I am afraid for my safety as I send this information to you. Please leave my e-mail address and name out of this. My purpose of writing is to get people's opinion on what to do.
I arrived Lagos about three months ago to stay with my uncle and his wife, who's an Ibo woman. By the way my uncle is from Edo State and their marriage is about four years without kids. In the last week of August my bros travelled to the North on official business and something happened in his bedroom.
I came back that day because I could not meet up a job appointment in Igando area due to heavy traffic. I was reluctant to return home since I had just left but I couldn't think of a better place to go so I headed home. On getting to our compound, I didn't find the gate man at his post and I was even angry because of the security risk of him leaving the gate open like that.
But something got me worried when I saw the gate man's sandals right inside our sitting room. I just told myself that something is going on between my uncle's wife and this dirty boy. I was right, when I moved close to the window of my uncle's bedroom I started hearing screams of segxwal pleasure from his wife. I tried to peep into the room but it was difficult because of the protector.............................
So, I summoned courage and walk to the door as if I wanted to tell my uncle's wife that I was back. I opened the door and caught the adulterous woman red-handed under the dirty gate man (boy). Sadly, the gate man was already ejaculating so he couldn't get up immediately, it took him few seconds to jump off and grab his clothes.
I simply walked away and returned to the sitting room, pretending to be watching a programme on the TV. Few minutes later my uncle's wife joined me and started begging that it would not happen again. I didn't say a word but when she kept pressing I said ok I've heard. Later she brought food for me but I refused it and since then she has been putting pressure on me.
The unfortunate thing is now she even wants me to sleep with her as an assurance that I wont tell my uncle, always coming to my room half naked. Because of this I've not eating in the house in the last one week, I'm almost going broke already..
My uncle may be back next week. I will like people with more experience to tell me what to do when he comes back. Should I tell my uncle the kind of wife he married or quietly move out?
Like some of us earlier advice. Move out of dat house, dnt eat her food and dnt tell ur uncle. U can tell a close confidante of urs in d family . Let d husband catch her himself. I believe d woman will still do it again.
Posted: at 8-09-2012 06:34 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Please you have to face this fact your blood is your blood, you got to tell your uncle, because adultery in the normal benin tradition could even lead to death when followed spiritually from Benin tradition. So you have got to save your uncle by telling him the truth, trust me he would in the nearest future be angry if he found out himself and you knew and yet kept it to yourself.
Posted: at 8-09-2012 07:21 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
faithakwaugo at 8-09-2012 10:30 PM (12 years ago) (f)
If it were ur Uncle u caught in bed could u v told d wife? Na only woman una sabi report bt man nobody de reportam! If adultery is a taboo for women why shud it not be a taboo for men! Unjust society where men make law to suit them n call it culture!
Posted: at 8-09-2012 10:30 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
Graniday at 14-10-2012 11:00 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Hay! I ask u this question, since u caught her in that ungodly act and trying to keep it to yourself, 've u had peace? You must tell her to confess to her husband or you reveal it. Hence, you become a partaker of her evil act too by concealing it.
Posted: at 14-10-2012 11:00 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie