Been Sleeping With My Co-Worker And I’m Feeling Her, Should I tell her?

I’m in a romantic smooch with a lady, ” who I knew for about two years at work. She is married to be truthful but her husband lives and work in another city. We have always been attracted to each other physically. So, now we’ve been “talking” for about six months, and of course we’re having sex, she is so hot and sexy. We work in different departments but during the lunch-break she always comes to our floor to hang out with me. I am very close to her co-workers, they constantly query me about what is going on between us, which I refuse to let them know.

I’m really falling for her because she's so romantic and beautiful and also we get along so great like we are perfectly match. My friends tell me not to catch feelings for her because I might get my feelings hurt. I know this, but for some reason I am willing to take that risk. Even when I go out with other women, it’s not the same like been with her. All I do is to think about her. The only thing is we have this tradition where we only see each other either Monday’s or Tuesday’s. I don’t know if I should ask her where this is going because I don’t want to hear an answer that’s not acceptable. I don’t want to lose the friend relationship as well and the thang thing...  I don’t know if she will accept my heart and file for divorce with her husband, so she will be with me. I know she has feelings for me, but not as strong as mines. Anyone with a beautiful PLAN.

HELP ME!!!. Will it last? Tell me our union will LAST, I dont want it to end now..
Am I wasting my time?
Should I bring up the conversation?

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Posted: at 17-10-2012 04:27 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

So none of the single ladies out there meets ur choice of a wife except this married woman? Anuofia!!! U need deliverance, or have u eaten belusom (luv portion) frm her? Onye nzuzu!!! Ashawo oshii. Get out!!!!!!!!

Posted: at 17-10-2012 05:12 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

U are wasting ur time and stealing wat does nt belong to u. Put urself in her husband soes, wat will u do if ur wife is cheating on u. Answer dat urself.

Posted: at 17-10-2012 07:40 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

boy,
i feel very sorry for you ooooooooo

Posted: at 18-10-2012 07:26 AM (12 years ago) | Grande Master

 

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Posted: at 18-10-2012 11:23 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

You can't steal another man's wife. What God has joined together no man can put asunder. Imagine if you had a wife/gf. Would you like it if another man steals your wife? How would you feel if your wife/gf was cheating on you? You want her to divorce her husband so she'll be with you?#Not good# The fact that she's married and slept with you is already a sign that she's a cheater and will prob cheat on you too as she has done to her husband. Leave her alone. Youre wasting your time. She's married.

Posted: at 18-10-2012 06:24 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

I am not stealing her, this is just what my heart wants

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Posted: at 19-10-2012 03:43 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

I wanted to tell you that office romances are bad enough, but one involving a married woman is really over the top here. I don't think you have enough evidence of where you stand with her to take the risk you are contemplating here. She may be using you to get back at her husband for something he did or you are just another passing fantasy. So, you may want to break this relationship before it breaks your heart.

Posted: at 20-10-2012 08:26 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

 

Posted: at 22-10-2012 09:55 PM (12 years ago) | Grande Master

poster////1..IT WOULD NEVER LAST
2. YOU ARE WASTING YOUR TIME...U dont expect a lady to get a divorce cos of u,,when r husband comes she'll get her satisfaction needed ...she is just usin u for d time  being. ..@50

Posted: at 23-10-2012 01:47 PM (12 years ago) | Hero