Is it wrong for a lady to ask a guy for a relationship?

Date: 21-04-2009 2:52 pm (16 years ago) | Author: rambukar kchidi
- at 21-04-2009 02:52 PM (16 years ago)
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Why is it difficult for ladies to obey their heart desires? Very many ladies sometimes admire guys but finds it hard to voice it out. Some believe our culture forbids it and others feel  it's not just right. Did i hear someone say if a lady does that, the guy will look down on her and may also take advantage of her? C'mon ladies tell us why you cant toast a guy you desire badly.

Posted: at 21-04-2009 02:52 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
- paulinuz at 21-04-2009 04:05 PM (16 years ago)
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i have had a girl walk up to me in church after one sunday service telling me to meet her in an eatery close to our church. i did and i was not shocked when she confessed that she have been dying to have me come her way and tell her i love her, but since her expectations was not forth-coming, she decided to take the bold step of doing so. it is already happening, so i think the movies are beginning to help change their mentality about who toasts 1st. guess what, it is not even my 1st time of experiencing such.........poster rambukar do not worry, you will soon experience the same.
Posted: at 21-04-2009 04:05 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- Rambukar at 21-04-2009 04:48 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: paulinuz on 21-04-2009 04:05 PM
i have had a girl walk up to me in church after one sunday service telling me to meet her in an eatery close to our church. i did and i was not shocked when she confessed that she have been dying to have me come her way and tell her i love her, but since her expectations was not forth-coming, she decided to take the bold step of doing so. it is already happening, so i think the movies are beginning to help change their mentality about who toasts 1st. guess what, it is not even my 1st time of experiencing such.........poster rambukar do not worry, you will soon experience the same.


Sorryoooooooooo! am not expecting any knocks now. I had my experiences too, though we didn't date b/cos she was living very close to me. But I really encouraged her to the best of my ability.
Posted: at 21-04-2009 04:48 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Recoverd at 21-04-2009 05:01 PM (16 years ago)
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I made d 1st move on my guy.
Posted: at 21-04-2009 05:01 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- patienceudosen at 21-04-2009 05:06 PM (16 years ago)
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 Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
I'll tell your mother that you forgot our culture Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 21-04-2009 05:06 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Rambukar at 21-04-2009 05:09 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: patienceudosen on 21-04-2009 05:06 PM
Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
I'll tell your mother that you forgot our culture Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Her mum even made the first move on her dad Grin
Posted: at 21-04-2009 05:09 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- welli at 21-04-2009 05:21 PM (16 years ago)
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Alotta Ladies do it but Nah.....I don't roll like that.
Besides the fact that the African culture condems it.....I don't trust Naija men!!  Cheesy
Posted: at 21-04-2009 05:21 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Recoverd at 21-04-2009 08:27 PM (16 years ago)
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He is nt naija. Grin
Posted: at 21-04-2009 08:27 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ustino at 21-04-2009 09:07 PM (16 years ago)
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we are in a jet age, time has change, i see nothing wrong in a lady asking 4 a guy out.
Posted: at 21-04-2009 09:07 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- t-prinx at 21-04-2009 09:45 PM (16 years ago)
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Is nt wrong but so many guys will take it as an opportunity 2 use d girl & dump her.
Posted: at 21-04-2009 09:45 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- diplomatik at 21-04-2009 09:52 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: t-prinx on 21-04-2009 09:45 PM
Is nt wrong but so many guys will take it as an opportunity 2 use d girl & dump her.


 Huh? Huh? Undecided Undecided Cheesy Cheesy
Posted: at 21-04-2009 09:52 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Beauti4 at 21-04-2009 09:57 PM (16 years ago)
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@pauli i was actually thinkin that u are d poster...didnt knw it wat that one above u....
Posted: at 21-04-2009 09:57 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- ibobobelvis at 21-04-2009 10:28 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Recoverd on 21-04-2009 05:01 PM
I made d 1st move on my guy.
Shocked Shocked Shocked how did u  do it?
Posted: at 21-04-2009 10:28 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- d_man at 21-04-2009 11:17 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: welli on 21-04-2009 05:21 PM
Alotta Ladies do it but Nah.....I don't roll like that.
Besides the fact that the African culture condems it.....I don't trust Naija men!!  Cheesy

why?..wetin 9ja men don do again
Posted: at 21-04-2009 11:17 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- chrissiebee at 21-04-2009 11:21 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: d_man on 21-04-2009 11:17 PM
Quote from: welli on 21-04-2009 05:21 PM
Alotta Ladies do it but Nah.....I don't roll like that.
Besides the fact that the African culture condems it.....I don't trust Naija men!!  Cheesy

why?..wetin 9ja men don do again

havent u noticed? yall a bunch of fu.ckers!   Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Grin
Posted: at 21-04-2009 11:21 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- shadzie at 21-04-2009 11:23 PM (16 years ago)
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it's not wrong...relationships last better if the girl makes that first move.
Posted: at 21-04-2009 11:23 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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