I love my girlfriend but she's got too many problems for me to deal with? (Page 3)

Na she be that one u dey hold for your pix so?
1) I thinks she needs to see a therapy  or something that can help out or better still she needs to grow up and stop acting like a weak woman...if what u said here is true..
Is she a sickle or something ..this one u are spending so much money on her for just medication is a lot...well Man U know what you wants or needs..follow your what your brain tells u not heart...,hope u feel me..
She is not your wife...if she was I would have advice you to face it but since she is not ...u know your next step...you both needs time out tho

 yours is bad therapy,to use his brain and not the heart. is like saying he need the help
of a lawyer and not that of a psychologist. for someone undergoing an emmotional crises.
the lady needed serious help and this guy stand the best help she need to overcome her
emmotional trauma. the antidote is' love potion' , understanding  and a patience mind.
works of love is work of peace and should be encouraged whereever possible, my dear.

Na fight?

common babes, as a lady, u should know better than to talk like that. You have no idea what the girl is going through and it is a bit unreasonable to offer such a sick advice to a guy who needs help. To the poster, life is not always a bird of roses for some people so i will advice that you talk to your girlfriend and make her share her problems with you and you share ur fears with her. If u truly love her and don't want to lose her as u claim, then, you guys need to sit down and talk. Besides, i dont get the part where you say she doesn't give u breathing space. My dear, u should know ur relationship is in trouble the day ur girlfriend stops caring.

Who hasn't gone through problems in life? She needs to hear stories from other people then, she'll be grateful to God for her life. Seriously, she needs to grow up and stop acting like a baby. You cannot be there for her 24/7 and she needs to know that too. If she's not working let her get a job and get busy. Haba! no be she be the first to go through hardship in life. You need to put your foot on the ground and let her know whats up but, do it with love.

I understand how you're feeling.

Dating such people can be draining, cos you won't have time to do any other thing you'd want to since you have to "Nurse" your girl.
You're her Boy friend, not her Daddy. When you're supposed to have time to work on other things, her crying and attention seeking won't allow you.

She's scarred possibly from her past experiences, so she feels relaxed and cared for now that you're one different person in her life.....so you're making all the difference and, I'm sorry to say, it won't get easier.

I think you should sit her down and talk to her. Give it a try, not to give up, 'cos you can mold her to become the best spouse. TALK TO HER and explain what is happening in the relationship that you don't like. Both of you should have a heart to heart discussion and find the best way forward. Loving out of pity or obligation is not sincere.

Great relationships are those that two great minds share ideas and thoughts......not one depending on another.
Encourage her to make her decisions......and help her deal with her mistakes. if not, you'll have a "Baby" having babies for you.

Let your affection be true.