About six years ago, my husband died unexpectedly just after we adopted two children. Afterwards, our son became an important figure in their lives as he was the man of the house.
Recently, he was killed suddenly and since then, his best friend, who is 20, has been very caring and helpful.
I’ve started to invite him to family gatherings and he’s even shown up for the kids’ sports days and our relationship has blossomed.
Lately, he asked me if my séxual needs were being met, then he said he’d really like to make love to me and satisfy me.
I must admit, it makes me feel good that a younger man finds me desirable.
We’ve only been close for about two months, though. Do you think that’s long enough to consider making love?
Please help?
Posted: at 11-10-2012 02:59 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
You must ve been very loosed to warrant ur son's friend to want to sleep with you instead of treating you like a mother. Go ahead and enjoy yourself. I wish ur husband can hear this. Only God knows if you have not done it already.
Posted: at 11-10-2012 04:21 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
woman 4 u to say it out u are already considerin it.SIMPLY SAY NO AND SCOLD HER GENTLY:come unless u don already do am ,make we no dey waste our time here.
Posted: at 11-10-2012 11:16 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
katung44 at 13-10-2012 11:58 AM (12 years ago) (m)
Morally Society frowns on that kind of relationship, but I would like to look at the possible future implications of that kind of relationship. How would he feel about you say three months after you have been sleeping with each other? Though it is not my place to say, when things come for you two to move the relationship to the next level, your age difference my become a factor especially with him. Nigerian men are very particular about age of their partners in a relationship. However, you may want to see how things go with both of you a little more slowly.
Posted: at 13-10-2012 11:58 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
jeffery250 at 7-04-2013 10:36 PM (12 years ago) (m)
Paedophile like u, instead of tryin to find solution to d demise of ur hubby and son, u re dere planning how to screw a kid. U re not even a wife material
Posted: at 7-04-2013 10:36 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
Hmmmm what a sympathetic woman you are.Simply bcos the boy has been helpful nd caring,you want to compensate him with sex.Soon,one of your late husband friend will also show you love nd care then,you will also compensate him with sex.Your middle name should be sex meniac.Goodluck to whatever decision you take its your life,your world nd your watin call.
Posted: at 28-08-2013 10:28 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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