Question.....how long is loooong enough?

Date: 09-05-2009 9:31 pm (14 years ago) | Author: Osituga
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- at 9-05-2009 09:31 PM (14 years ago)
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How looong does it take for either a man or a woman to know whether this is the right person with whom they can take it to the next level?


Posted: at 9-05-2009 09:31 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
- chrissiebee at 9-05-2009 09:32 PM (14 years ago)
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Shola, bring food i go tell u!!!

Posted: at 9-05-2009 09:32 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- vivian07 at 9-05-2009 09:37 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: osituga on  9-05-2009 09:31 PM
How looong does it take for either a man or a woman to know whether this is the right person with whom they can take it to the next level?


time doesnt count in a good r/s . some peeps stay 2gether for years and call it "court ship" and then 2 weeks after their marriage, they break up..... so its the commitment and love that matters more.
so their is no specific time.
Posted: at 9-05-2009 09:37 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- osituga at 9-05-2009 09:39 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: chrissiebee on  9-05-2009 09:32 PM
Shola, bring food i go tell u!!!

answer me jorr
Posted: at 9-05-2009 09:39 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Rify at 9-05-2009 09:40 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: osituga on  9-05-2009 09:31 PM
How looong does it take for either a man or a woman to know whether this is the right person with whom they can take it to the next level?


Never.......Just take it to the next level and discover shits... Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 9-05-2009 09:40 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- d_man at 9-05-2009 09:41 PM (14 years ago)
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Personally i beleive six months of courthship
is  enough to know if he/she is the right one for marriage or not
There should'nt be specifics on dating time tho..Just let your instincts guide you

Posted: at 9-05-2009 09:41 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- vivian07 at 9-05-2009 09:45 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: d_man on  9-05-2009 09:41 PM
Personally i beleive six months of courthship
is  enough to know if he/she is the right one for marriage or not
There should'nt be specifics on dating time tho..Just let your instincts guide you
serzly, 6 months is not enough to know any 1 be it man or woman...
cos even when u marry the person after 6 month... u will still see some character that u didnt notice during courtship.my dear its not the amount of time, its the intimacy and the understanding that matters.
Posted: at 9-05-2009 09:45 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- chrissiebee at 9-05-2009 09:46 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: osituga on  9-05-2009 09:39 PM
Quote from: chrissiebee on  9-05-2009 09:32 PM
Shola, bring food i go tell u!!!

answer me jorr


ok...u can never know for sure! thats y they say marriage is always a leap of faith!

Posted: at 9-05-2009 09:46 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- osituga at 9-05-2009 09:59 PM (14 years ago)
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Need more
Posted: at 9-05-2009 09:59 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- erikaakpan at 9-05-2009 10:02 PM (14 years ago)
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Jus do it!

Posted: at 9-05-2009 10:02 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- d_man at 9-05-2009 10:06 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: vivian07 on  9-05-2009 09:45 PM
Quote from: d_man on  9-05-2009 09:41 PM
Personally i beleive six months of courthship
is  enough to know if he/she is the right one for marriage or not
There should'nt be specifics on dating time tho..Just let your instincts guide you
serzly, 6 months is not enough to know any 1 be it man or woman...
cos even when u marry the person after 6 month... u will still see some character that u didnt notice during courtship.my dear its not the amount of time, its the intimacy and the understanding that matters.

yep i concur....but
@6 months.......Thats enough time to know sm1 well enough for marriage..trust me

Posted: at 9-05-2009 10:06 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Akpan01 at 9-05-2009 10:07 PM (14 years ago)
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OSI ITS NOT EASY IT REALLY DEPENSE ON SYTUATIONS...AND HOW BOTH THEM FEEL...

Posted: at 9-05-2009 10:07 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- vivian07 at 9-05-2009 10:08 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: d_man on  9-05-2009 10:06 PM
Quote from: vivian07 on  9-05-2009 09:45 PM
Quote from: d_man on  9-05-2009 09:41 PM
Personally i beleive six months of courthship
is  enough to know if he/she is the right one for marriage or not
There should'nt be specifics on dating time tho..Just let your instincts guide you
serzly, 6 months is not enough to know any 1 be it man or woman...
cos even when u marry the person after 6 month... u will still see some character that u didnt notice during courtship.my dear its not the amount of time, its the intimacy and the understanding that matters.

yep i concur....but
@6 months.......Thats enough time to know sm1 well enough for marriage..trust me
some peeps can pretend for 6 months .
Posted: at 9-05-2009 10:08 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Rify at 9-05-2009 10:09 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: osituga on  9-05-2009 09:59 PM
Need more
Na wa ooh...Osi who be this girl?? Huh?

Posted: at 9-05-2009 10:09 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- osituga at 9-05-2009 10:13 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: vivian07 on  9-05-2009 10:08 PM
Quote from: d_man on  9-05-2009 10:06 PM
Quote from: vivian07 on  9-05-2009 09:45 PM
Quote from: d_man on  9-05-2009 09:41 PM
Personally i beleive six months of courthship
is  enough to know if he/she is the right one for marriage or not
There should'nt be specifics on dating time tho..Just let your instincts guide you
serzly, 6 months is not enough to know any 1 be it man or woman...
cos even when u marry the person after 6 month... u will still see some character that u didnt notice during courtship.my dear its not the amount of time, its the intimacy and the understanding that matters.

yep i concur....but
@6 months.......Thats enough time to know sm1 well enough for marriage..trust me
some peeps can pretend for 6 months .

even 6 yrs
Posted: at 9-05-2009 10:13 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- osituga at 9-05-2009 10:14 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: Rify on  9-05-2009 10:09 PM
Quote from: osituga on  9-05-2009 09:59 PM
Need more
Na wa ooh...Osi who be this girl?? Huh?

lool aunty...hehehe
Posted: at 9-05-2009 10:14 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Tomdequola at 9-05-2009 10:16 PM (14 years ago)
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6Months myt b enuf 4 som n myt not be 4 som

Posted: at 9-05-2009 10:16 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- vivian07 at 9-05-2009 10:16 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: osituga on  9-05-2009 10:13 PM
Quote from: vivian07 on  9-05-2009 10:08 PM
Quote from: d_man on  9-05-2009 10:06 PM
Quote from: vivian07 on  9-05-2009 09:45 PM
Quote from: d_man on  9-05-2009 09:41 PM
Personally i beleive six months of courthship
is  enough to know if he/she is the right one for marriage or not
There should'nt be specifics on dating time tho..Just let your instincts guide you
serzly, 6 months is not enough to know any 1 be it man or woman...
cos even when u marry the person after 6 month... u will still see some character that u didnt notice during courtship.my dear its not the amount of time, its the intimacy and the understanding that matters.

yep i concur....but
@6 months.......Thats enough time to know sm1 well enough for marriage..trust me
some peeps can pretend for 6 months .

even 6 yrs
yea, so u dont need time to consider going to the next level with the person.... all that matters is that "chemistry" that bond of friend ship, that open spirit....u know the best thing that can happen to some 1 is to marry ur best friend.
Posted: at 9-05-2009 10:16 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- Kennee at 9-05-2009 10:18 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: osituga on  9-05-2009 09:31 PM
How looong does it take for either a man or a woman to know whether this is the right person with whom they can take it to the next level?



Hhm... Since Women always Have Skeletons in their Closets, l suggest at least a year + one month

Posted: at 9-05-2009 10:18 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Rify at 9-05-2009 10:19 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: vivian07 on  9-05-2009 10:16 PM
Quote from: osituga on  9-05-2009 10:13 PM
Quote from: vivian07 on  9-05-2009 10:08 PM
Quote from: d_man on  9-05-2009 10:06 PM
Quote from: vivian07 on  9-05-2009 09:45 PM
Quote from: d_man on  9-05-2009 09:41 PM
Personally i beleive six months of courthship
is  enough to know if he/she is the right one for marriage or not
There should'nt be specifics on dating time tho..Just let your instincts guide you
serzly, 6 months is not enough to know any 1 be it man or woman...
cos even when u marry the person after 6 month... u will still see some character that u didnt notice during courtship.my dear its not the amount of time, its the intimacy and the understanding that matters.

yep i concur....but
@6 months.......Thats enough time to know sm1 well enough for marriage..trust me
some peeps can pretend for 6 months .

even 6 yrs
yea, so u dont need time to consider going to the next level with the person.... all that matters is that "chemistry" that bond of friend ship, that open spirit....u know the best thing that can happen to some 1 is to marry ur best friend.
Am telling u...Even wen the luv dies,the friendship remains..And tins are worked out again

Posted: at 9-05-2009 10:19 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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