I have been worried over my husband, because his thought and feelings have been in pieces. It's 3yrs now we got married, he still wears this gold handwrist that was given to him by his ex girl-friend, setting my eyes on it always get me jealous. I have bought many beautiful & expensive handwrist chains for him yet he likes wearing that same old one of his ex.
He suppose to have forgot the past and get along with me being with him presently; I could not understand what is going on through his mind over his ex-girl friend.
I cannot just stand it, for him to still keep things that was given to him from his ex.
Please I'm I over reacting or over bothering myself over him?
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Posted: at 15-05-2013 09:42 AM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
sophiebaby at 15-05-2013 10:06 AM (10 years ago) (f)
Why bother ursef.. the wrist chain is a gift from his ex.. he still loves you woman.. just concentrate on how to keep the spark in your marriage/home... material things do not really matter.. he loves and cherishes the gift..let him keep it.. stop bothering ursef over tins that do not matter.. it might be a birthday gift , thers nothing wrong in keeping things given by an Ex, besides "memories''....Focus on the Now...
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 15-05-2013 10:06 AM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
daqueenie at 15-05-2013 11:52 AM (10 years ago) (f)
The more U̶̲̥̅̊ ask him to stop wearing it, the more U̶̲̥̅̊ make him think of her in the wrong way. So live Ūя life and let him be. Bliv me he wears it not remembering/thinking abt the source.
Posted: at 15-05-2013 11:52 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie
undastanding how u feel but---------ur husband should have gotten rid of it (give it sum1 as a gift if it´s too expensive)becus now u cum 1st as the wife ,ur happiness should be his ultimate goal tell him clearly that u don´t feel comfortable with him wearing the watch......if he can let go of his ex---why not the watch.........if he refuse to let go then i think sumthing is wrong.........simple
Posted: at 15-05-2013 12:00 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
The more U̶̲̥̅̊ ask him to stop wearing it, the more U̶̲̥̅̊ make him think of her in the wrong way. So live Ūя life and let him be. Bliv me he wears it not remembering/thinking abt the source.
You're awesome
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Posted: at 15-05-2013 12:18 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
paul1984 at 15-05-2013 12:34 PM (10 years ago) (m)
Her English Is Dumb.. I Assume She Means Bracelet... There Is Nothing Like Hand Wrist.. Hand Wrist Is A Freaking Bone And You Can Buy It.. Wait A Minute, Unless Maybe Surgery Or Buy From Hospital..
Posted: at 15-05-2013 12:34 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
Girl I feel you ... He should get rid of it expects he still have some kind of feelings for his ex... He still haven't move on yet.. One thing u should do is ... You take the wristwatch and wet it .. When he is not with it... Spoil am by your self... Or just hide it where he cannot see it. Then after sometimes .. Go and sell that shit.
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE.
Posted: at 15-05-2013 12:39 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
interpo777 at 15-05-2013 03:26 PM (10 years ago) (m)
it simplyfies that he regards that gul more than u or else u know what,some men made a huge mistake by leaving their ex guls for new guls there by finding out that they missed a lot of thing,firstly he may be the man that disvirgened the gul and she loved and served him like king ,but men often loose such guls for other guls only to found out they warth nothing.yes he married u but prefers the ex, is he the first man in ur life?worryless 4 ordinary watch woman
Posted: at 15-05-2013 03:26 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac