Are you attracted to men with false self-esteem?

You know those hot, attractive men. They act cool, try to impress you and often act distant like they aren’t looking for a relationship at the moment. They sometimes come on super strong and then back down when you start spending more time together. Often, they disappear when you least expect it. You wonder what you did wrong and why men are like that. You have zero chemistry with the nice guys who seem more genuine and you keep them around as friends. You think they are too needy or clingy and you wish your love magnet would finally match up with someone that you feel something for and that also wants a lasting relationship.

If this sounds like you, you may be drawn to men with false self-esteem. They cover up their insecurities with the mask of being  unavailable. The truth is that underneath them, they are scared little boys and they don’t even know it. They are even fooling themselves thinking they are confident but never stop to realize that they are always single and alone without anyone who truly loves them.

These men are truly afraid of intimacy even though they are the first ones to jump into bed with you. Getting naked is easy, getting naked emotionally is foreign to them. They are unaware of their deeper self or afraid to discover it.  Keeping women away at arm’s length and they always seem to want a woman they can’t have.

To change your love destiny, you must discover a way to build true self-esteem, one that is not based on external conditions or appearances. It is easy to feel good about yourself when you get positive attention, men call after a date and/or respond to your profile. It takes courage and power to stand in dating adversity and still feel like you are the prize, trusting that true love is coming no matter what.

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Posted: at 19-02-2013 10:47 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Dont you ask me question with question?
Where have u been all this while? HUh 

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Posted: at 19-02-2013 10:53 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero

until i kno d group u fall into befor i will giv u a answer

Posted: at 19-02-2013 11:04 AM (11 years ago) | Hero