  
Posted: at 26-06-2012 06:24 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- giftmurphy at 26-06-2012 06:27 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: politica on 26-06-2012 06:19 PM
   i caught her.
u love her,not that she is proud of it,m sure she begged for forgiveness...,love conquers all
Posted: at 26-06-2012 06:27 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- politica at 26-06-2012 09:50 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: giftmurphy on 26-06-2012 06:27 PM
u love her,not that she is proud of it,m sure she begged for forgiveness...,love conquers all
    not so easy as u think......intense of daily life.
Posted: at 26-06-2012 09:50 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- giftmurphy at 27-06-2012 10:21 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: politica on 26-06-2012 09:50 PM
    not so easy as u think......intense of daily life.

since its not easy as it is,do what ur mind tells u to do.... Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
Posted: at 27-06-2012 10:21 AM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- mizcollins1 at 27-06-2012 10:36 AM (11 years ago)
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if you can find it in your heart to forgive her and trust her again,then by all means go for it!! if you can't then no point as you only gona end up suspecting everything she does...and that would only make you miserable!!
Posted: at 27-06-2012 10:36 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- politica at 28-06-2012 12:46 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: mizcollins1 on 27-06-2012 10:36 AM
if you can find it in your heart to forgive her and trust her again,then by all means go for it!! if you can't then no point as you only gona end up suspecting everything she does...and that would only make you miserable!!
         Wink Wink Wink Wink
Posted: at 28-06-2012 12:46 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- lepabecky at 23-08-2012 01:27 PM (11 years ago)
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if u love her and u knw dat she will nt repent same tin again den go ahead
Posted: at 23-08-2012 01:27 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- amakasulei at 15-06-2013 11:55 AM (10 years ago)
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If loving a cheat is your cup of tea, then drink on!
Posted: at 15-06-2013 11:55 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- ngfineface at 28-08-2015 10:23 AM (8 years ago)
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Cheat back and continue........hahahaha
Posted: at 28-08-2015 10:23 AM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- dareper at 1-09-2015 11:11 PM (8 years ago)
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Take heart
Posted: at 1-09-2015 11:11 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- hackynoni111 at 2-09-2015 12:10 PM (8 years ago)
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this is very serious
Posted: at 2-09-2015 12:10 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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