Is it wrong for a lady to ask a guy for a relationship?

Published 10 years ago by: rambukar kchidi
at 02:52 PM, 21/04/2009 (10 years ago)

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Why is it difficult for ladies to obey their heart desires? Very many ladies sometimes admire guys but finds it hard to voice it out. Some believe our culture forbids it and others feel  it's not just right. Did i hear someone say if a lady does that, the guy will look down on her and may also take advantage of her? C'mon ladies tell us why you cant toast a guy you desire badly.

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paulinuz at 04:05 PM, 21/04/2009 (10 years ago)
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i have had a girl walk up to me in church after one sunday service telling me to meet her in an eatery close to our church. i did and i was not shocked when she confessed that she have been dying to have me come her way and tell her i love her, but since her expectations was not forth-coming, she decided to take the bold step of doing so. it is already happening, so i think the movies are beginning to help change their mentality about who toasts 1st. guess what, it is not even my 1st time of experiencing such.........poster rambukar do not worry, you will soon experience the same.
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Rambukar at 04:48 PM, 21/04/2009 (10 years ago)
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Quote from: paulinuz on 04:05 PM, 21/04/2009
i have had a girl walk up to me in church after one sunday service telling me to meet her in an eatery close to our church. i did and i was not shocked when she confessed that she have been dying to have me come her way and tell her i love her, but since her expectations was not forth-coming, she decided to take the bold step of doing so. it is already happening, so i think the movies are beginning to help change their mentality about who toasts 1st. guess what, it is not even my 1st time of experiencing such.........poster rambukar do not worry, you will soon experience the same.


Sorryoooooooooo! am not expecting any knocks now. I had my experiences too, though we didn't date b/cos she was living very close to me. But I really encouraged her to the best of my ability.
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Recoverd at 05:01 PM, 21/04/2009 (10 years ago)
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I made d 1st move on my guy.
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patienceudosen at 05:06 PM, 21/04/2009 (10 years ago)
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 Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
I'll tell your mother that you forgot our culture Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
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Rambukar at 05:09 PM, 21/04/2009 (10 years ago)
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Quote from: patienceudosen on 05:06 PM, 21/04/2009
Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
I'll tell your mother that you forgot our culture Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Her mum even made the first move on her dad Grin
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welli at 05:21 PM, 21/04/2009 (10 years ago)
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Alotta Ladies do it but Nah.....I don't roll like that.
Besides the fact that the African culture condems it.....I don't trust Naija men!!  Cheesy

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Recoverd at 08:27 PM, 21/04/2009 (10 years ago)
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He is nt naija. Grin
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ustino at 09:07 PM, 21/04/2009 (10 years ago)
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we are in a jet age, time has change, i see nothing wrong in a lady asking 4 a guy out.
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t-prinx at 09:45 PM, 21/04/2009 (10 years ago)
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Is nt wrong but so many guys will take it as an opportunity 2 use d girl & dump her.
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diplomatik at 09:52 PM, 21/04/2009 (10 years ago)
(25079 | Addicted Hero) (f)

Quote from: t-prinx on 09:45 PM, 21/04/2009
Is nt wrong but so many guys will take it as an opportunity 2 use d girl & dump her.


 Huh? Huh? Undecided Undecided Cheesy Cheesy

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Beauti4 at 09:57 PM, 21/04/2009 (10 years ago)
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@pauli i was actually thinkin that u are d poster...didnt knw it wat that one above u....
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ibobobelvis at 10:28 PM, 21/04/2009 (10 years ago)
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Quote from: Recoverd on 05:01 PM, 21/04/2009
I made d 1st move on my guy.
Shocked Shocked Shocked how did u  do it?

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d_man at 11:17 PM, 21/04/2009 (10 years ago)
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Quote from: welli on 05:21 PM, 21/04/2009
Alotta Ladies do it but Nah.....I don't roll like that.
Besides the fact that the African culture condems it.....I don't trust Naija men!!  Cheesy

why?..wetin 9ja men don do again

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chrissiebee at 11:21 PM, 21/04/2009 (10 years ago)
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Quote from: d_man on 11:17 PM, 21/04/2009
Quote from: welli on 05:21 PM, 21/04/2009
Alotta Ladies do it but Nah.....I don't roll like that.
Besides the fact that the African culture condems it.....I don't trust Naija men!!  Cheesy

why?..wetin 9ja men don do again

havent u noticed? yall a bunch of fu.ckers!   Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Grin

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shadzie at 11:23 PM, 21/04/2009 (10 years ago)
(34 | Newbie) (f)

it's not wrong...relationships last better if the girl makes that first move.
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