Why How Many Men She Slept With Shouldn’t Matter

Date: 15-11-2012 10:53 am (11 years ago) | Author: aadex kebella
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In today’s day and age sex dominates our society. Yes I think waiting till marriage is the best thing to do but I still acknowledge the fact that many of us make a choice to engage in segxwal activity before marriage. Men “getting around” has pretty much been accepted as it is. Women on the other hand get slandered, disrespected, and chastised for their choice to be promiscuous at any point in their lives. I feel this is an unfair double standard and I refuse to judge them or cast a negative light upon them for their choice.

Should the number of men she has slept with really help determine if a man should be with a specific woman? I say how many men she has slept with should not matter. What do her previous partners have to do with who she is today? This is why the whole idea of using her past partners as criteria is unnecessary. Some may argue that it speaks to her character I understand where you are coming from, but I do not fully agree. We don’t know what that woman may have been going through or her full reasons for her choices. Some may just love sex and wanted to explore. Others may have been dealing with some deep issues and did not know how to properly handle it. Either way I think all women when put in the right relationship are capable of operating as the best women they can be. Now if the real reason you hold this against a woman is because you don’t want to have to compete with the level of pleasure her past lovers provided well you just need help then. That should not deter you, if anything let it motivate you to step your game up and become the best lover she has ever had.

Dont really think numbers of her ex really matters does it ?


Posted: at 15-11-2012 10:53 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- wiplash at 15-11-2012 11:16 AM (11 years ago)
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NO.it doesn't matter.
Posted: at 15-11-2012 11:16 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- sophiebaby at 15-11-2012 11:17 AM (11 years ago)
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i can tell the numbr of men av slept with..

it does matter . yes it does

Posted: at 15-11-2012 11:17 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- mannie90 at 15-11-2012 11:29 AM (11 years ago)
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U are sick man#it does matter,is dat what ure promoting????Promiscuity#well if u don't tink bout tomorrow,then u are not helping yourself*go & marry a wh*re & ask if does matter,she'll train ur daughters 2be worse prostitutes,afterall it doesn't matter how many men ur daughter'll sleep with#women should learn †☺ be decent,considering their futures ahead of d pleasures of today#Period
Posted: at 15-11-2012 11:29 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- sophiebaby at 15-11-2012 11:31 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: mannie90 on 15-11-2012 11:29 AM
U are sick man#it does matter,is dat what ure promoting????Promiscuity#well if u don't tink bout tomorrow,then u are not helping yourself*go & marry a wh*re & ask if does matter,she'll train ur daughters 2be worse prostitutes,afterall it doesn't matter how many men ur daughter'll sleep with#women should learn †☺ be decent,considering their futures ahead of d pleasures of today#Period

 Kiss Kiss Kiss

Posted: at 15-11-2012 11:31 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Idbabe at 15-11-2012 12:11 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: mannie90 on 15-11-2012 11:29 AM
U are sick man#it does matter,is dat what ure promoting????Promiscuity#well if u don't tink bout tomorrow,then u are not helping yourself*go & marry a wh*re & ask if does matter,she'll train ur daughters 2be worse prostitutes,afterall it doesn't matter how many men ur daughter'll sleep with#women should learn †☺ be decent,considering their futures ahead of d pleasures of today#Period

If it does matter for women, what about men. It should matter for both parties.  Yes ke!
Posted: at 15-11-2012 12:11 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- dis4real at 15-11-2012 12:56 PM (11 years ago)
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 Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
Posted: at 15-11-2012 12:56 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- 50scent at 15-11-2012 03:27 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: Idbabe on 15-11-2012 12:11 PM
If it does matter for women, what about men. It should matter for both parties.  Yes ke!

Men get frustrated whenever they heard about the number of men , the woman slept with, so what about men either way  Sad
Good point IDBABE  Kiss Kiss Kiss

Posted: at 15-11-2012 03:27 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 15-11-2012 03:29 PM (11 years ago)
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i know of a guy who recently told me he's slept with over 500 women.. and still counting..

Posted: at 15-11-2012 03:29 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- 50scent at 15-11-2012 03:57 PM (11 years ago)
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which is cool  Cool

Posted: at 15-11-2012 03:57 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 15-11-2012 03:59 PM (11 years ago)
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 Cool ?

Posted: at 15-11-2012 03:59 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- 50scent at 15-11-2012 04:06 PM (11 years ago)
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500 still counting he wan break my record i gotta increase today till next week Sad

Posted: at 15-11-2012 04:06 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Idbabe at 15-11-2012 04:24 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: 50scent on 15-11-2012 03:27 PM
Men get frustrated whenever they heard about the number of men , the woman slept with, so what about men either way  Sad
Good point IDBABE  Kiss Kiss Kiss

50cent au u dey?
Posted: at 15-11-2012 04:24 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- dallasp at 15-11-2012 05:45 PM (11 years ago)
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no comment
Posted: at 15-11-2012 05:45 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ela214 at 15-11-2012 05:52 PM (11 years ago)
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y r are calling only women,4 both parties it dose mata.the past shapes the future
Posted: at 15-11-2012 05:52 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 15-11-2012 05:55 PM (11 years ago)
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 Kiss

Posted: at 15-11-2012 05:55 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- 50scent at 21-11-2012 10:13 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: Idbabe on 15-11-2012 04:24 PM
50cent au u dey?

FINE  Cool

Posted: at 21-11-2012 10:13 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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