Sensitive Situation: Opinion Naijapals, What Would She Do With The Pregnancy? (Page 7)

Date: 09-05-2013 11:42 pm (10 years ago) | Author: franel
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- Solidstonez at 22-05-2013 06:08 PM (10 years ago)
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- ajanni at 23-05-2013 11:21 PM (10 years ago)
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Posted: at 23-05-2013 11:21 PM (10 years ago) | Grande Master
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- Shydaimma at 24-05-2013 12:59 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: papadip on 12-05-2013 11:04 PM
First of all I was not assuming but speculating as stated in my initial response.. … There is a big difference between speculating and assuming as I understood it.. Assuming is concluding that she did certain things without proof whereas speculating is asking questions or probing, guessing… like why, what, when, ifs and how etc…. this is a situation that will generate more speculations, assumptions, doubts, and so on… in reality it is not a simple to resolve but can be resolved possibly with or without the help of outsiders.  My best advise to her is getting someone that is trustworthy to help spill the bean before the husband and take it from there. Honestly I cannot instruct her fully on what to do based on a two paragraph essay or post. One thing for sure I won’t tell her to abort. You can only solve problems by getting to the bottom of things.

In response to my comment you said; the husband may be cheating also … well that’s guessing as we don’t know…. Should I then say you are assuming? This is not just about cheating it is about life. We are talking about a baby here and eight years of marriage. As for the Ex the law of “Karma” awaits him.

I have witnessed similar situations few times and I can tell you it can destroy one’s life. People kill out jealousy as you know. I know of an individual who was in a similar situation and still cannot get over it 30 years or more after the fact. He felt betrayed, destroyed, stabbed and left bleeding for the rest of his life. When you are married you invest a lot; finance, love, security, emotions, just to mention a few and that can be wiped out overnight if care is not taken.

You cannot absolve her of her responsibility because she was drunk.  Is like saying any drunk could made love with anybody? It is not good enough… one cannot tell the police he or she was drunk (DUI) as an excuse for having an accident.
What is more important is the baby…. Once again I wish everyone the very best.

I am wondering what the cough is all about.


Oh the cough?  It wasn't meant for you. As I was talkin  n typin my oga at the top came in...and I was scared because he might type another thing...that's why I coughed. That's All
Posted: at 24-05-2013 12:59 AM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- Shydaimma at 24-05-2013 01:18 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: papadip on 12-05-2013 11:04 PM
First of all I was not assuming but speculating as stated in my initial response.. … There is a big difference between speculating and assuming as I understood it.. Assuming is concluding that she did certain things without proof whereas speculating is asking questions or probing, guessing… like why, what, when, ifs and how etc…. this is a situation that will generate more speculations, assumptions, doubts, and so on… in reality it is not a simple to resolve but can be resolved possibly with or without the help of outsiders.  My best advise to her is getting someone that is trustworthy to help spill the bean before the husband and take it from there. Honestly I cannot instruct her fully on what to do based on a two paragraph essay or post. One thing for sure I won’t tell her to abort. You can only solve problems by getting to the bottom of things.

In response to my comment you said; the husband may be cheating also … well that’s guessing as we don’t know…. Should I then say you are assuming? This is not just about cheating it is about life. We are talking about a baby here and eight years of marriage. As for the Ex the law of “Karma” awaits him.

I have witnessed similar situations few times and I can tell you it can destroy one’s life. People kill out jealousy as you know. I know of an individual who was in a similar situation and still cannot get over it 30 years or more after the fact. He felt betrayed, destroyed, stabbed and left bleeding for the rest of his life. When you are married you invest a lot; finance, love, security, emotions, just to mention a few and that can be wiped out overnight if care is not taken.

You cannot absolve her of her responsibility because she was drunk.  Is like saying any drunk could made love with anybody? It is not good enough… one cannot tell the police he or she was drunk (DUI) as an excuse for having an accident.
What is more important is the baby…. Once again I wish everyone the very best.

I am wondering what the cough is all about.



Whether u re assuming or speculating it doesn't matter because there is no way you will get an answer(s) for those questions. As you have clearly stated on what she has to do, that's all that need to be said on situations like this. I have a lot of questions to ask on this but I can't ask because there is no way I will get answers since the woman and her ex are not here. Not focusing on the solution and thinking of external factors that led to the outcome might cause people to give the wrong advice out of anger. I was only askin to focus on the solution at hand. If the woman or her ex were to be here, then you can interrogate them and have a better view of how it all started. That's All...cough
Posted: at 24-05-2013 01:18 AM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- ajanni at 24-05-2013 10:27 PM (10 years ago)
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Posted: at 24-05-2013 10:27 PM (10 years ago) | Grande Master
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- Shydaimma at 25-05-2013 05:53 AM (10 years ago)
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- ajanni at 25-05-2013 09:20 AM (10 years ago)
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Posted: at 25-05-2013 09:20 AM (10 years ago) | Grande Master
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- cutelizzy at 25-05-2013 02:49 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: Shydaimma on 10-05-2013 12:38 AM
Sad story bt interestin. Abortion is out of this, she shouldn't even think of it  . The best thing to do is to wait on the husband and tell him what exactly happened, confess to her husband. As for her ex, he is married with kids. That she is pregnant for him doesn't mean she should come between him and his wife and kids. If the husband comes back and ve heard the whole story, is up to him to decide if he wanna take the woman and the child or throw her out. If he throws the woman out,  I pray for her  for God's strenght  in carryin the baby and raising it.  Ofcourse the father of the child (her ex)  can assits but she shouldn't come between him and his wife and kids.  She should beg her husband day and night who knows he might have change of heart. She shouldnt just go after been thrown out, she should keep comin and begging for forgiveness. Some men no matter how much they love their wife, will react aggressively. But that doesnt mean they dont love their wife.  So beggin him can change his heart. Some will relunctantly refuse to accept her and the baby. Well men are different. Let her just wait and see wht her husby will do.
i agree with u,dat advice u can tell her,no matter wat her hubby will take her back if he truely love her........
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- ajanni at 25-05-2013 06:22 PM (10 years ago)
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- latuak at 2-06-2013 10:36 AM (10 years ago)
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hmmmnnnn seriouss suggestions here, madam keep the baby, ask for his forgiveness nd God's forgiveness, take your punishment in any format it comes to you nd don't go to your shit again. I reject this situation in my life
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- ajanni at 2-06-2013 08:53 PM (10 years ago)
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- kacynice at 14-07-2013 12:52 AM (10 years ago)
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ARE YOU KIDDING?? IT MEANS SHE"S MARRIED TO HER EXX N JUST HANGING WITH THE ONE SHE PRETEND TO BE HER HUSBAND?? THIS IS A MESS
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- ajanni at 14-07-2013 05:42 PM (10 years ago)
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- chicco77 at 16-07-2013 10:07 PM (10 years ago)
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- Toks-E at 23-07-2013 03:37 AM (10 years ago)
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I don tire for all these nonsense.....i dey go sleep jare
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- franel at 25-07-2013 05:28 AM (10 years ago)
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- ajanni at 25-07-2013 12:58 PM (10 years ago)
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- franel at 16-08-2013 12:37 PM (10 years ago)
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- ajanni at 16-08-2013 09:50 PM (10 years ago)
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