Hey pals! Going by the norm/tradition on the part of the planet we're from, where it's believed that the kitchen legitimately belongs to the woman.
If we're to consider the definition of "COOKING" as defined below, Should it (cooking) be counted amongst the prerequisite for marrying a lady?
Defination: Cooking is the process of preparing food by applying heat, selecting, measuring and combining of ingredients in an ordered procedure for producing safe and edible food. The process encompasses a vast range of methods, tools and combinations of ingredients to alter the flavor or digestibility of food. Factors affecting the final outcome include the variability of ingredients, ambient conditions, tools, and the skill of the individual doing the actual cooking.
Posted: at 5-04-2009 08:18 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
It shuldnt, bt y shuld a wman nt know how 2cook? Its mostly in d western world wer they dnt c it as anytin bt nt here in africa. If u as a lady dnt know hw 2cook then b prepard 2share or loose ur huby 2 1 who knows hw 2. Hw cn u b marid n stil eat out or employ a house help or cook 2cook 4ur family? Doe som men dnt mind bt majority do n i hav a situation wer wmen wer sent bak 2 their parents 2go len hw 2cook or sent bak permanently. My dear, e gud make man n wman know hw 2cook.
Posted: at 5-04-2009 08:34 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
methodman at 5-04-2009 09:46 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Recoverd on 5-04-2009 08:34 PM
It shuldnt, bt y shuld a wman nt know how 2cook? Its mostly in d western world wer they dnt c it as anytin bt nt here in africa. If u as a lady dnt know hw 2cook then b prepard 2share or loose ur huby 2 1 who knows hw 2. Hw cn u b marid n stil eat out or employ a house help or cook 2cook 4ur family? Doe som men dnt mind bt majority do n i hav a situation wer wmen wer sent bak 2 their parents 2go len hw 2cook or sent bak permanently. My dear, e gud make man n wman know hw 2cook.
I totally agree with u broz,..but, If u love her and shs has other qualities except "cooking" would u marry her?
Posted: at 5-04-2009 09:46 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
if i can prepare good food as a man, why shouldnt my fiace be able to? it surely would affect our marriage if we do get married cos u can to a man's heart tru his belly. lol she cld learn if she loves me dearly.
Posted: at 6-04-2009 09:59 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
methodman at 6-04-2009 01:57 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Recoverd on 5-04-2009 10:34 PM
Yes i will, bt sh either enrols in a catering sch or i employ a private cook to teach her. she must learn hw 2 cook . Am a wman nt a man.
I undstnd u, but if she doesn't ve any interest at all in the subject.probably,feeling like an AJE BUTTER.But she satisfies u in all other aspects of marriage, what would u do?
Posted: at 6-04-2009 01:57 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
Yes i will, bt sh either enrols in a catering sch or i employ a private cook to teach her. she must learn hw 2 cook . Am a wman nt a man.
I undstnd u, but if she doesn't ve any interest at all in the subject.probably,feeling like an AJE BUTTER.But she satisfies u in all other aspects of marriage, what would u do?
Aje butter ke? HA! If sh wil nt len hw 2cook then it mins sh doesnt lov u as much as u do. 4get hr! Bt if can cope wit eating out, or meals prepard by som1 else 4u, ur kids, ur frends n busnes partners 4d rest of ur life then marry her.
Posted: at 6-04-2009 05:28 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Beautydiva at 6-04-2009 05:42 PM (15 years ago) (f)
It shouldn't really be a prerequisite so long she is willing 2 be taught. A lady should know how 2 cook food not only for her hubby but for herself also. Even if she isn't a good cook, she should be ready to learn.
Posted: at 6-04-2009 05:42 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
methodman at 6-04-2009 07:29 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Beautydiva on 6-04-2009 05:42 PM
It shouldn't really be a prerequisite so long she is willing 2 be taught. A lady should know how 2 cook food not only for her hubby but for herself also. Even if she isn't a good cook, she should be ready to learn.
Right!...,but if she doesn't show any interest at all,wat would u do?
Posted: at 6-04-2009 07:29 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
Beautydiva at 6-04-2009 08:31 PM (15 years ago) (f)
Quote from: methodman on 6-04-2009 07:29 PM
Quote from: Beautydiva on 6-04-2009 05:42 PM
It shouldn't really be a prerequisite so long she is willing 2 be taught. A lady should know how 2 cook food not only for her hubby but for herself also. Even if she isn't a good cook, she should be ready to learn.
Right!...,but if she doesn't show any interest at all,wat would u do?
Give her some warnings n let her realise d implication of wot she is doing. If there is still no positive change, i will send her back 2 her parents' house.
Posted: at 6-04-2009 08:31 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
Danitotropsy at 6-04-2009 11:52 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Cooking can not stop me from marrying the woman i love so much.i tell u when u re in love wil over look all this other aspect even though there re important in any marriage.we al kwn that love is the most important.
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Posted: at 6-04-2009 11:52 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
Cooking can not stop me from marrying the woman i love so much.i tell u when u re in love wil over look all this other aspect even though there re important in any marriage.we al kwn that love is the most important.
My broda, ur only sayin dis nw cus ur either nt marid or marid 2 1who cooks. I bet u, 1day u wil get fed up. Cookin is nt dificult shs just bin lazy n selfish...Bt like i said earlier, if u cn cope wit it den go ahead, bt na u go tire.
Posted: at 7-04-2009 01:28 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
methodman at 7-04-2009 04:09 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Recoverd on 7-04-2009 01:28 PM
Quote from: Danitotropsy on 6-04-2009 11:52 PM
Cooking can not stop me from marrying the woman i love so much.i tell u when u re in love wil over look all this other aspect even though there re important in any marriage.we al kwn that love is the most important.
My broda, ur only sayin dis nw cus ur either nt marid or marid 2 1who cooks. I bet u, 1day u wil get fed up. Cookin is nt dificult shs just bin lazy n selfish...Bt like i said earlier, if u cn cope wit it den go ahead, bt na u go tire.
abi..?
Posted: at 7-04-2009 04:09 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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