You don’t need a hot body to get his attention!

Date: 18-07-2012 10:51 am (11 years ago) | Author: Omogbolahan Babs
- at 18-07-2012 10:51 AM (11 years ago)
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Have you put in so many efforts to get a man’s attention and he’s unyielding? Tried new dresses? Flaunted your hot body? Well, it takes more than all those to get him to notice you. Just try one of these head-turning techniques:

1. Let his sports be your sports:

If he’s a sports fan, try a bit of research into his favourite team. The next time he watches them play, keep an eye out for reports and news stories about the game. He will notice. That way, you’ll not only have conversation starters when you meet up, but he’ll begin to think you’re the perfect match too.

2. Work on his conscience

Show you care by encouraging him to do what’s good for him. Serve as his conscience. How? You will demonstrate you have his interests at heart. So, make sure he phones his mother when he said he would, keep him supplied with fruit and vegetables and pester him to apply for that dream job or even promotion in his office. Get this right and he will realise how much you’re worth.

3.Know that opposites don’t attract

Men want someone to share their views. In fact, the opposite is often true. Suitors with the cheek to contradict them are much more likely to pique their interest. So, find out what his opinions are and brush up on the counter arguments. Start a debate and sparks will fly!

4. Apply hands-on approach

There’s nothing like a bit of physical intimacy to make a man think well of you. So – with this in mind – take some evening classes in massage techniques. Then when he comes back from the office or sports with a limp, offer to lay on your healing hands.

5. Please be a humour bag

Try winning this guy over by learning some jokes. Or, better still, practise doing impressions. If you can mimic soap stars, TV presenters or singers, he’ll want to show you off to his mates in no time. One word of advice though: impersonations of him or his family are best avoided!

6. Strategise and get knowledge

For most men, intelligence is always attractive. Find out where he hangs out and anytime he takes you along, be ready to contribute intelligibly to boy’s talk. During discussions, simply blow him away with your knowledge. Come out on top and he’ll have no doubt you make a great team.

7. Go the extra mile

Running a marathon for charity could be a perfect way to steal someone’s heart. Such a feat of selflessness, dedication and endurance can’t fail to impress. Plus taking on the long-distance challenge comes with added bonuses. You get the body you’ve always dreamed of and you can show it off in slim-fitting clothes!

8. Please give him a cold shoulder sometimes!

Is the man you want to impress a bit of a stud? Is he used to getting a lot of attention? If so, rather than competing with all the others, try doing the opposite. Act like you couldn’t care less what he thinks. Give more attention to his friends than to him. Very soon, you’ll be on his radar as the one person immune to his charms. Your seeming indifference will make you a catch and he’ll go out of his way to talk you round.

9. Be a good cook

If the way to a man’s heart is through is stomach, then learn to cook his favourite dishes. Deep down many blokes are just looking for a sweetheart who can keep them well fed and watered. Serve him up some tasty meals and you won’t just tickle his taste buds, you’ll make him think you’re a keeper.

Be the homemaker: Don’t just sit all day and stare at a dirty kitchen, living room or bedroom, do the domestic chores! Offer to help with his laundry too. Keep everywhere clean, tidy and make him feel at home. That way, he starts seeing as a take-home-to-mama.


Posted: at 18-07-2012 10:51 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- Idbabe at 18-07-2012 03:32 PM (11 years ago)
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This is for women, when will men own come or does it men men dont also want to be noticed?
Posted: at 18-07-2012 03:32 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- Idbabe at 18-07-2012 03:33 PM (11 years ago)
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Nice write up sha, thumps up.  I feel u
Posted: at 18-07-2012 03:33 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- PoliticxGuru at 4-09-2015 07:45 AM (8 years ago)
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good feeling for ladies
Posted: at 4-09-2015 07:45 AM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- moralemike07 at 4-09-2015 06:55 PM (8 years ago)
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True talk.
Posted: at 4-09-2015 06:55 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dickieponga at 4-09-2015 07:00 PM (8 years ago)
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Naija dey do marathon for charity...?
Posted: at 4-09-2015 07:00 PM (8 years ago) | Hero
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- piusemmanuel at 4-09-2015 09:35 PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: dickieponga on  4-09-2015 07:00 PM
Naija dey do marathon for charity...?
Nothing like marathon for free?

Posted: at 4-09-2015 09:35 PM (8 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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