Should I tell My Husband That my Son Is Not is His Son?

Dear NAIJAPALS >>>>> I got pregnant for a guy last year December. He started avoiding me when i told him my condition so i decided to break up with him and keep my baby. A month later in January, i hooked up with another guy whomi loved with all my heart. I told him my situation and that i was expecting another guy's baby.



He asked me to abort and then get back to him. I could not bring myself to kill my unborn baby, so i lied to him that i had aborted. Surprisingly, he proposed marriage to me, brought his people to my people and after all that, we moved in together. I've been trying to gain courage to tell him the truth but never got it. When the pregnancy started showing, he assumed it was his baby. I still feared telling him the truth as it would break his heart. I did not want to lose him.

I delivered a baby boy in August and he gave him his father's name. He also organized his baptism and the baby was baptized. He never even once asked about the dates. Some days ago, however, he got word that the other guy was telling people that the baby is his and that he was waiting for him to grow up so he could claim him. This broke my husband's heart. He asked me and that's when i told him that i kept the pregnancy. I know he loves me and the baby because he has always shown it but the pressure is getting to him and he is considering sending me back home and taking care of me from there. I am confused because my mum is not stable enough to house both me and the baby. I can't stand the other guy. And i don't want to lose my husband. What should i do?

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Posted: at 4-12-2012 10:12 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Ur story is really touching. U did d rite thg for nt aborting d baby and u were wrong for nt telling him since. Go to his mum if u have good rapport wit her and if he is close to her too. Explain to her, though at first it'll difficult but i trust women have a soft heart. She will follow u and beg her son.

Posted: at 4-12-2012 10:39 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero

What shuld she do now.. its likely her hubby would throw her out..she needs advice

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Posted: at 4-12-2012 12:52 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero

You are liar that cannot be trusted.

Posted: at 4-12-2012 12:56 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

My dear if you Husband is an IGBO men he will know that your son is his because in IGBO land the person that pay for girl bribe pride is the rightful own of the child but in this you case call he in privet may by that can 12 am told he the truth that you could not bring yourself to kill the unborn baby because is not good what if you that the process to aborted the child you lost you womb will he still marry you that you live the child you he two can have the real one to cal his

Posted: at 4-12-2012 01:31 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie

Wicked woman! You want to eat your cake & have it! That's the highest level of deceit,just pray he doesn't kick ur ass out!

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Posted: at 4-12-2012 02:06 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

BUT SOPHIE WHY NA..I BE THINK SAY U BE GUD GIRL..

Posted: at 4-12-2012 02:25 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Do so at ur own peril, it will surprise u at the result u'll get if u do a paternity test for most homes.

Posted: at 4-12-2012 02:28 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming

 

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Posted: at 4-12-2012 02:44 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero

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Posted: at 4-12-2012 02:47 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero